Guide for strip club?

[yodaisgod1]

First time in a strip club yesterday. A blue pill man, I debated months about it fit my values, and I walked in shaking. I'm now seeing it as a great opportunity to learn. Edit: this post isn't about figuring out how to game the dancers?

What should I know about them? I'll start.

So there's a cover. Typically $15-30. Dress etiquette is typically lax. Clubs are nude or semi-nude.

You walk in. There are dancers on stage. Women approach you to offer lap dances. Lap dances can be in private rooms.

Questions:

• Tips - What are you expected to pay? Are you expected to buy drinks? I bought a $60 private dance. She went a little long. I tipped $40. Thoughts on that?
• What should I do when getting a lap dance - the stripper asked me what I wanted her to do? I said "whatever you'd like." I had no idea what was inbounds, didn't want to exceed, and probably feared her telling me no. What should I say next time?
• Game - Anyone asked a lap dancer to help them get comfortable with women. As in, "where should i touch etc."? A confidence lesson. If not, what can an AFC do to use this setting for learning.
  
• Safety of Private Rooms - Might they falsely accuse you of something? Are there cameras in them? Can venues legally release footage?
• Legality - what is allowed in private rooms? touching breasts? kissing?
• Etiquette - how do you turn down women who approach you? i try to tell them up front. thoughts?

Lastly, a crazy observation. I turned down many girls. The one I finally accepted was just more assertive. She felt me up. It felt good, so I bought a dance. I always thought I judged people by their character rather than how good I felt by their touch. Not so much apparently.

 

[xstang77]

Remember my first experience at 21 when I was visiting a stripper there I was banging at the time,know what it is to "play basketball" made me look stupid that I didn't when a girl wanted me to there.

 

[Tenacity]

First time in a strip club yesterday. A blue pill man, I debated months about it fit my values, and I walked in shaking. I'm now seeing it as a great opportunity to learn.

What should I know about them? I'll start.

So there's a cover. Typically $15-30. Dress etiquette is typically lax. Clubs are nude or semi-nude.

You walk in. There are dancers on stage. Women approach you to offer lap dances. Lap dances can be in private rooms.

Questions:

• Tips - What are you expected to pay? Are you expected to buy drinks? I bought a $60 private dance. She went a little long. I tipped $40. Thoughts on that?
• What should I do when getting a lap dance - the stripper asked me what I wanted her to do? I said "whatever you'd like." I had no idea what was inbounds, didn't want to exceed, and probably feared her telling me no. What should I say next time?
• Game - Anyone asked a lap dancer to help them get comfortable with women. As in, "where should i touch etc."? A confidence lesson. If not, what can an AFC do to use this setting for learning.
  
• Safety of Private Rooms - Might they falsely accuse you of something? Are there cameras in them? Can venues legally release footage?
• Legality - what is allowed in private rooms? touching breasts? kissing?
• Etiquette - how do you turn down women who approach you? i try to tell them up front. thoughts?

Lastly, a crazy observation. I turned down many girls. The one I finally accepted was just more assertive. She felt me up. It felt good, so I bought a dance. I always thought I judged people by their character rather than how good I felt by their touch. Not so much apparently.

Ummm, sir it's the strip club, there's no "game". It's called a "Gentleman's Club" for a reason, it's a place for women to cater to YOU. You go in, drink, and have fun watching slvts bounce their a.ss, there's nothing else to it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

It's a strip club. You're there to watch them dance. Occasionally she'll come over and feel you up if she senses you are smitten and have a fat wallet. Save it for special occasion with the boys.

There is no game to be had. You aren't going to the strip club to pick up chicks.

 

[El Payaso]

A place for women to fleece you.

 

[Dingo]

A place for women to fleece you.

One more place for women to fleece you...

 

[El Payaso]

One more place for women to fleece you...

Right.

 

[Billtx49]

The clubs exist only to party with male friends or boost your sexual appetite if it's low because of stress, worries, or some other b.s. reason that you think you have to go for.
If you have to pay for female attention though, and waste too much $$$ in a club for only for lap dances, then your $$ is better spent with a hooker.

 

[yodaisgod1]

your $$ is better spent with a hooker.

Which is illegal in all 50 states. I don't think it should be, but it is.

 

[Billtx49]

Which is illegal in all 50 states. I don't think it should be, but it is.

I will let the thousands of hookers out there know that fact then.
May take the rest of my natural life, but I'm up for it.…

 

[SgtSplacker]

Don't go into empty strip clubs.

Don't buy them drinks, you can tip or pay for services.

I know it's a free for all in Florida as far as touching goes. Other places are different.

There is sex in the champagne room.

Strippers are mostly damaged women.

When I go to a strip club I'll give all the regular girls a dollar if they ask. If there's one you like make lots of eye contact. If she comes over buy a dance. Don't buy drinks because it's just expensive juice, those girls can't drink on the job. A dance is like $20. Get the dance and try to keep her chatting with you if you like her. Maybe buy another dance if you really like her. I like to keep mutt visits short and sweet.

 

[Juanto]

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[The Duke]

• Tips - What are you expected to pay? Are you expected to buy drinks? I bought a $60 private dance. She went a little long. I tipped $40. Thoughts on that? Never tip any extra. Just pay the bare minimum. you can get sechs in a club for $150.

• What should I do when getting a lap dance - the stripper asked me what I wanted her to do?it all depends on the girl. if you have a connection you can get away with quite a bit(nipples, fingers,etc). I said "whatever you'd like." I had no idea what was inbounds, didn't want to exceed, and probably feared her telling me no. What should I say next time? tell her you want her to see her promise land! Most of the time you can graze her boobs/pu$$y with your hands but don't spend significant time there.
• Game - Anyone asked a lap dancer to help them get comfortable with women. As in, "where should i touch etc."? A confidence lesson. If not, what can an AFC do to use this setting for learning. Get a friend to go to the club with that knows whats up. Or make friends with some guy there.
  
• Safety of Private Rooms - Might they falsely accuse you of something? Are there cameras in them? Can venues legally release footage? you aren't going to get accused of anything unless you pull out a gun and even then they probably won't call the cops. I was on top of a girl fingering her one time right out in the open. they kicked me out and fired the girl. they aren't going to call the cops. they don't want the attention.
• Legality - what is allowed in private rooms? touching breasts? kissing? anything you want is allowed. just find a girl that is willing to offer it before you take her back. not all girls offer every thing.
• Etiquette - how do you turn down women who approach you? i try to tell them up front. thoughts? You try and keep them at your table for as long as possible before they ask you for a dance. when they do finally ask, just say no thanks, maybe later.

 

[The Duke]

I've spent 20years running game in $trip clubs. If you are getting fleeced by women, that is your own fault. Its no different than the real world. The guys that project more value, have more skills, and understand women better will be more successful than the rest. They have what you want, and you have what they want. Its all about salesmanship.

I've pulled more girls out of $trip clubs than regulars bars. I’ve poured shots of Jaeger onto strippers stomachs when they were on the mainstage and licked it off of them. I’ve done about everything sechsual and paid very little to get it. I’ve been kicked out. Danced on the pole once! I’ve partied with a well-known rock band at a club they owned. I’ve taken girls out after meeting them at the club on the same night. Lots of good times. $trippers are just as dysfunctional as the rest of the population.

For some reason, I've always felt very comfortable in those places and it’s my home away from home. Good music, naked women, and alcohol are some of my favorite things to indulge in.

Here are some tips to attract $trippers: (its going to take longer than a few random visits before you have any success)

-Make a grand entrance. You want the whole place to know you have arrived! Shake hands with everybody, smile lots, be loud, draw attention to yourself like an Instagram attention w-hore. The bystanders will think you are somebody important.

-Pick a table that can be easily approached by $trippers. You want something close to an aisle way but still has some privacy. Position your chair so you can stop any girl that walks by. You want to be easily approachable.

-The more girls you get at your table, the more desirable you will be to the others and the more curious the others become. You need to keep cycling girls thru.

-If you are at a BYOB club, have a wide selection of booze in big/unique bottles that draw attention. They have some cheap liquor in a big Tommy Gun bottle that will draw lots of interests. They also have some liquor called “Cahk Burn” that makes for fun conversation. Buy cheap vodka and pour it into a big bottle of Grey Goose. Offer drinks to all the girls. Don’t buy juice either. Drink it straight up. Do shots.

-Dress nice. Wear expensive looking watches. Wear premium cologne and lots of it. These girls know what the money men wear.

-Get to know the staff. Visit with them every time.

-Sit in the same place every time.

-Be funny, be entertaining, be a good conversationalist. The girls will appreciate this and reward you for it.

-Visit a girl 3-4times before you ask for the number.

-Rarely buy lap dances.

-Physical touch is important. You can build attraction quicker with more touching.

-Pay attention to body language. If its not positive, then don't waste your time.

-Always tip a dollar or two when they are on stage. Walk up to the stage, compliment them, or say something funny. Throw them 2 bucks and tell them to come see you when they get done.

-Always remember their names. Keep notes in your phone to help your remember.

-Use the same waitress every week. Get one that knows the club gossip and who works when.

I've had many girls sit on my lap and have a good conversation that lasted for over a half hour. After a few visits, I usually got the phone number from them. And if I didn't then who cares, I had a good time anyways.

 

[dustmuffin]

It's been along time since I have been to a strip club. I always bought a beer, watched and was on my way. I would never tip them or get a lap dance.

What is the point in that? Cheaper to take a girl out and f uck them.

 

[C00lAF]

Which is illegal in all 50 states. I don't think it should be, but it is.

So is the music in your ipod...

 

[NSX-R]

I was recently in a strip club for a couple of times. Both times i end up fcking the most attractive striper. I didn't used any tricks. I just went straight into the dessert. Good clothing, ****y behavior and my looks. That's all i needed.I didn't had any convo with them other than asking their name, where they are from and the other formalities. I started with some lap dances and i was too good with them so they wanted me to fck them. Both times was unbelievable. And i payed almost nothing.

 

[youngprodigy]

My first time in a strip club was funny. I was 17 at the time (had a friend's ID) for the legal age of 19 here where I'm from. I told my friend to show me the best strippy with the hottest girls, and it was away from the suburbs and into downtown, drove there and damn the girls were hot. For the strip clubs around here theres no entrance fee, but you have to buy a drink to have the women approach you. I always wait until the hot ones come, which is probably after turning down 6-7 of em. At that point I just say let's go, and I remember getting this latina chick that was fit and a 10 on the physical scale. I got a lap dance for 40 and head for 80. They'll try high balling you but don't bite.

I gave up on that life tho since ss, I recommend the same