Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just empty and and basic responses like if you owe them something or they feel entitled from the get go and I feel like they want the guy to go all out for them. In many instances I just leave them hanging and not fall into kissing their ass. Not sure if its time for a change of setting to real life or apply new strategies. I would appreciate your input.
The problem is most girls on dating sites do not want to date. They want attention. They use the dating sites to put their face and image out there to make themselves feel important and wanted.
It gives them power and boost their egos to know how easy it is to post in a pic of themselves standing in front of a mirror in a bikini with stupid duck lips, and within hours 50 to 100 guys will tell them how hot they are and literary beg them for a date.
Men want sex. Women want attention.
Women get the same satisfaction in their brain chemestry by getting flooded with attention from multiple guys. They get put on a pedistle and they haven't even agreed to one date yet.
So imagine how after a decade of this type of behaviour, imagine how detrimental this is to the dating world. Women are already pedestalized before they say yes to one date.
Women get endorphins from the attention they receive. This is why they don't care and this is why they ignore most men. Most of them arent interest in dating. They are only after attention and they are getting it.
The way to fix this is for guys to stop using inline dating. This works the same as the NC Challenge. When you starve them from what they crave the most it puts them off of their game.