How Should I Play This Situation?

[Nu Vision]

No response.

If she was interested she would have said something like Mon or Tue don't work for me, how about Friday/Saturday.

Here's my question: for girls you haven't really talk to a lot and want to invite them I think it's weird to just say hi thus is so and so let's get a drink together on such and such without having at least a little back and forth intro convo via text.

But I may be wrong. I definite over texted in this case.

What are good simple straightforward lines to say to quickly ask them out.

If I say: hey this is ____ I find you attractive. We should go out for a drink blah blah blah

That's displaying too much interest early on.

 

[stevo]

Smdh!

How did you fcuk that up?

It's really tiring saying the same sheet over and over, especially to ppl who's been on here for a long minute.

YOU DO NOT BUILD COMFORT OVER TEXT.

"When are you free to meet for drinks" it's not rocket science.
Get a method that works for you and ALWAYS use it.

You don't get dinged for going straight for the kill, you only get ding for not.

You like girl, you invite her out first message, third max.

Move on.

 

[Nu Vision]

Smdh!

How did you fcuk that up?

It's really tiring saying the same sheet over and over, especially to ppl who's been on here for a long minute.

YOU DO NOT BUILD COMFORT OVER TEXT.

"When are you free to meet for drinks" it's not rocket science.
Get a method that works for you and ALWAYS use it.

You don't get dinged for going straight for the kill, you only get ding for not.

You like girl, you invite her out first message, third max.

Move on.

Stevo,

Don't blame ya for being tired of saying Sam's thing. I'm pissed with myself too. I'll simplify things and use a line that works everytime. I think continuing to read ingo is backfiring. Too much info and you get ideas from different sources that confuse the crap out of you.

 

[stevo]

Stevo,

Don't blame ya for being tired of saying Sam's thing. I'm pissed with myself too. I'll simplify things and use a line that works everytime. I think continuing to read ingo is backfiring. Too much info and you get ideas from different sources that confuse the crap out of you.

I feel you man.

There's always someone on here willing to help, before you send the message post it on here first and get some feedback.

With this broad, dont double text, if she miraculously hits you up, schedule something without too much back and forth rapport.

 

[Nu Vision]

No reply from that girl. I guess I really messed it up. Moving on.

The other girl that canceled last Thursday I'll text her and try to set up a date for this weekend. If she flakes moving on too.

There's this other girl I know from high school who I've talked to on FB. Haven't talked to her in a long while. Thinking of msg her and asking her out.

Based on what I've learned I should jeep the msgs short and precise and not too many and get to the point: Ask her out. Any ideas?

I don't have her # so I have to do the FB thing.

 

[Yewki]

No reply from that girl. I guess I really messed it up.

Never judge your actions based on the outcome when it comes to women

You could have played it perfectly and still gotten no reply

 

[Nu Vision]

Never judge your actions based on the outcome when it comes to women

You could have played it perfectly and still gotten no reply

True.

She could have at least said thanks but I'm not interested or I'm kind of talking to someone now. No reply at all is more cruel.

 

[Nu Vision]

Texted the girl who canceled on Thursday. Asked what day is she free this week to hang out. She says Sunday. I say ok 7 pm. She says can it be earlier. I replied ok what time can you make it? She takes an hr to reply : "sorry. Just saw the msg. But hasn't said a time."

This reeks of low interest. I asked her what time and has yet to answer.

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Contacted the other girl via fb. We talked a little bit (no more than 6 texts). I tell her we should get together Go grab a drink sometime. Almost 3 hrs later no answer from her. Another rejection it seems. But fvck it at least trying and don't have to wonder what if
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[LiveYourDream]

Texted the girl who canceled on Thursday. Asked what day is she free this week to hang out. She says Sunday. I say ok 7 pm. She says can it be earlier. I replied ok what time can you make it? She takes an hr to reply : "sorry. Just saw the msg. But hasn't said a time."

This reeks of low interest. I asked her what time and has yet to answer.

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Contacted the other girl via fb. We talked a little bit (no more than 6 texts). I tell her we should get together Go grab a drink sometime. Almost 3 hrs later no answer from her. Another rejection it seems. But fvck it at least trying and don't have to wonder what if
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Do not reach out to either one again. Consider them not interested and move on. If they contact you to meet up, consider your goal and decide if it's worth your time and attention. Neither is showing high interest. Get your mind off these two. Go out and meet new women, pronto.

 

[Nu Vision]

Do not reach out to either one again. Consider them not interested and move on. If they contact you to meet up, consider your goal and decide if it's worth your time and attention. Neither is showing high interest. Get your mind off these two. Go out and meet new women, pronto.

WI'll do. These are girls I've gotten their numbers or talked to before so thought might as well try them first and see what's cooking. Now I have nobe of these girls on my list. Need to go out and meet new girls. And I will do that.

 

[Nu Vision]

FB girl replied this morning: sure let me know.

I'll ask when is she free to meet this week.