Do U think women reject men who've been w/ prostitutes because it's an indication of being a loser?

MatureDJ

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I was viewing this video, and it got me thinking:


Although the chick commenting says that it's OK for men to go to prostitutes, she would not date such a man.

My opinion: Women consider a man that goes to prostitutes as a man whose sexual marketplace value is not high enough to get a woman to sex him for free and therefore compelled to pay for it, and thus such a man has been been judged by women in general to be loser, and hence should be rejected as a possible mate.
 

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Depends on her perceived value of the man.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Firstly, I'm not sure this is a topic of conversation that needs to come up with a woman that you're interested in.

:D

Secondly, the hypocrisy of the video, or more specifically the chick. She wouldn't want to shame the woman because 'prostitution is the woman's choice', but she wouldn't go with a guy who's been with a prostitute. She's basically completely contradicted herself, trying to straddle the line of political correctness and failing miserably.

She might be hot, but I couldn't bang a chick who is this dumb.
 

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I fvcked hella prostitutes in my life, mostly on vacation, girls that I meet in clubs that want money. Most of the time they get attached to me and don't want any money when we had c3x. Not repping a word about that to plates or girls. Why would you even bring it up?
 

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You never tell girls about this, their brains can never understand so dont even try. I dont care how much you are in love with another woman and want to tell her your life story, this remains hidden forever, no exception. Just like she will not tell you all of her secrets about how she sucked some guy off at a club toilet she had known for 5 minutes, that story WILL lower her value just like this story will lower yours. Tell some of your guy friends and have a laugh about it, most wish they tried banging an insanely hot stripper themselves but dont have the balls to go about it. The condom part is the only sad thing about it really lol
 

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Personally I don't see the appeal. One of the greatest experiences in life (IMO) is having sex with someone who's gagging for you. Visiting a prostitute is basically masturbation with a human body.. I'd rather just take care of myself.
 

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Well, thing is how you trick your mind and how it makes you feel. You enter a strip club and girls come up to you to flirt, you ask one of them if they would like to come home with you for a few hours, some say yes, and there you go. The whole thing feels more like a one night stand than actually paying for a hore in my experience, and I have tried both scenarios. As long as the stripper is one of the hottest girls you have ever seen and it will obviously beat a masturbation. The important thing for me at the strip club when I was traveling abroad was to find a girl I felt I had a natural connection with, and a woman that actually responded well when I asked her home. This way it feels better for both of you and perhaps you can give the stripper an orgasm as well, which is fun and gives some confidence back from a weird situation. I remember it as a great birthday present to myself.
 

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Can't watch the video right now but will give general comments.

1. It's that "icky" feeling that the guy is "tainted" because he had sex with a hooker that has had many partners and/or probably used a lot of drugs possibly including the use of needles. Even if the guy used a condom and later comes up clean on an STD test, it doesn't matter. It's an emotional reaction or feeling that counts here.

2. Yes, there is also her perception that if a guy can't score in a "legitimate" way such as a ONS, FWB or proper relationship based on genuine attraction, then he's a "loser" of sorts. Not being a Chad because he didn't win the generic lottery is somehow HIS FAULT.
 

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Its too bad prostitution is not socially accepted. It would lower the average woman's perceived SMV.

I think a lot more of it goes on than most realize. Its kind of like anal sechs. At one time it was not talked about at all. Then it gained some social acceptance and now days I don't know of any girl that hasn't had it and isn't okay talking about it.

Funny how every single woman on the planet has used her pu$$y to get something at some point in her life. That's what makes them all prostitutes on some level.
 

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DJs

You posters always say to "follow her actions, not her words"

So why you guys picking her words for value

Yes, a girl will sleep/date/ltr you even if you paid for sex(and you tell her). I am the living proof of it.



She wont like it but if her interest is high and your value good. She will overcome it

Oh you'll be surprised how many pro-athlete, hollywood stars, politicians have paid sex... a lot. Why you don't hear about it? Secrets are money in that world.

Why pay for sex? Loneliness, work-life schedule demands, horny, alcohol/drugs

In the end, it touches only the guy self-esteem
 

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And most men wouldn't take seriously a woman who has a notch count of +20. That's why we all lie about our sh*t.

Welcome to the real world, bimbo.



I saw a prostitute once. I was watching the TV show "Secret Diary Of A Call Girl", and thought it would be an interesting experience to have.

The girl was a HB8. But the sex was the worst that I've had in my life, and I didn't ***.

I'm not used to that sort of passionless sex.

Very much doubt that I'll do it again. Not until I'm way past my prime, at least.
Felt like screwing a dead body... I imagine.
 

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John Leguizamo wrote in his book that Leonardo DiCaprio is a "patron of prostitutes".
 
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There is no one type of man that goes to prostitutes. A broad range of men do so. Powerful politicians go to them to have an affair or to engage in some fetish that his vanilla wife won't partake in.

Athletes go to them because they have cash to burn and actually want to burn it, so why not throw her $10,000 for the good night just to show off? Half these women are single moms with bills to pay.

And yes, AFC's also go to them too.

Been with two prostitutes actually. One was in the Red Light district in Amsterdam. Found a HB10 Bulgarian, 6'1" in heels, $50 for a half hour...and it was horrible. She didn't give me the girlfriend experience because she didn't have to. She worked by the hour and was raking in 15 clients a day at $50 a pop. Very dry personality and obviously a fake interaction so I couldn't perform.

Another time was at an Korean massage parlor HB9 who did give me the girlfriend experience for $100 tip. Complete with foreplay, dirty talk, moaning, I had no problem busting. Girl had style because I might have been her only cash ticket that day. It was just like a ONS except I gave her cash instead of putting a half dozen drinks in her system.

So there is no clear cut answer to this. I think it's OK from time to time or to break out of a dry spell. I'm surprised more men don't do it, especially a 30 year old virgin whose suicidal or about to go on a shooting spree. Just pay the b*tch right for the full experience. I think if Elliot Rodger had found an escort who could give him the gf experience 6 people might be alive today.
 

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