The number one reason guys don't do well in the game after improving so much.

[9Volt]

If some dude complians his entire state or even worse several states or even his country is the "issue" in him being unable to get his specific top of the line chicks he's delusional and completely not self aware.

If you're a failure in an entire state, states, country your not going to automatically become a rock star elsewhere.

 

[ubercat]

"Too often I would hear men boast of the miles covered that day, rarely of what they had seen."

Let s assume u live in hayseed USA

Seriously guys. U have to dig a bit deeper. E.g. country towns have horses. Chicks r horse mad. Go to the local pony show or whatever. Country towns have tourists. There's probably 1 or 2 decent cafes become a regular. Like younger chicks. Get a part time gig in adventure tourism or if u haven't got the time, get to know people who do. I could go on. Moving for the adventure or because your industry is dying in that location is fine. Get a job. Then local gym, cafe and bar. Then join the new in town meetup group..Instant new life. But if u think the new town sux or if u think it's primo. Guess what... you re correct

 

[zekko]

Have you guys ever noticed that some cities/towns have significantly more attractive women than others? Obviously communities with a lot of wealth or that have big universities will have a lot of attractive young women running around. There's one city in particular that I go to, and every time I'm there I'm amazed at how hot and plentiful the women are there. Then there's where I live, where the average female could pass for a water buffalo.

 

[playa99]

Location does NOT matter. Women should not be a priority in life. They are an addition to an already kick-a$$ life.

Now you can use an extreme example to prove your point, or you can accept that you are where you are and make the most of it.

As @deesade says, I've seen most of the major cities be complained about. The onus falls upon you.

 

[RangerMIke]

I agree. But more simply put. Good marketing trumps product development. Product development (Self-improvement) will do you no good without a focused marketing effort towards women you are interested in.

Marketing is simply putting yourself into a situation where you can close a sale, if you don't ask for the sale (ask her out... make a move) you will not achieve success.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

I've been on this website long enough now to see different guy's complain about all sorts of different locations.

- Miami
- Chicago
- London
- Texas
- New York
etc etc.

I just think that it's such bullsh*t. Move all you want, but you'll still be a guy with no hustle.

Sometimes, you have to wonder why 1 million sexual options (or whatever) isn't enough. Maybe, just maybe, it could be you that's the problem.

I think it comes down to preference too. For example, a guy who is not into Asian women will hate living in San Francisco while a guy that isn't attracted to Latinas will probably hate Miami.

In NYC, we have a lot of everything and women outnumber men so it's a good city to be in. Does not take away from the fact that location indeed matters a lot.

 

[Von]

Location will not get you laid

Location will just widden your horizons

Take opportunity to grow yourself and yourself

If you come back blaming the market. Than "you" are the factor of your results

 

[devilkingx2]

location is pretty important i'd say but as long as you're in an area with more single girls your age than you could hit on/meet in a lifetime, then you're good to go. that can be as little as 10,000 single women between 18 and 30 or as much as over a million.

there's a million more factors to consider though, some places are filled with fat people, some places are filled with liberals and feminists that'll scream rape if you say hi, some places might be way too conservative for your tastes and be filled with girls who dress like nuns and want husbands, other places might be cold or rainy all the time so everyone is always in a heavy winter jacket and rarely doing anything outdoorsy, some places might be hot/tropical all the time, which is great if you've got the body to be shirtless on the beach, may not be so great if you don't, etc.

 

[ubercat]

Mate I d do well in an Amish town. So much easier to be the bad boy they re all secretly tingling for.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Location will not get you laid

Location will just widden your horizons

Take opportunity to grow yourself and yourself

If you come back blaming the market. Than "you" are the factor of your results

I am tired of the motivation BS said from you and 9volt, seriously, phuk off. Get out in the real world and actually try your luck in various areas instead of regurgitating garbage from a motivational poster.

 

[Von]

I am tired of the motivation BS said from you and 9volt, seriously, phuk off. Get out in the real world and actually try your luck in various areas instead of regurgitating garbage from a motivational poster.

Its because I am in the real world, I can write what I write.

If you don't want to improve, dont waste time reading me.
On my side i'll keep working my plan

 

[ubercat]

@Listen_to_Olly I m 50. I've lived in three different countries and multiple states of said countries including 2 small country towns when I was a high school teacher. For my age I'm probably below average in finances, average in looks and a bit above average in physique but still got a modest belly. And in every location I found enough acceptable pvssy to keep me in trouble. Yes there will be variations in supply but nothing a smart man can't work around. @Scaramouche lives in a small town area. Is older than me and has had as much ars as I've had hot dinners. In fact with his permission I've stolen several of his routines. You won't ever convince him to move back to the big smoke.

 

[Trainwreck]

Its because I am in the real world, I can write what I write.

If you don't want to improve, dont waste time reading me.
On my side i'll keep working my plan

Go post on the misc where yall bro fvcktards belong at