Advice you'd give your teenage self

[youngprodigy]

Only 19 so nothing available on my part. But curious to know what you experienced users would say

 

[wifehunter]

They only LOOK beautiful.

But, they are trash.

 

[backseatjuan]

Go to gym, get out more often, start a business.

 

[lizardking82]

Build yourself and women will be there for you at all times, different kinds, with big boobs and small ones, young and outdated ones, puffed ****oris and not puffed ****oris ones. Please, build yourself.

 

[Infern0]

Stop watching porn.

You do that youll figure everything else out.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Dont chase em, replace em.

 

[Bingo-Player]

spend as much time as you possibly can with all different types of women , you learn from them and interaction with them becomes so much easier

they all follow pretty much the same script and once you work that out you have the keys to Pandora box

id also wish i could give myself all the knowledge i have now , but obviously that comes with experience over the years so impossible

 

[Trainwreck]

Major in engineering, computer, or business analytics.

Educate myself that the path to wealth isn't becoming a lawyer, doctor, or high tier business job portrayed on tv

Consider the military or community college

Accept that you are a black man and that it will stick with you

Quit assuming other people have it good based on how they present

Most of society is bullshhvt, you were fed mostly bs about life

 

[Reykhel]

They only LOOK beautiful.

But, they are trash.

The words of a man who's not getting laid...

Labelling all women "trash" (or garbage...in another post) is simply a buffer against rejection (see The Rational Male: Buffers)

The poster's not willing to develop his introverted antisocial personality and put himself out there and risk being rejected.....much
easier to sit at home in the comfortable cocoon of his dingy bedroom in front of his computer screen and judge your failure
with women down to the fact that all women are "trash"......

...this in turn leads to delusional thinking and a smug sense of self importance i.e He thinks his ****e don't stink. The "I'm too good for them
mentality, so why should I even bother"

When our wounds are revealed to us it allows for the possibility of growth.

No need for a thank you card.

 

[wolf]

Now listen up Wolf Cub! You have got your head in the mud and your ass in the air and if you don't pull your head up then you are going to get royally ****ed up that ass by a prison cell mate called life!
All of that **** that you have been carrying around on those tired young shoulders.. let it go. The **** doesn't belong to you.. It belongs to the Adults around you that are ruled by Fear, Obligation, Guilt and Regret.
Fear nothing but failure, Be obliged to none other than yourself, Don't feel guilty for speaking your own mind and if you fail.. then get up and try again only harder. Trust your instincts and you will never live a day of regret in your life! Never give up and never lose sight of who you are because one day you will be a corpse and the world will just keep on spinning.
Don't swallow the Feminist agenda that flows heavily through your family and always stand up for you. Never put ***** on a pedestal or make a woman the queen of your Kingdom unless you want to serve as her peasant. So relax, have fun and use condoms!


I think that covers it.. mostly

 

[Trunks]

Only 19 so nothing available on my part. But curious to know what you experienced users would say

Bed as many girls as you can and want. Don't get into serious relationships. Do well in school. Get involved in projects outside of school to learn valuable skills.

 

[Reykhel]

Think long term with regards to your life planning and goals (Health and fitness, financial education and finances, personal development etc).....things within your circle of influence

Think short term with regards to women.......essentially fickle creatures and outside of your direct circle of influence....

Educate yourself financially. i.e. learn how money works and make it work for you long term. Financial freedom is your aim.

Your body is a temple.....treat it as such. Eat right and always stay in pristine condition.

Take up a passion/hobby and master it. A martial art or a musical instrument for example.

Travel as much as possible......travel is the one thing you can spend money on and it will make you rich....

View all relationships as temporary. Always have the mindset that "this will end one day, through rejection or death. And I'm at peace with that."

Always dress well.

Learn the art of detachment. Over attachment to things, people and ideas leads to suffering.

 

[Bible_Belt]

All the girls your age are going to be old and fat when you're 40, but when you are that old, you can get one much younger.

 

[sazc]

They're all fronting.
Everyone is wearing a mask.
They are feeling as vulnerable and weak as you are.
Dont let them fool you.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Still a teen but I wish I could have told myself a few years ago to do away with religion, at least for a while. That was one of my biggest inhibitors for a dream I am not sure I'm still able to achieve.

 

[sazc]

Still a teen but I wish I could have told myself a few years ago to do away with religion, at least for a while. That was one of my biggest inhibitors for a dream I am not sure I'm still able to achieve.

I did religion when I was 11,12,13. It was great for my self esteem. Just when I was feeling really lost and unloved, I felt like I belonged.
I am not a believer, haven't been for some time, but dont regret spending a few years on it.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

Just go for girl 2. Find out what those unforgettable titties really looked, felt and tasted like. Take her virginity.

Otherwise stop caring. Forgot about girls 1 and 3. 1 is clearly damaged and 3 is a chav disguised as an emo. Focus on your studies more but don't forget to hang out with your buddies and try to get to know them more deeply. You have some good adventures together anyway. Try to keep that up.

Also hit the actual gym and do a weekly martial art instead of 'working out' at home, it's not that scary, no one even talks to you unless you seem like you want them to.

 

[AlphaNate]

Focus on finances.

Good luck getting 19-year-old me to listen, though.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Start a business

 

[youngprodigy]

Real interesting stuff