I have to agree. I may not like that definition because maybe it means "I'm not alpha!!" which no man, especially not here, wants to concede, but it is still true. If you are doing things you don't want to do in order to keep a woman and you are past the reproductive age in life, and so is she, then you are just not alpha.
You guys misunderstand me,, I'm not talking about myself. I'm just saying that everybody is different, and you can't put people in a box. Who knows what motivates a 65 year old (alpha or not)? None of us have hit that age yet.
I make no claim of being alpha (other than being a situational alpha at times). Although when it comes to relationships, I am not a supplicator, and I certainly don't do anything out of fear, and definitely not out of fear of losing a girl. I do what I want. I firmly believe in holding the frame, and I think all women are basically replaceable.
I don't really believe in labels, but if anything, I probably am closest to the "Omega male". I am very independent, don't need people around me, and I'm not interested in conforming to anyone's views, not even the more popular views on this forum. I think for myself. But I don't really fully fit that label either, because I have been able to succeed in mainstream society. I guess I am willing to do just enough to fit in while still retaining my independence.