Pulling Girls Who Previously Friend-zoned You When You Were Still An AFC

[JRT123]

Lots of interesting thoughts in this thread. Thanks guys.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You don't chase her tho. She will come to you when she hears your hot now. Like the other guy said they will say stupid ish like they missed you, and all kinda other $hit they weren't doing before. It has to be a remarkable physique transform.

I've had chicks come back and it's still not the same. It simply takes too much time to change her prior perception of you. Just find a new woman.

 

[Infern0]

I've had chicks come back and it's still not the same. It simply takes too much time to change her prior perception of you. Just find a new woman.

Again, its not about time or trying to change her perception of you.

If a girl blew you off for being a chump, she becomes low priority. To me I'm not going to permanently nc a chick who was right to blow me off but she does go to the bottom of the pile.

In thus way if she is serious about wanting you back you are basically saying "fine give it your best shot" and leave her to do the work

It doesn't mean you are going to be a **** to her or act bitter or butthurt you are just taking an "I'll believe it when I see it" attitude and prioritize your time to other girls.

This is the only approach that works and you don't actually have to do anything.

In the cases where this has happened to me the girls do all the leg work, your attitude tells them that you are sceptical and they are low priority and its on them to earn you back.

There is a special satisfaction to pounding in a girl who friendzoned you or whatever back in your AFC days, its slaying the old demon.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Again, its not about time or trying to change her perception of you.

If a girl blew you off for being a chump, she becomes low priority. To me I'm not going to permanently nc a chick who was right to blow me off but she does go to the bottom of the pile.

In thus way if she is serious about wanting you back you are basically saying "fine give it your best shot" and leave her to do the work

It doesn't mean you are going to be a **** to her or act bitter or butthurt you are just taking an "I'll believe it when I see it" attitude and prioritize your time to other girls.

This is the only approach that works and you don't actually have to do anything.

In the cases where this has happened to me the girls do all the leg work, your attitude tells them that you are sceptical and they are low priority and its on them to earn you back.

I'm not disagreeing with anything you said. I'm just saying it is a waste of time. Whether she reaches out or not, she still is taking up your time if she does eventually come over. She will always have that weak, needy, AFC male in the back of her mind. Even then, that image won't go away. It is permanent. As Doc Love would say, "you're out!"

There is a special satisfaction to pounding in a girl who friendzoned you or whatever back in your AFC days, its slaying the old demon.

It's overrated. There's always someone better.

 

[Roni_88]

I can tell you that first paragraph is true for a fact.

Back in the day I used to be 204lb at 6'0" I was skinnyfat, big beerbelly but skinny twig arms, generally quite shabby looking.

Jan 1 2013 I decide enough of this. Hit the gym 5x a week and diet on point. Luckily my body responded insanely well to lifting and by august I had been down to 170 and built back up to 195 lean.

Reactivated my Facebook and posted pics and I kid you not I had 2 texts and 2 PM's within 3 hours, two of them from girls who had previously friendzoned me, telling me they "missed me".

If you can shock them with an appearance change it goes a long way to them changing their mind about you.

Exactly my plan not for the girls, but to show myself I can achieve what I commit to. I have deactivated FB started seeing benefits of it and hitting the gym harder and harder.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm not disagreeing with anything you said. I'm just saying it is a waste of time. Whether she reaches out or not, she still is taking up your time if she does eventually come over. She will always have that weak, needy, AFC male in the back of her mind. Even then, that image won't go away. It is permanent. As Doc Love would say, "you're out!"



It's overrated. There's always someone better.

That image will go away if you don't waste a lot of time on her and phuck her hard everytime she sees you. She will think she didn't see you correctly. You can't be nice to her tho, that will keep you AFC'd.

 

[EyeBRollin]

That image will go away if you don't waste a lot of time on her and phuck her hard everytime she sees you. She will think she didn't see you correctly. You can't be nice to her tho, that will keep you AFC'd.

I disagree. It never fully goes away.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I disagree. It never fully goes away.

I've had girls where they knew I had that side but saw the other side they can phuck real hard, and it worked out. Sometimes women like to know you can take care of them even if you are an alpha phuck.