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[ritapita20]

This site is dedicated to showing men how to regain control of their interactions with women.

In your world, and the world of 98% of men, women get to say what does and does not happen in relationships.

We're educating the masses so that pretty little feminist flowers like yourself no longer use things like sex as bargaining chips with us.

Edit:

Where are my manners?

Welcome to the boards.

Haha. Hola, thanks

 

[andy87]

Afternoon folks had a date with this girl on sunday and finally sealed the deal all good but now she has went a bit cold on me. We spoke briefly on monday but after that there has been bo contact since, usually i get a text from her asking how my day is etc. My question is what do i do next i quite like this girl and the date went really well so dont why she is acting distant thing is i have left something at her house so need too eventually contact her too pick it up any help appreciated andy

 

[MrWood]

you didnt fvck her?

 

[andy87]

you didnt fvck her?

Yeah i did after the date now she has went cold

 

[Bingo-Player]

dont bin her yet

just try this out first

do a complete U turn on your attitude towards sex with her IE you arent interest in it anymore and your possibly getting it elsewhere

you can still spend time with her but now there is to be no holding hands , no kissing , no cuddling , no sleeping in the same bed etc etc etc

shes will pick up on your lack of pursuit REAL quick ......in turn this is gonna force her hand she knows shes either has to put out or has to risk you sleeping with other women

 

[marmel75]

Afternoon folks had a date with this girl on sunday and finally sealed the deal all good but now she has went a bit cold on me. We spoke briefly on monday but after that there has been bo contact since, usually i get a text from her asking how my day is etc. My question is what do i do next i quite like this girl and the date went really well so dont why she is acting distant thing is i have left something at her house so need too eventually contact her too pick it up any help appreciated andy

Relax...she could be seeing if you are going to turn into one of those needy guys who think she is your GF just cause you banged her once...play it cool...hit her up in a few days and just let her know you were thinking of her and suggest you guys get together again...then go from there based on her reaction

 

[andy87]

Thanks for all the advice so far, so i have arranged too pick up stuff from her house tomorrow and i am wondering how i should go about it, basically after we had sex over a week ago she has went cold/distant, she hasn't initiated contact either. Now every girl i have been with after sex they have been more intrested in me and wanting too meet up more, this 1 total opposite, im thinking about just picking my stuff up and never contacting her again but would still like too know why she has went cold should i try get this out of her or should i just pick up my stuff and go i just cant be bothered with the games anymore any help appreciated thanks andy

 

[Bible_Belt]

Never leave your sh!t at a woman's house. That rule will avoid your current awkward situation.

 

[andy87]

Never leave your sh!t at a woman's house. That rule will avoid your current awkward situation.

Lesson will be learned after this

 

[ritapita20]

Afternoon folks had a date with this girl on sunday and finally sealed the deal all good but now she has went a bit cold on me. We spoke briefly on monday but after that there has been bo contact since, usually i get a text from her asking how my day is etc. My question is what do i do next i quite like this girl and the date went really well so dont why she is acting distant thing is i have left something at her house so need too eventually contact her too pick it up any help appreciated andy

Since she was waiting so long to sleep with you finally doing it was a big deal. For a woman (if we like you) after sleeping with someone for the first time it's a big deal. We step back to see what you're going to do to make sure you didn't just want sex. Contact her with just a simple text and try to set up something. All she's doing is making sure you're still really interested in her so contacting her will make her feel better about things. Do it soon it soon though!