What do you do after the worst day of your life

[backbreaker]

what do you do when a girl you love is in trouble and is about to get evicted from her apartment and she begs you to help her out.

what do you do after you spend all day scrambling up money to pay her rent for her.

what do you go give her the money to pay her rent, then some random dude comes out and tells you that you can't bge around here anymore when he's here and that she's with me now and you got to go and you got call a a friend (me) to come pick you up.


what do you do when the money you paid her for her rent was YOUR rent money and you were going to basically move in with her so you had your **** with you outside and now you are outside in the cold crying with no place to go.


what do you do when you sit there all day thinking of the girl you just sacrificed **** for getting plowed by another dude when you were there for her "rescue"


what. exactly. do you do. at the lowest point of your relationship and possibly life in general. homeless. hungry, hurt, angry, upset, sad,.


what do you do when the thought of killing yourself because you don't see a point in living anymore is a viable option


you embrace the pain, you make a plan to get your **** back together and you move on.

i've never felt so bad for someone than i have felt for someone today. i mean there are heartless bitches but this ***** takes the cake. she used his money to buy drugs and get high and get plowed by another dude. this guy is basically homeless now. he believed her. she used him.

more so, she knew that he cared enough about her enough that he would do whatever he had to dot omake sure she was okay and she played him.


man. women man. seriously. if this guy abuses every womam he ever meets i couldn't even say he is not justified. there are some emotional scares that just dont' heal sometimes and this is kinda one of them.


imagine a dude coming out and telling yo uthat you can't see the girl that you love anymore. she can't even tell you. she can't even pick up the phone.


read this forum. focus on you. have a checklist of things that women must meet and if they don't meet them do not deal with them, period. use the pain as motvation., prove her wrong. show her that she made the biggest, stupidest mistake of her life. make her live that mistake everyday of her existence by becoming awesome.

 

[Desdinova]

What happened to your marriage?

 

[Serenity]

Sh!tty past experience is not a decent justification to treat other women who has done nothing wrong like garbage.

Besides that this guy learned a hard lesson, don't be blinded by infatuation and don't help others when what you have is barely enough for yourself. If he was not blinded by his emotions he would probably have noticed she was a drug abuser who made poor choices for herself. Self-sacrifice is stupidity, I won't help anyone regardless of how desperate they seem if I'm the one needing help afterwards.

Drug abusers cannot easily be trusted, I learned this the hard way. I have lost quite a bit of money on it and not to mention all the frustration that comes with it. However, I had the income to afford losing it and didn't ruin my life over it. Still left me bitter about it.

 

[backbreaker]

he'll be fine. ;his main problem is that he hasn't dated in like a LONG time like almost a decade and he doesn't know how to handle himself right now and he's spent all his time making sure this girl has her drugs and has this and has that and not attending to his own matters. a few weeks on his own and he will be fine financially.


i just feel bad for theg uy he has a big heart. i mean someone said it here women just do not understand the concept of morality. there is some ****, i just won't do. like that's a concept women don't grasp.

 

[sazc]

if you ever, for a moment, feel like 'you can save her by doing <something>' that is the moment you need to realize that you are not dealing with a woman whom is at your standards/level.

 

[backbreaker]

i mean i've been there. i had one girl that had the most prettiest feet i've ever seen and god knows i knew she was a horrible person but she'd jsut throw on these flip flops and paint her nails and i couldn't say no lol. every guy thinks with his **** at some point in his life.

that's why spinning plates is importrant. there are a few girls that if i didn't have other options i would have done some amazingly stupid ****. if this guy had other options he would be like ***** please lol gtfo

 

[backbreaker]

Loll want to know how strong oxys are read the. 26 year old. 100 year old man story in anything else. Guarantee it was in exchange for his oxys script

 

[Serenity]

i just feel bad for theg uy he has a big heart. i mean someone said it here women just do not understand the concept of morality. there is some ****, i just won't do. like that's a concept women don't grasp.

Don't pin this on women. I know women who has a firm grasp on morality and strong integrity and I know guys who are completely lacking in it.

You would be correct to say some people don't understand the concept of morality, but not about it just being women or being all women. Gender is not a defining factor of being an a$$hole.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Don't pin this on women. I know women who has a firm grasp on morality and strong integrity and I know guys who are completely lacking in it.

You would be correct to say some people don't understand the concept of morality, but not about it just being women or being all women. Gender is not a defining factor of being an a$$hole.

The point is women aren't held to the same standards of accountability, so there is more incentive for them to use and manipulate as there is no "honor" code for them to follow in society.

But OP, if this is "the worst day of one's life", he has a pretty good life. I had a similar situation happen to me once (minus the moving in part). It was definitely among the 5 most traumatizing moments of my life, but nowhere near #1, and I never thought about killing myself over it. That's dumb. First world problems galore.

 

[Serenity]

The point is women aren't held to the same standards of accountability, so there is more incentive for them to use and manipulate as there is no "honor" code for them to follow in society.

That's what some think. But clearly it is not so and it is evident from our discussion about it. Neither of us find it honorable and I will bet most women agree to this principle.

 

[backbreaker]

No from my personal experience women use feelings to justify their morality while men use morality to justify their feelings


I feel good about myself because I was there for a friend in need when he needed it. My mom, kicked me out the house because she got tired of a son running men off then justified itby saying grown men don't live e
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And if my mom needed somewhere to go, I'd take her in, because she's my mom that is what sons do despite what she did, Andy would feel good about it because that aligns with my moral code