I'm seeing 3 others bud. Just haven't done a reset before. There won't be any free dinner.
In my experience, if you let your window close (it's only open from the time you are last in contact to 2-3 weeks), you are wasting your time. The only chance you have after too much time passes by is if it is her idea to hit you up. You may get a date, but it won't progress much further than that. Trust me.
Alrighty thats interesting. Good to know. Why do you give it that window? I've heard some soft next, come back a month later and supposedly her perspective changes. This could be me just bored with plates that have no fun hobbies and i need to find better stock?
Thanks, I'll just go into it with a chipper attitude and have fun, if it falls flat and standoffish. I'll know not to beat a dead horse ever agsin.
Act like none of that happened and this is the second date that is happening the week after the first. Act no differently than you would on any other second date...go for the kill, she will be expecting it.
Too distant. There's a fine line between a challenge and just not caring. After a certain amount of time, women feel like you don't care and are just playing games. If she thinks that, she will write you off. Once a woman writes you off in her head, there is nothing you can do to change that. Only she can change her mind at that point. That is why huge gaps of time really only work if she comes back to you, not vice versa.
