Dear Ignorant Black Women,

[backbreaker]

It's your boy backbreaker again. Today i want to talk to you about some basic Do's and Don'ts when it comes to relationships and how to get the best out of yours.


Do:

• When you are over 40 and have 3 kids, 2 of which are in prison, DO recognize your value and what you bring to the table
• Do Have a real job yourself
• Do Have a place to live. Please note, that it's better to have your own place, but if necessary living as a roomate will do
• Do treat the the man with respect that is giving your worthless ass the time of day.

Don't:

• Don't sell drugs. Selling drugs is generally not looked at as an attractive trait by successful men that they want in a woman.
• Don't have friends that are escorts. People tend to judge you by the people you hang around and having a friend that is in the escort service industry might give a man second thoughts about the type of crowd that you run with
• When you get evicted, lose your job, lose your house and lose your car, don't treat the man that lets you move in to get on your feet like ****. Men generally like to feel appreciated
• When you **** up and the man gives you another chance, don't leave and tell him that you will be home at 8pm and come home at 9.......pm......the next day..
• When the man is gracious enough to let you in the house when you do come home, don't stair at your phone the entire time he's telling you how he feels about you, then make up a **** excuse to leave 15 mins later. This is generally considered a sign of disrpect.
• When the man after you have obviously not paid him any attention and shown that you really don't give a **** about him, calls you a ***** in a fit of rage, don't threaten him by telling him that you are going to have one of his sons kill him. This is terrorist threatening and generally men don't like women that have felonies on their record.
• And finally, don't use the key that you stole from him to break in his house while he's sleep. yes i know it's a nice TV but it's HIS lol. He used the job he has to actually go out and BUY the TV. ; People who buy **** generally like to keep the **** they buy
  

I know, some of these are really tough. It will take some time to digest, but men will have a whole new respect for you once you abide by this clear yet albeit difficult rules to follow

- Backbreaker

 

[LiveYourDream]

Should one cross the path of a woman, as described above, do not stop, do not try to change them, just keep going and never look back.

 

[Tenacity]

Leave out the Black part out, might sound racist.

Nope, he should leave it exactly how it is because I've been saying for awhile now on this forum that dating/dealing with black women can be extremely challenging....more challenging than dealing/dating with other races of women.

Should one cross the path of a woman, as described above, do not stop, do not try to change them, just keep going and never look back.

I 100% agree with you in theory, but in reality you run into an issue where you end up NEXT'ing everybody and get literally no action. The reality is that most women are fvcked up (especially black ones), so it's like if you are going to date/deal with women in general, EXPECT to have to tolerate some level of bullshyt.

I've gotten better over the years of dealing with these crazy SOBs.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Back Breaker,
I like your style....Some years ago I had a bilateral Hip replacement...Bluddy Painful I tell you...I woke and it was dark...The pain pretty grim...One leg had fallen off the side of the bed...I pressed the bell for the night Nurse...No one came,such pain,the Anglos shift...Then in the dim dark hours when no one will work,came this lovely fat Black Lady from Botswana,she did so much for me,nothing was too much trouble...Be she black as the Ace of Spades I hope that God blesses her,she was a fine Lady.

 

[grayclif]

It's your boy backbreaker again. Today i want to talk to you about some basic Do's and Don'ts when it comes to relationships and how to get the best out of yours.


Do:

• When you are over 40 and have 3 kids, 2 of which are in prison, DO recognize your value and what you bring to the table
• Do Have a real job yourself
• Do Have a place to live. Please note, that it's better to have your own place, but if necessary living as a roomate will do
• Do treat the the man with respect that is giving your worthless ass the time of day.

Don't:

• Don't sell drugs. Selling drugs is generally not looked at as an attractive trait by successful men that they want in a woman.
• Don't have friends that are escorts. People tend to judge you by the people you hang around and having a friend that is in the escort service industry might give a man second thoughts about the type of crowd that you run with
• When you get evicted, lose your job, lose your house and lose your car, don't treat the man that lets you move in to get on your feet like ****. Men generally like to feel appreciated
• When you **** up and the man gives you another chance, don't leave and tell him that you will be home at 8pm and come home at 9.......pm......the next day..
• When the man is gracious enough to let you in the house when you do come home, don't stair at your phone the entire time he's telling you how he feels about you, then make up a **** excuse to leave 15 mins later. This is generally considered a sign of disrpect.
• When the man after you have obviously not paid him any attention and shown that you really don't give a **** about him, calls you a ***** in a fit of rage, don't threaten him by telling him that you are going to have one of his sons kill him. This is terrorist threatening and generally men don't like women that have felonies on their record.
• And finally, don't use the key that you stole from him to break in his house while he's sleep. yes i know it's a nice TV but it's HIS lol. He used the job he has to actually go out and BUY the TV. ; People who buy **** generally like to keep the **** they buy

I know, some of these are really tough. It will take some time to digest, but men will have a whole new respect for you once you abide by this clear yet albeit difficult rules to follow

- Backbreaker

I hear you brah. What would a guy need with a gal on the DO list alone.

Sounds like you are referring to specific situation that may have taken place around you.

 

[backbreaker]

yes it's a very specific situation.


i find this interesting because, the hamster theory or whatever you want to call it, makes a huge assumption; that women inherantiy know how to treat a man right, yet chose not to until they get older.


this woman is i think 42-43 years old. she's never going to change. she's literally ****ing her son's best friend lol. her 17 year old son's best friend. she is defective. she's never going to change. i mean, tbhe dude showed me a letter she wrote him. somewhere she understands that this is the type of guy i'm SUPPOSED to like lol, she tells him that she has to get her **** togegther but when she does she wants to be his woman. it was actually kinda sweet . but she doesn't actually like him lol. she just can't take it there. s he's attracted to her 17 year old best friend who sales Xanax pills and weed lol.

 

[Lozboss]

Sadly I don't think this is just 40+ or just black chicks.

You can pretty much replace 40 with 30 in this.

You could even do a a version for 20s and it wouldn't change much. Just take out the kids.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sadly I don't think this is just 40+ or just black chicks.

You can pretty much replace 40 with 30 in this.

You could even do a a version for 20s and it wouldn't change much. Just take out the kids.

Men have to form a new rule set of whats considered acceptable behavior. We cannot continue to uphold and encourage unacceptable behviors and I agree color doesn't matter.

These womens are so entitled they think they are literally gods.

 

[Lozboss]

Men have to form a new rule set of whats considered acceptable behavior. We cannot continue to uphold and encourage unacceptable behviors and I agree color doesn't matter.

These womens are so entitled they think they are literally gods.

Sadly it's the thirsty Betas that cause this.

You only need to go on a woman's instagram or facebook or twitter to see this.

 

[BeTheChange]

You are responsible for the people you choose to keep in your life.

Your friend has to accept that much of his misery in relation to this woman is his own fault. This "woman" should have been dinged along time ago.

 

[WanderingMan]

Should one cross the path of a woman, as described above, do not stop, do not try to change them, just keep going and never look back.

Women won't change for you. They will not. No matter how good of an act she's putting on in the beginning, once she has her hooks in you, she will morph back to her natural state. Whatever state that may be.

Qualify women. Look past the bull****. See those red flags that are obvious to everyone but you....then recognize them for what they are. Choose who you are going to bring into YOUR life. You must not be needy. In order to freely drop someone from your life you must be self-reliant and be okay on your own, alone. Then when a quality woman comes along, you will be free to bring her into your life.

Qualify, have standards, see past the bull****-----> recognize.

 

[yuppee]

The hatred US women show towards younger, thinner, prettier 3rd world "imported" wives shows their true nature.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The hatred US women show towards younger, thinner, prettier 3rd world "imported" wives shows their true nature.

They know you got a "better" woman and do not value them, so of course. They tried to make a system that the male is cheated at every turn.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

You are responsible for the people you choose to keep in your life.

Your friend has to accept that much of his misery in relation to this woman is his own fault. This "woman" should have been dinged along time ago.

You cannot succeed in any feat in life until you first accept that you are where you are because of YOU, and not by anybody else.

Such a simple concept, yet very few :cough: can truly understand it.

 

[zinc4]

Black women in general suck. Met a cool one straight off the boat from Guana last night, though.

I'm starting to think American and British women are just the worst on the planet, regardless of race.

 

[Asmodeus]

I dated one black woman for a while... I am not racist at all and have actually been with women of different ethnicities (Filipino, Bangladeshi, Mexican [twice]). It may have been a single bad experience but my god was it a bad experience. I am white, I am going to sound like a racist perhaps but I am going to say it...

It has nothing to do with race and everything to do with culture. I met a person who was from Africa who was black but showed no such traits, I also knew an African American person who lived in the rural areas where I did and they carried themselves with dinity and sought self improvement. There are white people who embrace this cluture being a part of it, a culture most prevalent in inner cities. I believe that this culture which spawned in the poverty stricken inner cities which promotes thugishness is degenerate. It does not promote self improvement, instead it hails people who are gangsters and glamorizes hoes. It is a culture with completely different standards and dynamics, where my black associate I knew who went to college and did not wear baggy jeans hanging down to his knees was said to be "acting white". This is the main problem, and I think it is very harmful to African Americans who accept the standards being promoted in this cluture becasue it creates a ridiculous stereotype. The Black community has shown periods of greatness during times such as the Harlem Renissance where a focus on Black artistry and education in the Harlem area of New York created a micro-cluture that was superior to what was even seen in White communities at the time. Most of my favorite poets (Langston Hughes), Musicians (Bilie Holiday) and intellectuals came from that cluture. So, it has nothing to do with race, as cluture is an entirely separate thing from race.

As for that date, it was a huge mistake... Too much into that inner city culture was engrained in her mentality, and despite being in college her actual speech sounded as if spoken by a middle schooler. I also was supised at the lack of acceptance on her own part, and the level of entitlement despite being in a lower socioeconomic class than me (and I am a simple blue collar person). I would have no problem dating a black woman, if they had class, better standards, and better asiprations. But this one was not the case, and I see it as a more widespread problem too.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Plain and simple, I don't date African American Women. Nothing against black women from others countries.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Plain and simple, I don't date African American Women. Nothing against black women from others countries.

Wouldn't it depend upon if you date black women from "the hood" or versus upper middle class to rich neighborhoods? Environment matters.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I dated one black woman for a while... I am not racist at all and have actually been with women of different ethnicities (Filipino, Bangladeshi, Mexican [twice]). It may have been a single bad experience but my god was it a bad experience. I am white, I am going to sound like a racist perhaps but I am going to say it...

It has nothing to do with race and everything to do with culture. I met a person who was from Africa who was black but showed no such traits, I also knew an African American person who lived in the rural areas where I did and they carried themselves with dinity and sought self improvement. There are white people who embrace this cluture being a part of it, a culture most prevalent in inner cities. I believe that this culture which spawned in the poverty stricken inner cities which promotes thugishness is degenerate. It does not promote self improvement, instead it hails people who are gangsters and glamorizes hoes. It is a culture with completely different standards and dynamics, where my black associate I knew who went to college and did not wear baggy jeans hanging down to his knees was said to be "acting white". This is the main problem, and I think it is very harmful to African Americans who accept the standards being promoted in this cluture becasue it creates a ridiculous stereotype. The Black community has shown periods of greatness during times such as the Harlem Renissance where a focus on Black artistry and education in the Harlem area of New York created a micro-cluture that was superior to what was even seen in White communities at the time. Most of my favorite poets (Langston Hughes), Musicians (Bilie Holiday) and intellectuals came from that cluture. So, it has nothing to do with race, as cluture is an entirely separate thing from race.

As for that date, it was a huge mistake... Too much into that inner city culture was engrained in her mentality, and despite being in college her actual speech sounded as if spoken by a middle schooler. I also was supised at the lack of acceptance on her own part, and the level of entitlement despite being in a lower socioeconomic class than me (and I am a simple blue collar person). I would have no problem dating a black woman, if they had class, better standards, and better asiprations. But this one was not the case, and I see it as a more widespread problem too.

She sounded like a girl from the "hood" who wasn't trying to get out of it. And I agree for many that wouldn't be a good choice for dating.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Wouldn't it depend upon if you date black women from "the hood" or versus upper middle class to rich neighborhoods? Environment matters.

Nope, environment doesn't matter. Dated a doctor for three months was the same as the hood rat......different clothes and car.