Is silent treatment all the same?

[The LadyKiller]

Getting the silent treatment is never a good thing. We know that. But do girls only do this when they're mad or they're not interested? We talk about sh*t tests and the many forms they come in, would a girl dare silent treatment a guy they might be interested in for a short period of time to see what the guy does?

I ask because this past week, a HB8 who has shown obvious interest mentioned us hanging out this coming weekend. We agreed, and that's where the interaction ended. In the few days since then, HB8 has gone completely silent. She's an outgoing person, but when I've run into her, she won't even say hi. I texted her an inside joke a couple of days ago, also nothing. However, she did favorite a tweet I posted and thought it was hilarious. Ok then.

I've faced the silent treatment from girls who weren't interested before. It's irritating, but it happens. Some girls do this if there's another guy in the picture, but I know for a fact that isn't the case this time. But to my point, a girl expressing such high interest and then immediately shutting it down? Odd. Any merit to it being a sort of sh*t test?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Do you believe a girl interested in you would risk to piss you off or losing your attention by such stupid behaviour?

Do you believe a girl that respects you would do any thing like that to you?

 

[The LadyKiller]

Do you believe a girl interested in you would risk to piss you off or losing your attention by such stupid behaviour?

Do you believe a girl that respects you would do any thing like that to you?

I agree with you on that. I brought it up because a co-worker of mine mentioned the possibility of it and I wanted to voice the question to the forum. He does fairly well with girls, so it could have some merit, though not likely.

 

[dude99]

Getting the silent treatment is never a good thing. We know that. But do girls only do this when they're mad or they're not interested? We talk about sh*t tests and the many forms they come in, would a girl dare silent treatment a guy they might be interested in for a short period of time to see what the guy does?

I ask because this past week, a HB8 who has shown obvious interest mentioned us hanging out this coming weekend. We agreed, and that's where the interaction ended. In the few days since then, HB8 has gone completely silent. She's an outgoing person, but when I've run into her, she won't even say hi. I texted her an inside joke a couple of days ago, also nothing. However, she did favorite a tweet I posted and thought it was hilarious. Ok then.

I've faced the silent treatment from girls who weren't interested before. It's irritating, but it happens. Some girls do this if there's another guy in the picture, but I know for a fact that isn't the case this time. But to my point, a girl expressing such high interest and then immediately shutting it down? Odd. Any merit to it being a sort of sh*t test?

Sounds to me like Hb8 has no interest.

 

[Von]

You've lost her, move on to next girl

 

[nismo-4]

She wouldn't give the silent treatment to Channing Tatum or Idris Elba or Stephen Curry. An interested woman would do everything she can to not lose you or piss you off. Women know mind games and head games will send a red pill man running for the hills to the next woman, also she'll likely get blocked. Women don't like being blocked and ignored by the top 10% of guys.

Face it, if she's ignoring you, she's adoring another guy.

Case closed.

 

[El Payaso]

She doesn't give a sh!t about you. Move on.

 

[The LadyKiller]

She wouldn't give the silent treatment to Channing Tatum or Idris Elba or Stephen Curry. An interested woman would do everything she can to not lose you or piss you off. Women know mind games and head games will send a red pill man running for the hills to the next woman, also she'll likely get blocked. Women don't like being blocked and ignored by the top 10% of guys.

Face it, if she's ignoring you, she's adoring another guy.

Case closed.

Case reopened! Only kidding, wanted to say that once.

The silent treatment phase ran its course, which lasted for three days. The past two days, she's been flirting and showing the IOI's I had previously seen, as if the early part of the week never happened. I've made tentative plans with others due to those silent three days, so she can come to me if she wants to do something.

 

[SeymourCake]

Case reopened! Only kidding, wanted to say that once.

Seems the silent treatment phase ran its course, which lasted for 3 days. The past two days, she's been flirting and showing the IOI's I had seen previously, like the early part of the week never happened. I've made tentative plans with others due to those silent three days, so she can come to me if she wants to do something.

Why are you entertaining her silly mind games? Drop her completely.

 

[dude99]

Case reopened! Only kidding, wanted to say that once.

The silent treatment phase ran its course, which lasted for three days. The past two days, she's been flirting and showing the IOI's I had previously seen, as if the early part of the week never happened. I've made tentative plans with others due to those silent three days, so she can come to me if she wants to do something.

Aka her plans she made with her other plate fell through now she is looking for attention again.

 

[yungballa]

shes playing games. keep in mind: a girl who likes you wont play games. she'll probably test you or what not, but she wont play games. a girl whos genuinely interested wouldnt take the risk of losing you just to play some silly games. a girl who honestly likes you wont confuse you. simple math, man.

shes just coming back to you for some attention, thats it. and if you think she really still likes you, go ahead and escalate on her, and see how far you can go.