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BlueAlpha1
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Alright, so we know why you clicked on this thread. It was bad. Maybe it's been a day, a week, a month, a year - you're not over it yet. I feel you. It's been a year from me, and it still haunts me.
But there is one little factoid that, if you play your cards right, will one day bring you a redemption so pleasing you'll be able to sell your own self-help product: the wall.
It seems to be a trend that the crazier the girl was, and the more you were hooked, the more baggage they actually had, and it's a great mystery of the world how you could get attached to such a low quality woman. Mine was 8 years older, with two kids by two different men, multiple other partners, a history of cheating, and emotionally unstable. But as you know she was sweet when we first met, and only 29 years old.
We all know from the contributions of Rollo Tomassi that in the case of a 29 year old woman with a 21 year old guy, the scales are still significantly favored to the female. She might be approaching the wall but hasn't yet it hit, and your best days are about 12 years ahead. You have nothing to offer but a cute little challenge for her, can I still get the young buck? Of course I was out of my league...
Now I'm 27, and she's 35. Think about that. In 5 years she'll be 40 years old. Graying hair, extra weight, and the realization that the good days are long behind. And I'll be 32. Now we may not speak over these next 5 years. But if you think she's not going to sit there pulling her hair out wondering, "did he get married?", "did he become a millionaire?", "did he travel the world without me?" then you'd be wrong.
Not to mention, a woman who makes the sort of bad choices that destroys herself and men is not going to change, especially so late in the game. She will carry that baggage into her washed up years making it all the more harder to find a true Alpha to quench her desires. She may find a beta who placates her just enough so that she doesn't go crazy missing you, she might be "haaapppy", but she'll always wonder. There's going to come a day where she'll be very sorry, IF you keep your commitments to yourself to become a better man. This is the key - women are far more intuitive than you think. And she will know without having spoken to you in 5 years.
I put the two of us about equal on the SMV scale now. I have not yet peaked but I'm trending upward. From what I remember she's declining but still hanging around a bit longer (some women still look good into their late 30's). But the future doesn't look good for her. And it doesn't for your ex either. Even if you were the same age, a 36 year old man has huge advantages over a 36 year old woman.
Fellow millennials, it's up to YOU what you make these crucial next 5-10 years. The elitist cynics of this forum will scoff and come with the usual "pfftt, way too much effort for one girl, just improve yourself bro!" Or they'll tell you revenge is petty. Bull. Taking revenge by living extra well is a perfectly natural impulse. Ignore the condescension but take the kernel of truth in there that you SHOULD do it for you. But it doesn't hurt to take comfort from this extraordinary side effect...
But there is one little factoid that, if you play your cards right, will one day bring you a redemption so pleasing you'll be able to sell your own self-help product: the wall.
It seems to be a trend that the crazier the girl was, and the more you were hooked, the more baggage they actually had, and it's a great mystery of the world how you could get attached to such a low quality woman. Mine was 8 years older, with two kids by two different men, multiple other partners, a history of cheating, and emotionally unstable. But as you know she was sweet when we first met, and only 29 years old.
We all know from the contributions of Rollo Tomassi that in the case of a 29 year old woman with a 21 year old guy, the scales are still significantly favored to the female. She might be approaching the wall but hasn't yet it hit, and your best days are about 12 years ahead. You have nothing to offer but a cute little challenge for her, can I still get the young buck? Of course I was out of my league...
Now I'm 27, and she's 35. Think about that. In 5 years she'll be 40 years old. Graying hair, extra weight, and the realization that the good days are long behind. And I'll be 32. Now we may not speak over these next 5 years. But if you think she's not going to sit there pulling her hair out wondering, "did he get married?", "did he become a millionaire?", "did he travel the world without me?" then you'd be wrong.
Not to mention, a woman who makes the sort of bad choices that destroys herself and men is not going to change, especially so late in the game. She will carry that baggage into her washed up years making it all the more harder to find a true Alpha to quench her desires. She may find a beta who placates her just enough so that she doesn't go crazy missing you, she might be "haaapppy", but she'll always wonder. There's going to come a day where she'll be very sorry, IF you keep your commitments to yourself to become a better man. This is the key - women are far more intuitive than you think. And she will know without having spoken to you in 5 years.
I put the two of us about equal on the SMV scale now. I have not yet peaked but I'm trending upward. From what I remember she's declining but still hanging around a bit longer (some women still look good into their late 30's). But the future doesn't look good for her. And it doesn't for your ex either. Even if you were the same age, a 36 year old man has huge advantages over a 36 year old woman.
Fellow millennials, it's up to YOU what you make these crucial next 5-10 years. The elitist cynics of this forum will scoff and come with the usual "pfftt, way too much effort for one girl, just improve yourself bro!" Or they'll tell you revenge is petty. Bull. Taking revenge by living extra well is a perfectly natural impulse. Ignore the condescension but take the kernel of truth in there that you SHOULD do it for you. But it doesn't hurt to take comfort from this extraordinary side effect...
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