Literally asked 7 girls out and probably will get a no from all of them

[MrWiggles]

You gotta think those 7 girls are missing out on a great opportunity to be banged by you. Its not your loss, it is theirs. I do get the dry spell thing but you gotta control it, not let it control you.

 

[Asmodeus]

I don't want to

Haven't been laid in 4-5 months

And I think you are letting a bit of a rough time get the best of you.
Certianly you are in North Dakota which is a place that has far less action than New York... There are far less black people in North Dakota too, and I will say honestly that most people tend to prefer to date in race, but this is typical of everyone. But I think you ae letting the negativity get to you... You are also new to that place, you do not likely have large social circles, less people know you, and you know less about the area... I think you just need time to adapt and grow to your surroundings, learn. Keep talking to women, keep working at it and maybe you will discover a few things.

Heck I have failed 7 times straight before only to hit a home run on number 8 so do not let a cold streak get you wound up. Once you submit to defeatism you have already lost. You need to be confident, you need to have the courage to approach and make moves, also I am sure your negativity shows... 90% of communication is nonverbal, if you feel unconfident and if you feel a bit apprehensive then women are going to notice it.

I think optimism is key to being a Don Juan, in fact I think optimism is key to being successful in anything.

 

[marmel75]

Then move somewhere else... North Dakota isn't the only place they need computer programmers...

 

[guru1000]

I want move somewhere else, but who's going to hire me or accept me?[

I wouldn't. Your attitude stinks, you lack ambition and are immersed in hopelessness. Further, you are full of excuses and project that you don't have what it takes to get the job done.

Self-fulfilling prophecy. I can understand your struggle.

 

[AlexLefty1]

I wouldn't. Your attitude stinks, you lack ambition and are immersed in hopelessness. Further, you are full of excuses and project that you don't have what it takes to get the job done.

Self-fulfilling prophecy. I can understand your struggle.

Agreed.

Sometimes you need the brutal truth, and I will attempt to give it to you. Be forewarned @Dhoulmagus that you will be offended by what is to follow. However, if you want to improve then read on...

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You are a fvcking little b1tch as$ pvssy! Waahhh wahhh wahhh! Look at me, I'm @Dhoulmagus and I'm a little cry baby that pisses myself because I can't get anything successful in life, wahhhhhhhh someone please save me from my pathetic little complacency of pure b1tch mode....wahhhhh.....I do not deserve attractive women, or even to pass along my genes....wahhhhhhhh

In fact, at this rate, I hope you don't pass along your genes EVER you pathetic little cvnt.

Here's the deal: you can either man the fvck up, or keep crying. That's IT. You either are a b1tch, or YOU'RE NOT. Which is it going to be? Because your attitude literally disgusts me and makes me want to stab myself in the d1ck. You are a noxious poison to this forum and everyone around you.

Stop being a whining complaining little b1tch cvnt. Or don't. The choice is yours.......wahhhhhhh wwaaawhhhh I want to change but all these excuses are popping up and I want to respond to this comment by AlexLefty with some of those excuses wahhaahhhh....

Fvck you b1tch get better

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Agreed.

Sometimes you need the brutal truth, and I will attempt to give it to you. Be forewarned @Dhoulmagus that you will be offended by what is to follow. However, if you want to improve then read on...

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You are a fvcking little b1tch as$ pvssy! Waahhh wahhh wahhh! Look at me, I'm @Dhoulmagus and I'm a little cry baby that pisses myself because I can't get anything successful in life, wahhhhhhhh someone please save me from my pathetic little complacency of pure b1tch mode....wahhhhh.....I do not deserve attractive women, or even to pass along my genes....wahhhhhhhh

In fact, at this rate, I hope you don't pass along your genes EVER you pathetic little cvnt.

Here's the deal: you can either man the fvck up, or keep crying. That's IT. You either are a b1tch, or YOU'RE NOT. Which is it going to be? Because your attitude literally disgusts me and makes me want to stab myself in the d1ck. You are a noxious poison to this forum and everyone around you.

Stop being a whining complaining little b1tch cvnt. Or don't. The choice is yours.......wahhhhhhh wwaaawhhhh I want to change but all these excuses are popping up and I want to respond to this comment by AlexLefty with some of those excuses wahhaahhhh....

Fvck you b1tch get better

You are telling me to change my attitude and everything, yet you are telling me to stay in the toxic hellhole responsible for this. I find this hypocritical because your ancestors left whatever country for the USA because they were being denied rights, privileges, land, food, or etc because the people in power refused to give up some their power to the lower classes. The American government already had an oppressive system for Native Americans and African Americans, so they were able to offer your ancestors these incentives that they couldn't get in Russia or Italy or something. There is no other country in the world that has an economic system designed to oppress African Americans because African Americans have only lived in the United States. Therefore, if I was to move to Australia, I would gain more rights and privileges then here in America because they don't have a racist system designed to oppress African Americans. I'm not saying I'm not going to face prejudice, but that sure as hell beats what I am in right now. If you disagree then you are saying that a Nigerian American immigrant is on par with a Nigerian living in Nigeria when it comes to quality of life, corruption, oppression, living conditions, and etc.


And here's my version of your opinion!

Your ancestors are bunch of ***** ass cowards to leave their mother countries. They should have stopped whinning and complaining like a little cvnt and worked hard. So what they didn't own any land and had to starve to death because of it. Those land owning aristocrats worked hard enough to acquire land while your b!tch ass ancestors were too lazy to do so. How about you go back to that country and work hard to make up for your ancestors cowardliness?

 

[marmel75]

You are telling me to change my attitude and everything, yet you are telling me to stay in the toxic hellhole responsible for this. I find this hypocritical because your ancestors left whatever country for the USA because they were being denied rights, privileges, land, food, or etc because the people in power refused to give up some their power to the lower classes. The American government already had an oppressive system for Native Americans and African Americans, so they were able to offer your ancestors these incentives that they couldn't get in Russia or Italy or something. There is no other country in the world that has an economic system designed to oppress African Americans because African Americans have only lived in the United States. Therefore, if I was to move to Australia, I would gain more rights and privileges then here in America because they don't have a racist system designed to oppress African Americans. I'm not saying I'm not going to face prejudice, but that sure as hell beats what I am in right now. If you disagree then you are saying that a Nigerian American immigrant is on par with a Nigerian living in Nigeria when it comes to quality of life, corruption, oppression, living conditions, and etc.


And here's my version of your opinion!

Your ancestors are bunch of ***** ass cowards to leave their mother countries. They should have stopped whinning and complaining like a little cvnt and worked hard. So what they didn't own any land and had to starve to death because of it. Those land owning aristocrats worked hard enough to acquire land while your b!tch ass ancestors were too lazy to do so. How about you go back to that country and work hard to make up for your ancestors cowardliness?

Guess the one who's been the "HNIC" as they would call it, aka, the President of the US for the last 8 years must not have had enough time to wallow in the self-pity you do...

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I wouldn't. Your attitude stinks, you lack ambition and are immersed in hopelessness. Further, you are full of excuses and project that you don't have what it takes to get the job done.

Self-fulfilling prophecy. I can understand your struggle.

Correct. And he's severely paranoid and has an extreme victimhood complex.

This is the kind of employee that pilfers food out of the refrigerator on camera to get written up on purpose so he can cry racism and sue for $50 million.

Weak genes and everyone who stays away is smart.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

My ancestors didn't willingly come here as immigrants though. They came here as slaves and that doesn't carry the perks as coming as immigrants.

That's probably not true. Not saying it couldn't be if you go back 7 generations, but it's a statistical improbability.

It's almost as likely they were slave owners as the likelihood they were slaves

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Correct. And he's severely paranoid and has an extreme victimhood complex.

This is the kind of employee that pilfers food out of the refrigerator on camera to get written up on purpose so he can cry racism and sue for $50 million.

Weak genes and everyone who stays away is smart.

Too bad I was offered a promotion recently, so you are wrong.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Too bad I was offered a promotion recently, so you are wrong.

I wish you luck, but you should change your attitude if you want to last.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I wish you luck, but you should change your attitude if you want to last.

I'll change my attitude when I'm in Australia not dealing with this petty bull**** anymore.

 

[Southbound29]

OP, You could move to a hypothetical country where the girl to guy ratio is 5:1 with the most feminine domesticated woman and you're still going to have trouble. Crying foul and moving to a supposed less hostile environment isn't going to fix your problems. Only you can fix them. Your mind set is in a bad place. Dry spells suck but you gotta keep trying.

If something doesn't work, try something else. No one can give you the answers. We can only give you insight from our outside perspective. From my view, I can say you definitely have a defeatist attitude and most likely a confidence issue which women can sniff out with amazing accuracy.

I finally admitted to my confidence problems and defeatist attitude and decided to do something about it. I lift weights and exercise whenever I can. At work when I'm not busy I grab a giant farm tire and flip that bit$h around the parking lot. It's builds me up when I look up and see people, especially women sitting outside watching me man handle the fu@k out of this giant tire.

Point is, throw yourself into something and start working to build yourself and your confidence up. If you believe my opinion of you is wrong then ignore everything I just said but don't expect a change in location to equal a change In quality of life.

 

[marmel75]

Once again, another dumb post from you. Obama's father is Kenyan and his mother is a white american with royal english ancestry. He is not an african american that descended from slaves.

Yup, they weren't raised to make the same ridiculous excuses you've been using for the last 5 or 6 generations. How long do you think this should go on? Will 1,000 years be enough time to shake that? Cause obviously 250 years hasn't been long enough. Obviously it won't be you that has the fvcking sense to realize that sh!t has no bearing in your life, but maybe one of the future generations?

 

[Dhoulmagus]

OP, You could move to a hypothetical country where the girl to guy ratio is 5:1 with the most feminine domesticated woman and you're still going to have trouble. Crying foul and moving to a supposed less hostile environment isn't going to fix your problems. Only you can fix them. Your mind set is in a bad place. Dry spells suck but you gotta keep trying.

If something doesn't work, try something else. No one can give you the answers. We can only give you insight from our outside perspective. From my view, I can say you definitely have a defeatist attitude and most likely a confidence issue which women can sniff out with amazing accuracy.

I finally admitted to my confidence problems and defeatist attitude and decided to do something about it. I lift weights and exercise whenever I can. At work when I'm not busy I grab a giant farm tire and flip that bit$h around the parking lot. It's builds me up when I look up and see people, especially women sitting outside watching me man handle the fu@k out of this giant tire.

Point is, throw yourself into something and start working to build yourself and your confidence up. If you believe my opinion of you is wrong then ignore everything I just said but don't expect a change in location to equal a change In quality of life.

Less hostile environment? The only girls I've met were crazy or wild raging mudsharks. I have five girls I text daily that I have no interest in screwing because I don't like their personalities. I need to go to a country where I'm not stigmatized or anything.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Yup, they weren't raised to make the same ridiculous excuses you've been using for the last 5 or 6 generations. How long do you think this should go on? Will 1,000 years be enough time to shake that? Cause obviously 250 years hasn't been long enough. Obviously it won't be you that has the fvcking sense to realize that sh!t has no bearing in your life, but maybe one of the future generations?

All I know is that your point was debunked and you are now babbling. Listen, if you don't like what I say then don't post in my topic.

 

[Southbound29]

Less hostile environment? The only girls I've met were crazy or wild raging mudsharks. I have five girls I text daily that I have no interest in screwing because I don't like their personalities. I need to go to a country where I'm not stigmatized or anything.

What does their personality have to do with getting your di@k wet ? Hell if most guys these days didn't screw chicks because they didn't like their personalities then these chicks would be the ones clawing the sh!t out of each other to get to the nearest available man. If a dry spell was really fu@king with me that much I don't think I'd let a chicks personality stand in my way.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

What does their personality have to do with getting your di@k wet ? Hell if most guys these days didn't screw chicks because they didn't like their personalities then these chicks would be the ones clawing the sh!t out of each other to get to the nearest available man. If a dry spell was really fu@king with me that much I don't think I'd let a chicks personality stand in my way.

I don't screw mudsharks. I'm sorry, it is degrading and I think a girl is mentally ill if she resorts to it.

 

[marmel75]

All I know is that your point was debunked and you are now babbling. Listen, if you don't like what I say then don't post in my topic.

There wasn't anything to debunk. If you are claiming racism against you but not against Obama then you must think the people being racist against you must know that 250 years ago your ancestors were slaves but that Obamas ancestors weren't. Simply by looking at you and him.

Now if that isn't the dumbest thing I've ever heard, it's gotta be pretty close.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

There wasn't anything to debunk. If you are claiming racism against you but not against Obama then you must think the people being racist against you must know that 250 years ago your ancestors were slaves but that Obamas ancestors weren't. Simply by looking at you and him.

Now if that isn't the dumbest thing I've ever heard, it's gotta be pretty close.

1,000 years won't be enough. Muslim apologists still bring up the Crusades when trying to excuse away the preponderance of Muslim violence, because there was Christian violence a millennia ago. Weakness.