Where the hell can we find quality women?

[Capt.America]

it look like the general idea here is that girls online aren't good quality chicks . So where the hell do we find a quality chick that is relationship material? I dnt see how approaching chicks in the street can get U a quality chick . Nor does meeting them at bars . Even girls at my college they all seem messed up like th online chicks

 

[Tictac]

No woman is 'relationship material' when you first meet her. If you look at it that way, the number of 'quality women' you will meet will stay at zero.

As for meeting women that may turn out to be 'relationship material' after several months of getting to know her, (which is what dates are for) women, good looking, decent behaving women, are everywhere, including online.

And the process is identical IRL or OL. Introduce yourself. If you get a decent vibe, ask her out. If the initial meeting goes well, ask her out again but not the same time you leave her for the first time. And do this with several women at the same time (spin plates).

 

[Reykhel]

Scarcity mentality, along with faulty perceptions.

 

[fastlife]

@Tictac nailed it. Almost every girl will display 'quality' behavior for the right guy. Feminity can't exist without the presence of masculinity and can't help but exist in the presence of masculinity (except for some lost causes). We live in a masculinity vacuum--of course girls are literally going cray cray. Their hindbrain is screaming 'No masculine leadership, not gonna make it.'

That said, it's your job to find the best raw material. But even a 'quality woman' will turn into a raging, hypergamous beast if she realizes you're weaker today than you were yesterday. Just may or may not be a little more graceful about it.

 

[Capt.America]

I see so what qualities make a chick relationship material ? I don't like girl who had ONS or too much sexual pRtners . I don't like girls who drink or smoke but I can do tattoos or piercings .
Is there a list here thst shows us whst qualities are good for ltr?

 

[LiveFreeX]

Anywhere in the 3rd world.

 

[Skyline]

I see so what qualities make a chick relationship material ? I don't like girl who had ONS or too much sexual pRtners . I don't like girls who drink or smoke but I can do tattoos or piercings .
Is there a list here thst shows us whst qualities are good for ltr?

Personal preference.

Maybe I'm a smoker and would like a girl that also smokes.

It's up to you.

 

[altolin]

Something I realized a while back is that frame is really everything. The success you have in sticking to your frame and keeping it in the relationship will create a situation where she is part of the crew instead of a passenger in your life (or relationship) journey.

With some woman it is not possible to hold the frame and still be sane. These I avoid and I think it is not too difficult to spot them. There will be a sh*t storm of sh*t tests coming your way without any mercy... even if you use good game.

When I think of a quality woman I think how attracted I am but the other 50% depends on how easy it is to keep and hold the frame with her. If it is not easy and enjoyable holding the frame and I continually get resistance from her then I know she is not a quality woman. (Perhaps she had a hen-pecked father)

Like in life I will make mistakes and some things will look beta in me for which she will sh*t test me... but she will need to overlook many of my mistakes as long as she makes it easy for me to hold the frame because I'm the man - the leader. I'm strong and never show weakness. I'm a the guy with a lot of SMV and my masculine behavior confirms this. I'm the prize.

 

[jdb]

Be active and be one of the leaders of a volunteering organization.

 

[wifehunter]

I've found a few at health food stores ie: trader joes, whole foods, and sprouts.

They tend to be health nuts too, which I like.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Almost every girl will display 'quality' behavior for the right guy. Feminity can't exist without the presence of masculinity and can't help but exist in the presence of masculinity (except for some lost causes). We live in a masculinity vacuum--of course girls are literally going cray cray. Their hindbrain is screaming 'No masculine leadership, not gonna make it.'

That said, it's your job to find the best raw material. But even a 'quality woman' will turn into a raging, hypergamous beast if she realizes you're weaker today than you were yesterday. Just may or may not be a little more graceful about it.

Absolute truth. A girl's "quality" is not like a diamond or a bag of apples, that is CONSISTENT from user to user.. Her "quality" is vastly DIFFERENT based on who she's with. If YOU can't find "quality women" look in the mirror.

Sucks, but it's the way it is.

 

[Yewki]

Even girls at my college they all seem messed up like th online chicks

If you think the quality of the girls at your college is the same as the general OLD pool... you probably haven't talked to enough girls at your college. That or you gravely underestimate the trashiness of OLD. Or both.

As for where to find girls... let me ask you a question. How many times per week do you see an attractive girl, but you don't approach her or say anything? I'm willing to bet the answer is at least a couple... probably more like 100+ since you're in college. How about talking to those? If you don't like any of the girls you come across, then focus on expanding your hobbies and interests so that you do.

 

[Reykhel]

it look like the general idea here is that girls online aren't good quality chicks . So where the hell do we find a quality chick that is relationship material? I dnt see how approaching chicks in the street can get U a quality chick . Nor does meeting them at bars . Even girls at my college they all seem messed up like th online chicks

Ok seriously first you need to change your negative beliefs.....just look at the paragraph you wrote above and you've already decided that day game isn't worth it (you don't see.....lack of belief), you don't believe that you can meet a quality chick in a bar......so that belief means that at no time in no country around the world a "quality chick" will be on the premises........the online belief we kind of share that.....but I'm willing to be open minded and say perhaps there's a small percentage.........

Do you see how your overall negative beliefs will just........make you throw your hands up in the air and say....."well what's the point in trying...."

Now we could go further down the rabbit hole and discover what's under those negative beliefs......do you feel deep down that you don't "deserve to meet a quality chick" or something like that? Is it even laziness? Do you know you need to work on your SMV in order to meet higher quality chicks and you just don't feel like putting in the work to improve yourself?

There's a lot at play here........but they start with your negative beliefs. These need to be changed. These are perceptions. They are how you see the world. Your perceptions are full of the errors of subjectivity, just like everyone's. Then when you perceive things and people through your perceptions they are full of judgements, opinions, praise, criticisms.........

....Where there is perception......there is deception.

Next you need to define what you need by "quality women". Everyone will have a different opinion on what a "quality women means"....

this is something that you need to do personally. Call it working on your own personal blueprint.....
Take a piece of paper and on one side write how you would like your quality woman to be.........height, weight, what's her personality like? is she a giver? a good communicator? is she patient? write every quality that's important to you......
now the other side of the paper.......things that are a no go for you.......things that would rule her out..........for example.......smoking? does she live in the past? is she overweight? is she impatient..........only you can decide what are no go's for you.............
...................this is your personal blueprint.....

Now take another paper and write on one side where your likely to find a girl like this
toastmasters? night classes? dance class?

remember, there are places you will find every kind of woman all of the time.....open your eyes they are every where!!!!!!!!! I was in the supermarket monday evening......single women all over!! Coffee shops, museum, the street.........

Now, on the other side of that paper........what do you need to improve in you to be able to attract and keep the girl on your blueprint paper???

 

[Trump]

it look like the general idea here is that girls online aren't good quality chicks . So where the hell do we find a quality chick that is relationship material? I dnt see how approaching chicks in the street can get U a quality chick . Nor does meeting them at bars . Even girls at my college they all seem messed up like th online chicks

What is a quality woman bro? Can you define it? Is it a girl who has only slept with 5 guys? Is it a girl who makes a lot of money? Is it a girl who is hot? Is it a girl who is a celebrity? Is it a girl who won't put you down? Is it a girl who is not a single mother?

There is no such thing as a quality woman. There are only woman out there who looking out for THEIR best interest and whether or not you fit in their plan.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Thinking about joining a co-ed softball league for starters, not saying quality women will be there, but its a start

 

[Desdinova]

Is there a list here thst shows us whst qualities are good for ltr?

As young as possible, as low-mileage as possible. High score theory.

The best piece of advice I can give you is when you encounter a major red flag, dump the bytch ASAP. Unless you're only after sex, there is absolutely no reason to hang onto a bytch with one or multiple red flags. She is a waste of time. You're better off being single than being with a worthless bytch.

 

[yuppee]

I agree with third world, altho I'd avoid Russians. They are way too likely to be mobbed up.

 

[BeExcellent]

Thinking about joining a co-ed softball league for starters, not saying quality women will be there, but its a start

I know a married couple who met on 3rd base (literally) while playing co-ed softball. They are both great people too.

 

[Dingo]

Church ?.....

 

[GeniuzKhrist]

3.5 billion women on earth, if you can't find a few it's because you haven't walked outside in some time, which means you should probably bring sun-screen, it gets a little warmer then your computer screen