I'm done with dating

[Starting]

@Starting

Can you not read son.

What you've described is the MO of the troll you're rushing to defend.

You've proved your motives amongst other things are suspect to say the least.

Try to be objective and stop your clear brown nosing.

You're an embarassment.

When your game develops from pof slags you may chime in.

Until then behave yourself son.

Now you're providing no substance or an argument to defend your views. You again, are throwing your tantrums like it's going to get your somewhere. It's very disappointing.

"You don't like the way I say things so I'll ridicule you for it" Weak people do this.

omg, I thought that post was poon king! Same post style, reads the same way. Then I see this post and scroll up and realize it was another user entirely.
That's a little eerie....another poster with a style and manner so close to poon.... I dont think I have seen that on these boards before....

Why? Because I highlight my premise in bold? It's clearly so people don't take the premise out of context which many of you do.

 

[Slash Dolo]

I side with the OP at this moment in my life. That doesn't mean that all relationships are bad, though, I'm just tired of them.

Instead of the endless arguing going on in this thread, how about we just concede that different men have different preferences when it comes to relationships or just spinning plates. And these can all change based on a variety of factors.

The end goal of this website is to improve one's self worth and ability with game as it pertains to women. If something enriches your life, whether that be money, status, multiple women or just one woman, then SoSuave has done its job. Let's leave it at that and leave the debates to our political parties.

 

[Reykhel]

omg, I thought that post was poon king! Same post style, reads the same way. Then I see this post and scroll up and realize it was another user entirely.
That's a little eerie....another poster with a style and manner so close to poon.... I dont think I have seen that on these boards before....

I know, right?

At first I thought the Buffoon had made a dummy account to defend himself as he was apparently NOTORIOUS FOR DOING SO BEFORE.....

But it turnes out to be just another empty dummy blindly defending him and mimicking his childish formatting style.

I'm not surprised the troll has a cult like following: the weak, impressionable and disgruntled masses need his rethoric and bile to fill the vacuum in their mind. And he needs their adoration as the troll's ego feeds off attention.

You know what every cult leader needs in order to have the impressional follow him unquestionably????

A COMMON ENEMY.....

WOMEN.

eerie indeed.

Hey by the way....you recently liked one of his posts.....by his logic doesn't that make him a stone cold phaggot? LOL

 

[sazc]

Hey by the way....you recently liked one of his posts.....by his logic doesn't that make him a stone cold phaggot? LOL

 

[sazc]

Instead of the endless arguing going on in this thread, how about we just concede that different men have different preferences when it comes to relationships or just spinning plates. And these can all change based on a variety of factors.

I really think this is where the discussion goes off the rails. We discuss from our personal understanding, or interpretation of what OP posted, instead of stepping back and making sure we are objective. In a few other threads I have gotten the intended topic wrong - and some really sweet (sarcasm) members have corrected me. I like discussion. Discussion promotes thought, thought promotes discovery. Some posters are very certain in the way they think it should be done, and they post instructions. If the instructions are questioned, calamity, on many levels, ensues. Calamity does not promote discussion, thought or discovery.

Here is my perspective on certain behaviors that seem to recur...

Step 1) statements and instructions are posted!!!!!
Step 2) a disagreeing viewpoint is posted
Step 3) there is no discussion, discovery or debate, step 2 poster gets railed up the a$$, immediately, in many colorful and demeaning ways.

What's going on is pretty self explanatory (to me). Once Step 2 has been posted, the Step 1 poster experiences certain feelings such as a loss of control and/or anxiety. Loss of control generally refers to lack of the ability to provide conscious limitation of impulses and behavior as a result of overwhelming emotion. States of agitation such as fighting, screaming, and uncontrollable weeping are most often thought of as behavior illustrative of loss of control.

That's pretty much what happens in Step 3. And it happens over and over again.

It's either this, or the Step 1 poster is truly a beta troll and gets off by purposefully derailing the discussion.

Either way, I think everyone knows there is no such thing as a healthy discussion or debate with the Step 1 poster. So why bother engaging?

 

[Tenacity]

If you disagree with a man's point of view, that's your own right but name calling and saying that your way is better is ridiculous.

Lol, okay now dude are you going to also say the same thing to Poon King?

Do you NOT realize that Poon King calls people white knights, fag.gots, and beta males when they disagree with him?

 

[Starting]

Lol, okay now dude are you going to also say the same thing to Poon King?

Do you NOT realize that Poon King calls people white knights, fag.gots, and beta males when they disagree with him?

Wait a minute, from everything I've said that's what stuck out the most to you?

It applies to both parties but I guess that makes me a cult leader too now.

 

[Reykhel]

Lol, okay now dude are you going to also say the same thing to Poon King?

Do you NOT realize that Poon King calls people white knights, fag.gots, and beta males when they disagree with him?

Of course he's not....

Look at the response he gave you...CLASSIC MISDIRECTION

A pure coward who has lost his objectivity through a combination of fear and admiration for his cult leader.

Indoctrined.

 

[Starting]

Of course he's not....

Look at the response he gave you...CLASSIC MISDIRECTION

A pure coward who has lost his objectivity through a combination of fear and admiration for his cult leader.

Indoctrined.

You should be awarded as the biggest master baitor on this site.

 

[Reykhel]

You should be awarded as the biggest master baitor on this site.

Lame.

This self proclaimed "sociapath" and daddy of pof low quality thrash, doesn't deserve to be acknowledged.

But I have to LOL at the hurt kids rushing to like his comment like flies on shyte!!!

You give away your frame of mind too easy.

Good night kids.

Take care, daddy will be here soon to heal your hurt and stir up your sense of loss and hate.

 

[Starting]

I can feel your anger, so much so that you went as far to comment on my post with a poor representation of me. I feel pity for such users on this site. It's a shame.. more disappointing really.

 

[TheFixer14]

I side with the OP at this moment in my life. That doesn't mean that all relationships are bad, though, I'm just tired of them.

Instead of the endless arguing going on in this thread, how about we just concede that different men have different preferences when it comes to relationships or just spinning plates. And these can all change based on a variety of factors.

The end goal of this website is to improve one's self worth and ability with game as it pertains to women. If something enriches your life, whether that be money, status, multiple women or just one woman, then SoSuave has done its job. Let's leave it at that and leave the debates to our political parties.

Exactly. Certain members can't accept that some guys have different priorities and different things that work for them.

 

[Steady Eddie]

Have fun being a MGTOW. Now if you want to REALLY gain my respect, now that you're MGTOW, you will actually "go your own way" which is to stop discussing women period.

Don't be like the rest of these anonymous MGTOW folks who claim to have gone their own way, but everyday sit around discussing, bytching, and moaning about women.

Fvck escorts and be MGTOW.

Tenacity, 6 months ago you wrote a similar post to the OP. You were in complete disarray and wanted a break from women.
If thefixer14 really wanted to he could check your post history (June 2016) and light your a** up, for the hyprocrite you are.

 

[ubercat]

OP Nothing wrong with taking a break it's your life. You posted some great goals on the 2017 thread. That's going to keep you plenty busy. Dating or not I can guarantee you that woman will just keep turning up. You're a smart articulate young guy with a bunch of interests. As long as you're out there it will happen. I took a bit of a break last year for a few months because I was busy with various things. It didn't seem to make me any Stranger than usual. And I ended up having pleasure of 4 ladies that year anyway so I doubt you will forget how. Of course I didn't apply for an MGTOW card and buy the t-shirt.

 

[TheFixer14]

Tenacity, 6 months ago you wrote a similar post to the OP. You were in complete disarray and wanted a break from women.
If thefixer14 really wanted to he could check your post history (June 2016) and light your a** up, for the hyprocrite you are.

Wow LOL. That's ****ing crazy. I was going to give Tenacity the benefit of the doubt and just say that he is misguided. But the dude is clearly a hypocrite

OP Nothing wrong with taking a break it's your life. You posted some great goals on the 2017 thread. That's going to keep you plenty busy. Dating or not I can guarantee you that woman will just keep turning up. You're a smart articulate young guy with a bunch of interests. As long as you're out there it will happen. I took a bit of a break last year for a few months because I was busy with various things. It didn't seem to make me any Stranger than usual. And I ended up having pleasure of 4 ladies that year anyway so I doubt you will forget how. Of course I didn't apply for an MGTOW card and buy the t-shirt.

Thanks. You seem to get where I am going with this. It isn't that I am going MGTOW (though I kinda did earlier this year and found MGTOW to be too sad), but I am simply putting all of my energy and resources into myself. If and when an opportunity presents itself I'll take it. But I am just not going to go out of my way for a woman.
.

 

[ubercat]

You'll cop the usual suspicious questions about why are you single. The safest way is the camouflage option where you say I would love for that to happen but I just haven't met the right girl yet. That leaves the door open to blind dates if that's something you can stomach.

Or if I'm feeling ornery when they say single I correct them and say happily single with a big s*** eating grin. At that point they just assume you are a player.

 

[TheFixer14]

I wanted to explain my reasoning to anyone who thinks that this is a meltdown post or that I am depressed.

I went to a party on Christmas. I met this really beautiful Korean woman. She was nice and a bit cheeky. She seemed to like me and when and got me cookies when she got up to go get some. When a guy stopped her to speak her she left him to come back to me.

I spoke to her for a bit and did my usual game thing. I could have pretty easily gotten her number and she was pretty into me.

But I remembered what @daddymonsterpoodle told me: don't date maybes.

While I found this chick very physically appealing and nice, I wasn't 100% into her. Also Asian women are little annoying to deal with. But that's another thread for another day. I didn't feel an overwhelming need to see her again. Sure I would have liked to **** her. I try not to get into ranking women by numbers, but she was an 8 on looks alone and her purity made her a nine.

But I didn't feel that she was worth me going through all the trouble of getting her number, arranging the date and etc. I thought of this line from a mid summer night's dream: "LOVE LOOKS NOT WITH THE EYES, BUT WITH THE MIND, AND THEREFORE IS WING’D CUPID PAINTED BLIND."

Oddly enough a woman did say this. But what Helena is saying here is that she is hooked to Demetrius despite all of his faults.

I don't think that I've felt that way about any woman that I've been with. Nor has any woman felt that way about me.

I saw that I was just basically trying to be a womanizer and if any woman who I thought was attractive gave me attention I'd take it. Be it a hug, a kiss, a ****, or a date. I wasn't really asking myself how I felt about the women that I would put myself out there too. I understood that I didn't really care about finding a woman who cared about me. That I wasn't truly interested in dating no matter how much that I told myself. I just wanted to ****. I wanted to feed a black hole inside of me that would never be full.

Truth be told, I never liked dating. I just saw it as a means to and end. Also as a way to feel "normal".

Then I wondered what I was doing. Why was all of this important? At the end of the day sex is not that big of deal. Having a cool girlfriend is not that big of a deal. And they won't bring you happiness or fulfillment. Happiness comes from within and fulfillment comes from achieving your goals.

 

[TheFixer14]

The truth is that life without women is a simpler and happier life.

Life spinning plates is a more complicated, but more exciting life.

Good to have a break from it sometimes, and just enjoy what you have with no bullsh*t.

This is pretty much where I am at. I agree dating multiple women is pretty exciting. But it complicates everything in your life. Being able to back away and focus on other things is great.

 

[LastManstanding]

Spicy fooking thread,just how i like it

They'll do fookin nuttin.
-C.M.

 

[C00lAF]

They'll do fookin nuttin.
-C.M.

Yup,get used to it.