Tired of Gaming Women

[dustmuffin]

Had this girl text me that she didn't want a physical relationship yet. I'm kind of tired of the games and said ok. I enjoy your company but I don't do female friends, Good luck. I know this was a **** test. I should have replied....Then why are you making so many passes at me? But like I said I'm tired. She was all over me last night and she isn't worth the effort. Case closed

 

[Desdinova]

Yup, I got tired of it too. Too much work for such little reward. I decided to just have fun, do my own thing, and let the women fall into my lap. I game them naturally and if things are going well, then I number close. Anything more than that is a waste of energy and time.

 

[CMNILS87]

always think opposite of what a girl says or watch what she does. I agree, dating multiple women is a ton of work and i want to go monk mode soon and career focused. I suggest what Des said, just work on your natural self and let them fall into your lap. if they truly have high interest, youll have to beat them away with stick.

 

[dustmuffin]

always think opposite of what a girl says or watch what she does. I agree, dating multiple women is a ton of work and i want to go monk mode soon and career focused. I suggest what Des said, just work on your natural self and let them fall into your lap. if they truly have high interest, youll have to beat them away with stick.

I'm cutting back on dates. One of the reasons I canned this one. I'm going to concentrate on getting fit and if I have a few dates that's a bonus.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Had this girl text me that she didn't want a physical relationship yet. I'm kind of tired of the games and said ok. I enjoy your company but I don't do female friends, Good luck. I know this was a **** test. I should have replied....Then why are you making so many passes at me? But like I said I'm tired. She was all over me last night and she isn't worth the effort. Case closed

Honestly, it's something you're doing. Need more info. Based off this post, I gather two things:

1) "I don't want to get physical with YOU, because I don't feel comfortable with you yet." <--- you're being too pushy and rushing physicality with her.

2) She's just a conservative chick. You should have screened this one out earlier. Unless she rejected your first kiss and still should other indications of higher interest, you would have moved on from this scenario after the 1st date.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Tired of gaming women to, they are utterly boring and talk about the same things. I know there are more diverse female out there, me personally have not ran in to them. I'm going monk mood too, tired of the games and similar redundant conversations

 

[dustmuffin]

Honestly, it's something you're doing. Need more info. Based off this post, I gather two things:

1) "I don't want to get physical with YOU, because I don't feel comfortable with you yet." <--- you're being too pushy and rushing physicality with her.

2) She's just a conservative chick. You should have screened this one out earlier. Unless she rejected your first kiss and still should other indications of higher interest, you would have moved on from this scenario after the 1st date.

I have been on two dates with her. Kiss closed with her first date. Second date made out in the parking lot for about 15 mins. Suggested she come over and she said not now. I tried to set up a third date and she said she might go out of town on business and would let me know Wednesday. Then she texted a bit later with the I don't want to get physical text. I was grabbing her bare ass with my hand down her skirt. She liked it a few days ago. Maybe she wanted to make me wait....IDK...It seemed like a **** test.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I have been on two dates with her. Kiss closed with her first date. Second date made out in the parking lot for about 15 mins. Suggested she come over and she said not now. I tried to set up a third date and she said she might go out of town on business and would let me know Wednesday. Then she texted a bit later with the I don't want to get physical text. I was grabbing her bare ass with my hand down her skirt. She liked it a few days ago. Maybe she wanted to make me wait....IDK...It seemed like a **** test.

That means she doesn't want to go directly to your house because she doesn't want to feel like a piece of ass. You counter by saying you two will be going to X and you'll be driving, but you want to show her your neighborhood. She'll either agree to come over and go out with you to X, or she'll counter by offering to meet you there. Either way, she is simply not comfortable with coming to your house yet. That won't change over the phone, so don't ask again until you've had your tongue and a drink or two in her mouth.

She has high interest, but she's turned off by your actions. You're coming off as "***** get over here and **** me, I took you on two dates." Even if that is your intent, you have to turn it into a romance.

This is no **** test, you're just not paying attention to what she's showing you. There's more to game than just finding a chick that will do 100% of what you ask. She's interested, but you're going to blow this if you don't tighten up.

 

[dustmuffin]

That means she doesn't want to go directly to your house because she doesn't want to feel like a piece of ass. You counter by saying you two will be going to X and you'll be driving, but you want to show her your neighborhood. She'll either agree to come over and go out with you to X, or she'll counter by offering to meet you there. Either way, she is simply not comfortable with coming to your house yet. That won't change over the phone, so don't ask again until you've had your tongue and a drink or two in her mouth.

She has high interest, but she's turned off by your actions. You're coming off as "***** get over here and **** me, I took you on two dates." Even if that is your intent, you have to turn it into a romance.

This is no **** test, you're just not paying attention to what she's showing you. There's more to game than just finding a chick that will do 100% of what you ask. She's interested, but you're going to blow this if you don't tighten up.

I can see your point of view. It is good information for the next time. I'm not contacting her again because I don't care. If she contacts me then I can go from there.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I can see your point of view. It is good information for the next time. I'm not contacting her again because I don't care. If she contacts me then I can go from there.

You obviously care if you're posting on here. You're getting frustrated. By all means meet more women, but this woman is close-able. You can shoot her something back like "I understand. Game for X at Y? (a place near your house). If she accepts, do the same thing you did last date (take it a little slower with the escalation) and you'll have her in your bed by the end of the night.

 

[dustmuffin]

You obviously care if you're posting on here. You're getting frustrated. By all means meet more women, but this woman is close-able. You can shoot her something back like "I understand. Game for X at Y? (a place near your house). If she accepts, do the same thing you did last date (take it a little slower with the escalation) and you'll have her in your bed by the end of the night.

I might be frustrated instead of tired I will give you that. But How can I double text with what you have suggested after I have already texted That I don't want female friends and good luck? That's kind of the end of it unless she replies.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I might be frustrated instead of tired I will give you that. But How can I double text with what you have suggested after I have already texted That I don't want female friends and good luck? That's kind of the end of it unless she replies.

Oh, yep that's done. Take a step back and think about how that sounded though. You meant well, but it came off as being a cold ****. "If you don't come over here and **** me, **** you."

 

[El Payaso]

You did great. Great response. She will probably try to fish for attention from you down the road. Block her.

 

[Dynamited]

I'm at the stage of my life where i don't game/chase/pursue women anymore. I can initiate but i won't go all out if she's not pulling her own weight. I would have said the same thing as you regardless of her intent. It's tiring having to 2nd guess women's actions/words all the time. If she's giving me mix signals, i take it that she's not interested. Rejection sucks but i move on much quicker than before.

I've reached a point whereby if i exchange numbers with a girl online and if she say's who's this when i text her, she gets deleted. Extreme low tolerance