how to approach this married woman? (moralists spare me)

[CrimsonPanther]

So then what's your next move?

nothing special. she became another plate, and in public we keep everything neutral.

which of these scenarios do you think will happen when her husband finds out?
hint: not #1

this is not the USA, she can't just say "rape" without some evidence. also, i am not really afraid of a "revenge" from the guy, he is in no position to do me real harm, and if he tries, he will end up in jail. that said, me and the girl are "just friends", and nobody knows what we do in private. and how should i even get in that position outside of him catching me with her in a bed, which is unlikely, cause i don't do homecalls.

i now know a couple of things:
- i shouldn't open a thread about this, i made a bigger issue out of it as it should have been, and it turned out ok
- there's a lot of insecure guys here trying to shame others in order to have the false feeling, that their women is faithful
- there are a lot others, afraid of a jealous husband. what is the guarantee a "single girl" won't forget to mention a jealous husband and then the same would happen? are you stalking every girl to be sure she doesn't have someone? the possibility to have a car accident is greater than that. don't be paranoid.

thanks for the input, there is no more reason to continue this thread, since i got my answer. i was looking for advises on how to let this affair proceed without making her feel slvtty. she is now cool with it, thankful for me being so understanding and good to her. that is all i wanted.

 

[Yewki]

- there are a lot others, afraid of a jealous husband. what is the guarantee a "single girl" won't forget to mention a jealous husband and then the same would happen? are you stalking every girl to be sure she doesn't have someone? the possibility to have a car accident is greater than that. don't be paranoid.

Except you know for a fact she's married, so...

 

[devilkingx2]

i now know a couple of things:
- i shouldn't open a thread about this, i made a bigger issue out of it as it should have been, and it turned out ok
- there's a lot of insecure guys here trying to shame others in order to have the false feeling, that their women is faithful
- there are a lot others, afraid of a jealous husband. what is the guarantee a "single girl" won't forget to mention a jealous husband and then the same would happen? are you stalking every girl to be sure she doesn't have someone? the possibility to have a car accident is greater than that. don't be paranoid.

-i think this thread went exactly as you knew it would

- it's called having morals, not every guy in the world thinks getting his **** wet is more important than anything else in the universe, that's a dangerous line of thought which, while fun, will get you into trouble

- chances are that it is would be extremely difficult to not notice if a girl has a boyfriend unless she either has been planning to cheat for a while and thus preparing or unless she keeps you in the dark about literally everything in her life and you don't think that's suspicious. somehow i doubt that the odds of being caught banging someone's girl are worse than the odds of getting into a car accident, but even then most car accidents are very minor anyway

 

[Von]

Who knows she might marry you

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Who knows she might marry you

Yeah, he might get lucky Then it's his turn. The ones who employ these systems have roles for the "players" involved. Of course with a woman like this the husband usually gets the short end of the stick.

 

[Von]

Yeah, he might get lucky Then it's his turn. The ones who employ these systems have roles for the "players" involved. Of course with a woman like this the husband usually gets the short end of the stick.

I've meet people who took another guy girl... married or not.... and after it happened the guy still with the girl 5 - 10 - 15 - 20 years later... there is always a reason for everything. We are talking personal stuff after all

The OP is filling a gap the ''husband'' doesn't fill.... maybe the husband doesn't care or he's gay etc....

In the end, moral or not... there is a reason this stuff is happening.... better make the best out of it cause yep its a touchy subject

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've meet people who took another guy girl... married or not.... and after it happened the guy still with the girl 5 - 10 - 15 - 20 years later... there is always a reason for everything. We are talking personal stuff after all

The OP is filling a gap the ''husband'' doesn't fill.... maybe the husband doesn't care or he's gay etc....

In the end, moral or not... there is a reason this stuff is happening.... better make the best out of it cause yep its a touchy subject

I wasnt' saying on the "moral" stance. There are women who would cheat on ANY man. Doesn't matter what he does or doesn't do. I was saying that for some of these types if you sit in the "husband" seat, she will still do all her extra-curriculars outside of the house. The husbands job is to be stable, loving and to take care of her. Her friends job is to let her have fun.

So yes often enough the outside male is filling a role the husband won't or can't do.

But often enough the outside male is simply filling a role that she won't LET the husband do, because that's not her lifestyle.

 

[devilkingx2]

Who knows she might marry you

Yeah, he might get lucky Then it's his turn. The ones who employ these systems have roles for the "players" involved. Of course with a woman like this the husband usually gets the short end of the stick.

it would be a horrible idea to ever do anything more than fvck her since she has basically proven that she doesn't really comprehend committment when it's not convenient to her

 

[mrgoodstuff]

it would be a horrible idea to ever do anything more than fvck her since she has basically proven that she doesn't really comprehend committment when it's not convenient to her

Well she's perfect for banging, you don't have to take care of her or be too helpful, do your thing and send her back home to her husband when done.

 

[Southbound29]

In my opinion it's not about morals but more about the amount of drama it could potentially and a lot of times will bring and the fact that it's probably not worth it. There's too much single pu$$y out there to worry about a married woman.

I guess to add something constructive to the convo, I'd say just treat her like any other chick you're gaming. If you're different and interesting her feelz will kick in at some point.

 

[devilkingx2]

In my opinion it's not about morals but more about the amount of drama it could potentially and a lot of times will bring and the fact that it's probably not worth it. There's too much single pu$$y out there to worry about a married woman.

I guess to add something constructive to the convo, I'd say just treat her like any other chick you're gaming. If you're different and interesting her feelz will kick in at some point.

the very last thing he wants or needs is for her to have feelz, even though it sounds like she already does