Jack Hensy
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2015
- Messages
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- Age
- 44
I had a couple of great dates with this woman. Both dates lasted 7 hours. We can sit, talk, tell stories, and flirt for hours about EVERYTHING. The attraction is there. We both tell a lot of stories to each other and I give her goose bumps whenever I tell her a great story. Sometimes she says we are friends. Then other times she leans into hold my hand, we kiss and she thinks I'm very sexy.
She never texts me first. But when her to make a date she always says yes and makes it easy for me. She says I am unpredictable. The bad news she told me she had been sleeping with this other guy a few weeks ago -- whereas its just physical and no chemistry at all. I tell her to go have fun with him and do what makes you happy. I showed no neediness. She says no.....she doesn't have any chemistry with him. He is just cute--- like me. Not sure why should would tell me --- other than a shiit test. But I passed it by being cool, upbeat, and not caring.
At the end of the date it always ends in the parking lot with lots of passionate kissing and more playful teasing and banter. I want to take my time with her.
She does mention wanting to be friends with me, but then we start kissing again. I told her to lets take it slow and be friends and see where it goes. Then we kiss passionately again. Sometimes she grabs my hand and other times not.
There is a lot of positive vibes between us. We both mentioned that we feel like we have known each other are entire lives and she feels very comfortable around me. We are both warm-hearted people and we act like giddy teenagers on a date. She says I am special. I am keeping my cool, on the same page as her as starting out as friends---but sometimes we cant keep our hands off each other.
I want to escalate, but trying to play my cards and be cool with her. Sometimes aloof.
Any ideas where she stands? Keep doing what I am doing by asking her out once a week? I only text her to set a date, never to chat. Not going to be friendzoned while she fvcks another guy though-- she tells me she is not interested in him since there is no chemistry.
She never texts me first. But when her to make a date she always says yes and makes it easy for me. She says I am unpredictable. The bad news she told me she had been sleeping with this other guy a few weeks ago -- whereas its just physical and no chemistry at all. I tell her to go have fun with him and do what makes you happy. I showed no neediness. She says no.....she doesn't have any chemistry with him. He is just cute--- like me. Not sure why should would tell me --- other than a shiit test. But I passed it by being cool, upbeat, and not caring.
At the end of the date it always ends in the parking lot with lots of passionate kissing and more playful teasing and banter. I want to take my time with her.
She does mention wanting to be friends with me, but then we start kissing again. I told her to lets take it slow and be friends and see where it goes. Then we kiss passionately again. Sometimes she grabs my hand and other times not.
There is a lot of positive vibes between us. We both mentioned that we feel like we have known each other are entire lives and she feels very comfortable around me. We are both warm-hearted people and we act like giddy teenagers on a date. She says I am special. I am keeping my cool, on the same page as her as starting out as friends---but sometimes we cant keep our hands off each other.
I want to escalate, but trying to play my cards and be cool with her. Sometimes aloof.
Any ideas where she stands? Keep doing what I am doing by asking her out once a week? I only text her to set a date, never to chat. Not going to be friendzoned while she fvcks another guy though-- she tells me she is not interested in him since there is no chemistry.
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