So, this girl and I hit it off amazingly. We get along so well, amazing sex, personalities mesh together so well, we have so much fun together, best I've ever gotten along with any girl. Sex first time we hang out and she sleeps over. Sex and sleep over again the second. She gets jealous if I like other girls pics on social media, she starts calling me baby, babe, calling me and face timing me every day and we'd be on the phone for 1-3 hours before bed, telling me how much she missed me non stop and can't wait to see me, texts me all the time, she was clingy and needy I'll admit, insecure as well, but I could look past that as it wasn too bad.
Now she's a young single mom, we had big plans that we had planned a week in advance, we had been talking about it all week, both so excited, then she calls me the night before the plans and says the father isn't coming home anymore and she can't make it, while on the phone she tells me she is going on vacation with him and his entire family. Keep in mind she had just gotten out of a 2 year 4 month relationship with this guy, had a kid together, were engaged, and then he cheated on her twice. And her and I started talking just a month and a half after they broke up and finally hung out 2 months after they broke up, so it has rebound written all over it.
When we talk on the phone I was so disappointed and when she told me she was going on vacation with him she said I have nothing to worry about and he's out of the picture. And I told her "I'm not sure if this will workout" cause I was pissed to hear she was going on vacation with him and quickly apologized and said no I trust you whatever just go. She gets distant, then a few days later I ask her what's wrong, she takes almost a full day to respond and says she's not sure if this will workout cause we live an hour apart and she's busy with a kid. I say the distance will be simple to workout around, just more careful planning and I have to be more patient and understanding, then goes on to say she's afraid to get into another relationship so soon since her and I moved so fast and got pretty serious very quick. So she said she doesn't want to rush and rather slow things down. And we agree to give it a shot and see were things take us. I said okay. We continue to talk for a week and a half, she still initiates almost every time we talk, but we don't talk anywhere near as much. And for some reason rather snapchat me than text me. Few days later says she's in the weirdest mood and just hates her life right now.
Last Wednesday (a week ago today, was the last time we talked) and I ended up asking her to hangout when she gets back and she doesn't respond, then snapchats me 7 times Friday night. I don't respond to any of them cause I figured if she actually wants to see me and hang out, she would have responded to my text or she can call me. So didn't respond to the snapchats and haven't heard a thing since and I haven't contacted her.
So this obviously has rebound written all over it. And I'm thinking too that her ex did come home but she just didn't tell me cause she misses him and isn't over the break up after only a couple months. Cause she posted some pics that looked suspicious and kinda looked like him but could only see a bit of his body holding the child, but same shirt I've seen him where in other pics they have together. And he was home that Sunday and had the kid, and we had plans for Saturday into Sunday, so idk if he actually came home that Sunday or he was actually home all weekend and she just backed out cause she realizes she's not ready for a relationship yet. But I know I didn't do a thing.
So that's the whole story, and curious if anyone has been a rebound, but had the girl/guy come back? Honesty not even sure if I'd take her back if she did come back but there's a chance. I googled and I had seen posts about girls missing and always thinking about their rebound. Which alwyss makes me wonder if she is still thinking about me and wonders what I'm up to. Just sucks cause we got along soooo well and didn't even get a true shot at anything together.
Makes me wonder if she'd come back after she finally gets over him. I'm certainly not going to wait and put my life on hold, I've already gone out sleeping with other women, but if she decides to come back I'd maybe consider giving it a shot. But im also thinking since most women don't always text a guy they miss she may miss me and want me back but just keep to herself and not reach out to me so I'm thinking about Reachin out to her in 4 weeks to wish her son happy birthday. Cause I've been a rebound in the past and the girl did come back to me after 3 month but wanted to hear other stories. And she never texted me, just ran into each other and took it from there. And other girls in the past I've had little flings with have died out and ended and picked back up months or even a year later
Now she's a young single mom, we had big plans that we had planned a week in advance, we had been talking about it all week, both so excited, then she calls me the night before the plans and says the father isn't coming home anymore and she can't make it, while on the phone she tells me she is going on vacation with him and his entire family. Keep in mind she had just gotten out of a 2 year 4 month relationship with this guy, had a kid together, were engaged, and then he cheated on her twice. And her and I started talking just a month and a half after they broke up and finally hung out 2 months after they broke up, so it has rebound written all over it.
When we talk on the phone I was so disappointed and when she told me she was going on vacation with him she said I have nothing to worry about and he's out of the picture. And I told her "I'm not sure if this will workout" cause I was pissed to hear she was going on vacation with him and quickly apologized and said no I trust you whatever just go. She gets distant, then a few days later I ask her what's wrong, she takes almost a full day to respond and says she's not sure if this will workout cause we live an hour apart and she's busy with a kid. I say the distance will be simple to workout around, just more careful planning and I have to be more patient and understanding, then goes on to say she's afraid to get into another relationship so soon since her and I moved so fast and got pretty serious very quick. So she said she doesn't want to rush and rather slow things down. And we agree to give it a shot and see were things take us. I said okay. We continue to talk for a week and a half, she still initiates almost every time we talk, but we don't talk anywhere near as much. And for some reason rather snapchat me than text me. Few days later says she's in the weirdest mood and just hates her life right now.
Last Wednesday (a week ago today, was the last time we talked) and I ended up asking her to hangout when she gets back and she doesn't respond, then snapchats me 7 times Friday night. I don't respond to any of them cause I figured if she actually wants to see me and hang out, she would have responded to my text or she can call me. So didn't respond to the snapchats and haven't heard a thing since and I haven't contacted her.
So this obviously has rebound written all over it. And I'm thinking too that her ex did come home but she just didn't tell me cause she misses him and isn't over the break up after only a couple months. Cause she posted some pics that looked suspicious and kinda looked like him but could only see a bit of his body holding the child, but same shirt I've seen him where in other pics they have together. And he was home that Sunday and had the kid, and we had plans for Saturday into Sunday, so idk if he actually came home that Sunday or he was actually home all weekend and she just backed out cause she realizes she's not ready for a relationship yet. But I know I didn't do a thing.
So that's the whole story, and curious if anyone has been a rebound, but had the girl/guy come back? Honesty not even sure if I'd take her back if she did come back but there's a chance. I googled and I had seen posts about girls missing and always thinking about their rebound. Which alwyss makes me wonder if she is still thinking about me and wonders what I'm up to. Just sucks cause we got along soooo well and didn't even get a true shot at anything together.
Makes me wonder if she'd come back after she finally gets over him. I'm certainly not going to wait and put my life on hold, I've already gone out sleeping with other women, but if she decides to come back I'd maybe consider giving it a shot. But im also thinking since most women don't always text a guy they miss she may miss me and want me back but just keep to herself and not reach out to me so I'm thinking about Reachin out to her in 4 weeks to wish her son happy birthday. Cause I've been a rebound in the past and the girl did come back to me after 3 month but wanted to hear other stories. And she never texted me, just ran into each other and took it from there. And other girls in the past I've had little flings with have died out and ended and picked back up months or even a year later
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