Life is messed up dude. Get used to it.
Beautiful people don't hang with average people, of any gender
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LOL...I think this is what happened with me, though I do dress decently and stay in shape, I have a narrow face, 5'8" and bald. Of course, the bald part isn't so bad as I noticed some women don't mind it...I guess, but height I can't and face I cannot do anything about. I don't have the chiseled facial figure of a pretty boy or rugged jawline.
Only certain time of mousy girl would be into that...you know, the cute, but plain looking ladies that dress down. Look nice in bikini's, but not entirely solid, but cute, slender and soft. I dated woman like this, she kind of reminded me of Olive Oil when clothed (had a long torso), but in her Victoria Secret Bra and Panties and completely nude and fair skinned...she was a knock-out, at least to me. We were pretty hot n heavy...so she didn't even need to have hard body.
devilkingx2
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I meant that "I'm too good to hang out with those I perceive as beneath me" is a messed up outlook on life that isn't going to do you any favors
I never made that claim.
My time is valuable and I spend it on my best options just like most people. Why is that messed up and what does it have to do with how far it will get me?
It's always the less successful people that want to get preachy and push morals.
devilkingx2
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but then you defend that exact claim in the very next line without clarifying how what you are claiming is different.
did you know that being rude to say, waiters at a restaurant is considered a major red flag for both genders because treating people as if they are beneath you is indicative of huge personality flaws?
or anecdotally, everyone I've ever known who thought like that was intensely hypocritical about it. like people who thought that people in high school were just dumb kids... while being fresh out of high school and in their first month of college.
or people who were 17 and thought that 16 year olds were too immature and childish for them.
so you're over here looking down on "window washers" and yet, I don't see you talking about the life saving brain surgeries you perform
you sound like you only need a mirror to masturbate
Look man.. I never said I treat these people badly. I just said I don't go out of my way to make friends with them.
You only have so much time to build relationships. I want to spend that time on the highest value relationships possible, which are people on my level who I have more in common with. If I start talking to a window washer and we click.. that's fine. But I don't go out of my way to make relationships with homeless people and McDonald's workers because I don't have the time and I don't see the reason why I should.
You won't find any dude in Hollywood trying to be my friend or your friend either. Why would they? They have much better options. I don't know why this is so hard to understand.
devilkingx2
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In September of 1997, Keanu Reeves, who now has millions of dollars, decided to spend a West Hollywood morning with a homeless man, talking, sharing and treating him as an equal. Not recoiling in disgust at the man's belongings is one thing, but sharing, conversing and really spending some time sitting down with the less fortunate isn't something that people usually do while in the United States and not part of a program. "
http://www.ranker.com/list/the-7-greatest-_true_-keanu-reeves-stories-ever-told/joanne
where I live mcdonalds workers will make $15/hour soon so they're going to be rather well off and probably shouldn't be lumped with homeless people
also, in the universe I live in, someone's job has nothing to do with who they are, the fact that you think it does makes me think you don't know what you're talking about and are just rather spoiled.
"You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You are not your ****ing khakis." - fight club
Milano
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But still you are. You think the scrubs wouldnt kill to be the Roman Emperor back in the day? We are so used to jobs and titles telling our social group what kind of worth we have that we just cant eliminate it. On one hand it doesnt help having a good job if you are a fat stinky shy fuk, on the other hand most of us in here know that we should work out and have some style so if you can get a nice job as well or at least above average it certainly will help you more. Everything counts, absolutely all you can achieve that is considered high status by society.
It doesnt matter who you are, choose to become someone who is good with girls for instance. If that is not you at this moment in time guess what, you need to change who you are now! This side of you I am sure you have, even if it might be very small at the moment. Let it grow, let the nerdy side chill. When you feel you are at a decent level with girls, perhaps let the nerdy side out a little to breath, and see how it fares, then adjust.
devilkingx2
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so you'd want to hang out with an accountant because doing math all day screams interesting person, charismatic leader and terrific conversationalist to you? of course not.
meanwhile a low level retail job requires dealing with people all day long, so interesting stories are guaranteed and good people skills are a requirement.
this is why being an athlete or musician gets you more girls than being a doctor or lawyer
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That explains why I'm alone
So what dude?
Its not like he became best friends with the guy and started hanging out with him every day and inviting him to house parties. He did one little publicity stunt to look he is giving back. All his real friends are still people on his level.. not homeless people. Celebs do this stuff all the time. Most people are smart enough to see through it.
Your career totally matters. You get your facts from Hollywood movies? No wonder you're having a hard time understanding common sense.
The lifestyle of a doctor vs. a bus driver is very different. There is a reason people mostly make friends with people on their level with similar income and similar jobs. They can relate to them better.
If I'm a banker and I can make friends with other bankers.. why would I go out of my way to make friends with a cab driver? Sure.. I'll talk to him and shoot the breeze, but I'm not going to ask for his number and start inviting him to house parties when I have higher value friends.
Isn't this the poster that made a thread complaining about "passive aggressive attacks"?
Because @bigneil suggested that he would rather take relationship advice from someone that had a successful ltr??
He was offended by that and offended by a thread about "shoes".
.....and now it does appear that he's passive aggressively attacking this young man....@devilkingx2....with this..
"It's always the less successful people that want to get preachy and push morals."
Just saying if you're going to start threads crying about passive aggressive attacks and reporting threads and getting them deleted....you
better be beyond reproach.........or else you come across not only as a crybaby but also as very hypocritical...
I'm so pleased to read this! I never knew I had such an effect on Urbanyst (though I'm sure I offended them on their other SS accounts as they just joined).
Soon there will be software to detect which accounts are the same people, based on their vocabulary and misspellings, etc.
What I wouldn't give to publish a map showing which users own which accounts. Also, if we knew that, we could show that most of the flak certain users get comes from the same people via an array of accounts. We'd quickly see that these individuals are agents of Feminism here to make sure men don't get too smart. It would become evident who the real DJ Patriots are. They don't want any more Trumps.
Soon there will be software to detect which accounts are the same people, based on their vocabulary and misspellings, etc.
What I wouldn't give to publish a map showing which users own which accounts. Also, if we knew that, we could show that most of the flak certain users get comes from the same people via an array of accounts. We'd quickly see that these individuals are agents of Feminism here to make sure men don't get too smart. It would become evident who the real DJ Patriots are. They don't want any more Trumps.
Post #23 (notice he doesn't use the option to notify you of his complaint....)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/moderators-and-invisible-insults.239561/page-2
All you seem to do is go around insulting people and starting drama.
You never seem to actually discuss the topic of the thread. You discuss the posters in the thread like a troll. If this is something you want to keep doing, I will keep reporting you to the Moderators like I've been doing.
I have never reported @bigneil because he was not trolling. He was just being honest.
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wifehunter
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Is lonely life, but plenty of stares.
Oh dear, he's threatening to go tell tales to the principle......like he has been doing. Poor baby is obviously upset.
Very controlling this poster seems to be.........he seems to be the voice on how people should behave around here, how the
moderators should run the website, who should and should not be banned, what constitutes as "passive aggressive attacks", what constitutes
as offensive and not offensive, what people should contribute to what threads......
Very controlling and demanding for an account that's only 1.5 months old..........very suspicious when new accounts start throwing their
weight around and throwing out "troll" here and there.....
What would the old PK say in this situation? Ah yes, this posters' codependent and whiny behavior reveals his beta nature....
No. I'm just sick of trolls taking threads off the rails because they don't like certain people.
Stay on topic and talk about what the OP posted. Otherwise start your own thread in the Anything Else section. If you keep trolling I will keep reporting you.
Who Dares Win
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Its' not only about beautiful people I would say winners segregate themselves from the losers.
Being a winner its not just a matter of genetic, look and success but a mix of all of them.
Most of the times these factors influence each other, a genetically gifted guy gets treated good so he becomes more confident and daring so join a sport team which makes him physically well built.
That adds even more confidence which allow him to perform better at school then at work making his financially stable.
Then you may have a guy with a great mind but genetically handicapped in terms of height and frame, he gets bullied and ignored by teachers he doesnt believe in himself so he doesnt dare in his studies and gets stuck in a mediocre job which doesnt allow him to eat healty, relax and practice sport therefore worsening his physical condition.
Unless you are born with great cards the only chance you have is to hijack this deterministic cycle.
Being a winner its not just a matter of genetic, look and success but a mix of all of them.
Most of the times these factors influence each other, a genetically gifted guy gets treated good so he becomes more confident and daring so join a sport team which makes him physically well built.
That adds even more confidence which allow him to perform better at school then at work making his financially stable.
Then you may have a guy with a great mind but genetically handicapped in terms of height and frame, he gets bullied and ignored by teachers he doesnt believe in himself so he doesnt dare in his studies and gets stuck in a mediocre job which doesnt allow him to eat healty, relax and practice sport therefore worsening his physical condition.
Unless you are born with great cards the only chance you have is to hijack this deterministic cycle.
Like I said.......this poster with the account that's 1.5 months old believes he's the voice on what goes and how people should act......
Going by the PM's I've received, I'm not the only one who thinks you were a banned poster operating under a new name......
You'd usually see some humility from such a new member, not the absolute arrogance shown by this poster when he starts a thread questioning why the moderators banned another member. It's quite unusual for a very new member to show that amount of arrogance......unless they've
shown it here before........a banned poster under a new name......
You, my dear boy, are the troll.......and a racist troll too going by what you posted in another thread.
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