"Don't put p-ssy on the pedestal" and "stop giving a f-ck" are horrible pieces of advice.

[C00lAF]

I have run into a lot of the types, like btown, who try to act all high mighty and noble. They talk about how to "pursue a life purpose" but if getting laid or sex is not important to you guys, then what the h3ll are you doing on a forum dedicated to making men good with women?

Everyone on here wants to hear the happy ending.

Go to school, get an education, get a noble career, work hard, be society's role model, and you will have success.

I am here to tell the truth, it doesn't work like that.

Am I telling these guys to throw away offers from Google and Goldman Sachs so they can bartend? Phuck no.

I am telling these guys don't be so surprised if you are making six figures and have that sort of a job yet the guy working at a bar is getting more p-ssy than you.

Do not be surprised if the guy working at a bar is getting the kind of p-ssy you pay outta your wallet for for free.

My point with this thread is that getting hot girls requires certain sacrifices and for guys who want to get hot girls, they need to know of those sacrifices.

You're not going to get hot girls, at least not a lot of them, if you work some nerdy office job and have geeky hobbies. Hot girls will avoid you, that's the reality. Other than an expensive LTR, you're not going to have success period.

If you think that is trying too hard and you want to live a life free of women, then do yourself a favor and get off of this forum because you are stopping other men from knowing the truth.

Sacrifices? Dude i know some people who snort cocaine and make no money and still get the girl you jack off to.if i have to sacrifies a 6 figure income for some trash puzzy ill just hire a high end hooker,problem solved. Check yourself bro.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Sacrifices? Dude i know some people who snort cocaine and make no money and still get the girl you jack off to.if i have to sacrifies a 6 figure income for some trash puzzy ill just hire a high end hooker,problem solved. Check yourself bro.

That was my point, can you not read?

If? How about get a six figure income first and then lets talk.

 

[C00lAF]

That was my point. Can you not read?

If? How about get a six figure income first and then lets talk.

Did your mother teach you to be civilized? Did you just get triggered by a 19 year old man?
plus i will be making more than 6 figures because i belive in my abilities and i belive that i have what it takes,cash is on my pedestal,not some meat.

Ps:90% of this population hates you cause you betrayed lord commander jon snow.

 

[btownbuck2012]

That was my f-cking point you dumbf-ck, can you not read?

If? How about get a six figure income first and then lets talk.

Check your brain bro, you're sounding like an idiot and Cage is a terrible actor.

^Check out how butt hurt this dude gets whenever someone disagrees with him regarding his advice on women. #VIRGINALERT

 

[btownbuck2012]

I have run into a lot of the types, like btown, who try to act all high mighty and noble. They talk about how to "pursue a life purpose" but if getting laid or sex is not important to you guys, then what the h3ll are you doing on a forum dedicated to making men good with women?

Everyone on here wants to hear the happy ending.

Go to school, get an education, get a noble career, work hard, be society's role model, and you will have success.

I am here to tell the truth, it doesn't work like that.

Am I telling these guys to throw away offers from Google and Goldman Sachs so they can bartend? Phuck no.

I am telling these guys don't be so surprised if you are making six figures and have that sort of a job yet the guy working at a bar is getting more p-ssy than you.

Do not be surprised if the guy working at a bar is getting the kind of p-ssy you pay outta your wallet for for free.

My point with this thread is that getting hot girls requires certain sacrifices and for guys who want to get hot girls, they need to know of those sacrifices.

You're not going to get hot girls, at least not a lot of them, if you work some nerdy office job and have geeky hobbies. Hot girls will avoid you, that's the reality. Other than an expensive LTR, you're not going to have success period.

If you think that is trying too hard and you want to live a life free of women, then do yourself a favor and get off of this forum because you are stopping other men from knowing the truth.

You make it sound like guys with full time professional jobs are incapable of pulling the kind of ass bartenders do. That's simply not true. That's my problem with your posts. This all or nothing nonsense crap. Your point about investing time and energy into picking up women is true. There are absolutely guys out there who don't realize that having the romantic life you want takes effort, but it doesn't mean you can't have room for anything else (a career, hobbies, friends, etc.) outside of women. Your posts encourage men to make women the focal point of their whole existence and that is just stupid.

Have you ever considered the fact that there are posters on this forum who have pursued that all or nothing approach and found it to be rife with destruction and are now trying to help others realize that meaningful, lasting success with women is actually a-part of a more balanced approach to life?

 

[C00lAF]

Lmao @admins why did you remove his point of view about me? (Insult)

 

[Urbanyst]

OP.. the goal is to be high value and hot yourself so that hot girls want you without you having to work much to get them.

That's what I did. These are my priorities in order:

#1 Health
#2 Money
#3 Family and Friends
#4 Hot girls

 

[Julian]

OP you missed the point big time broski

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

You make it sound like guys with full time professional jobs are incapable of pulling the kind of ass bartenders do. That's simply not true. That's my problem with your posts. This all or nothing nonsense crap. Your point about investing time and energy into picking up women is true. There are absolutely guys out there who don't realize that having the romantic life you want takes effort, but it doesn't mean you can't have room for anything else (a career, hobbies, friends, etc.) outside of women. Your posts encourage men to make women the focal point of their whole existence and that is just stupid.

Have you ever considered the fact that there are posters on this forum who have pursued that all or nothing approach and found it to be rife with destruction and are now trying to help others realize that meaningful, lasting success with women is actually a-part of a more balanced approach to life?

My post simply hinted that money and career alone won't get you women but really, you don't have time for much dude.

You have a high paying job, you're working those hours and grinding. In your off time, you have to make sacrifices. Instead of playing videogames, find a nice hobby or lifestyle choice that gets you women and gets you laid. It's not about romance, my posts aren't about that, it's about getting laid and scoring and that takes effort.

As for professional jobs versus bartending, they are. Bartending is not a good career but it makes it easy to get laid and score, especially with hot girls. Most other professional jobs like banker and such have long grinding hours and make it tough to get laid or invest in much other than the job itself.

What I do think is that a guy can grind it in his professional career and then on the side, work on building a life that draws attractive women in but that life REQUIRES EFFORT and he has to be honest with himself and admit that.

 

[SuckItUp]

I said it and I will explain why.

Throughout PUA there has been these two quotes that get thrown in the faces of guys who want to do well with women but need help. Both of them are horrible pieces of advice because they get taken the wrong way and ultimately misinterpreted as "stop pursuing women".

"IDGAF"

Sure, stop giving a f-ck man. Don't bother to improve with women or trying to get laid, I am sure hot girls will accept you for who you are, a fat videogame nerd that just doesn't give a f-ck about those sluts.

I think at some point PUAs and the experts gave up and just decided to tell this to guys they feel like they couldn't help instead of growing a pair and telling them that they just don't have what it takes to pull hot girls.

Because guys lose track of the fact that they are trying to get hot girls and instead get lost in the process.

It actually takes work to get hot girls, real work. In order to get hot girls, you have to first and foremost be honest with yourself about getting hot girls, don't mislead yourself because men don't do that.

When you lie to yourself, you mislead yourself and get lost further down the road, you don't even know why you started this whole thing. You start obsessing over politics, gossip, and other pointless garbage instead of actually wanting to get hot girls.

Guys who get hot girls are honest to themselves about it.

They do things that attract hot girls, they are honest with themselves, and then they get hot girls. They create a lifestyle that gets them hot girls and that is why they beat the guy who lies to himself about it.

While the guy who lied to himself about it is too busy actually hating what women do and how terrible they are, the guy who is honest about it deals with what hot girls do and stands a better chance of getting with them.

To those guys, getting hot girls is a goal, that is why they stand a better chance. The goal is clear in their mind and they will go for ways to make it a reality.

These are the guys who will rush that top fraternity in college instead of cry about how greek life is so conformist.

These are the guys who will move to the area of the city where the girls are hot instead of listen to losers that say location doesn't matter.

These are the guys who will pick hobbies and lifestyle choices that attract hot girls instead of playing videogames because they "DGAF" about what others think.

So I say

1. DO GIVE A F-CK.

You want to f-ck hot girls? Do give a f-ck about what hot girls want. If hot girls want toned abs and a social guy, then do give a f-ck about being that guy. Can't be that guy? Then get off the forums and stop wasting your time.

2. IF YOU WANT TO GET HOT GIRLS, INVEST IN THAT.

Yes, put p-ssy somewhere high in your priority of things in life if it means so much to you because getting hot girls is an investment (something I will talk about later). Getting hot girls requires certain tactics to your lifestyle. Sure being a software engineer making 6 figures might look good on paper but don't say I didn't warn you if your friend working as a bartender that makes half of what you make is getting hot girls.

Not that you throw a career way in the pursuit of hot girls but you find ways to get hot girls and make some sort of sacrifices in that regard, because it will require a sacrifice to some degree on your part.

You missed the boat. IDAGF is about living life on your own terms, and not doing things simply because you think it will attract women. With women the harder you try the harder you fail. The more you care the worse of you are. The point is to do things for yourself.

For example, you go to the gym and workout to be in shape to feel good and to prevent health problems. You dress well and clean up because you respect yourself and you feel better when you do so. And so forth and so on.

Is there effort involved? Sure, but when you invest you need to do for yourself. Every guy here has at sometime or another overinvested in a girl or girls and the return has been next to nil.

There's a lot more to life than women. People come here to talk about it because they want to expand on their knowledge base, and get a better handle of things they may be making mistakes on. It's about self improvement.

When you do things for yourself you are not outcome dependent. Outcome dependency kills a woman's attraction quickly.