Saying NO to Valentines Day

[Speculator E]

This year with the stress I've been having lately at my job, I'm thinking of not bothering to ask main girl out for valentines day. I believe it's a big deal for her because she seem like the romantic type. However I'm just not feeling it. She's give little hints of interest but still giving me the silence treatment since New Years.

I wanted to know if this is a good idea to not ask her out for Valentines Day and possibly her Birthday too since it's in February too? Possibly just wait until March when all the holidays are over with to restart things.

 

[AllDay85]

She's give little hints of interest but still giving me the silence treatment since New Years.

Read that. Over and over again until you wake up.

No contact. Ever. Sorry bruh.

 

[Speculator E]

I've never considered us to be dating ever, but for some reason she thought I should have asked her out for New Years. When I didn't she became angry (enraged is more accurate) and is now giving me the silent treatment.

 

[Speculator E]

Read that. Over and over again until you wake up.

No contact. Ever. Sorry bruh.

I don't think so. I believe she wants our first official date to be on Valentines Day. She wanted it on New Years, but since that didn't happen she wants it on Valentines Day now.

 

[AllDay85]

I don't think so. I believe she wants our first official date to be on Valentines Day. She wanted it on New Years, but since that didn't happen she wants it on Valentines Day now.

"She wanted, she wanted." That's the problem right there.

Why would she put off seeing you for months? You're delusional if you think she wasn't seeing other guys.

 

[Speculator E]

"She wanted, she wanted." That's the problem right there.

Why would she put off seeing you for months? You're delusional if you think she wasn't seeing other guys.

She was in 2+ year relationship with her live in boyfriend while I was gaming her.

 

[AllDay85]

She was in 2+ year relationship with her live in boyfriend while I was gaming her.

You're low on the totem pole buddy. Let it go and free yourself of her chains.

 

[Speculator E]

Just walk away and let other people post. Don't be greedy. Your advice aren't helpful.

I didn't ask if she's interested or not. I ask how she would react if I ditch her on Valentines Day.

 

[AllDay85]

She would go out with someone else and go nc on you.

 

[blind_one]

This year with the stress I've been having lately at my job, I'm thinking of not bothering to ask main girl out for valentines day. I believe it's a big deal for her because she seem like the romantic type. However I'm just not feeling it. She's give little hints of interest but still giving me the silence treatment since New Years.
1. Did you fvck her ?
2. " big day for her " - wtf man ?
3. Hints of interest ?

I wanted to know if this is a good idea to not ask her out for Valentines Day and possibly her Birthday too since it's in February too? Possibly just wait until March when all the holidays are over with to restart things.

Possibly just wait till christmas. Seriously, re-read what you posted.

 

[Tictac]

Just walk away and let other people post. Don't be greedy. Your advice aren't helpful.

I didn't ask if she's interested or not. I ask how she would react if I ditch her on Valentines Day.

Still going for the sexual harassment suit I see. With a woman you have never been out with.

You cannot 'ditch' someone that has no interest in you.

 

[Desdinova]

On February 15th, she'll go back to work and hear what her co-workers' significant others did for them on Valentine's day. Your main plate will get asked if you did anything for her. How do you think she'll answer? Will she still have the pleasant adoration for you, or will she be full of bitterness?

Valentine's day is a necessary evil because it ranks high in the mind of a woman. You don't have to buy her chocolates and flowers, but you need to take her somewhere or do something with her. Cook a meal with her, light some candles, then go down on her for an hour. The candles will make it "special" for her.

 

[Lozboss]

I've never considered us to be dating ever, but for some reason she thought I should have asked her out for New Years. When I didn't she became angry (enraged is more accurate) and is now giving me the silent treatment.

No valentines for her then. Hot tinder for a Valentine's Day date f*ck. It's easy.

No contact her, block and delete.

 

[tennisbuck12]

No way. If a girl is interested you will know

 

[LiveYourDream]

This year with the stress I've been having lately at my job, I'm thinking of not bothering to ask main girl out for valentines day. I believe it's a big deal for her because she seem like the romantic type. However I'm just not feeling it. She's give little hints of interest but still giving me the silence treatment since New Years.

I wanted to know if this is a good idea to not ask her out for Valentines Day and possibly her Birthday too since it's in February too? Possibly just wait until March when all the holidays are over with to restart things.

You are living in a fantasy in your head.

You repeatedly attribute this woman's emotions to be about you.--FANTASY
You have NEVER been on a date with what you call "your main girl."--FANTASY
You continue to post about wanting your FIRST date, to be just as you imagine she wants it.--FANTASY

 

[BeExcellent]

Having been in the bar/nightclub business previously I actually think Valentine's Day and New Year's Eve are the two worst days to go out ever, FYI. Everything is inflated cost-wise by 3-4 times the money for no good reason. These are also amateur nights when every couple who never goes out decides they need to get out of the house which means more drunks out there driving around, every place packed, etc. etc.

But you are really in fantasy land here and need really to let it go and drive on.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You are living in a fantasy in your head.

You repeatedly attribute this woman's emotions to be about you.--FANTASY
You have NEVER been on a date with what you call "your main girl."--FANTASY
You continue to post about wanting your FIRST date, to be just as you imagine she wants it.--FANTASY

Waiting Until After the Holidays to Hook Up, Good or Bad Idea? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....-holidays-to-hook-up-good-or-bad-idea.230488/

Girl is Mad About Not Dating on Valentine's http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/girl-is-mad-about-not-dating-on-valentines.230876/

Girl is Mad I Didn't Ask Her Out for New Year's, Help! http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....-didnt-ask-her-out-for-new-years-help.231145/

I Pissed Off a Girl at Work and she Made a Harassment Compliant Against Me http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....ade-a-harassment-compliant-against-me.231272/

Rex is anxiously awaiting the "I Got Fired From My Job for Sexual Harassment," the "A Girl From Work Filed a Restraining Order Against Me Thread," and the "A Girl From Work Had Her Boyfriend F*ck Me Up," threads from this stupid mutha****a.

She was in 2+ year relationship with her live in boyfriend while I was gaming her.

If you haven't had the chance to get to know her carnally, let alone gone on a date with her, how could you be "gaming," her?

 

[Speculator E]

On February 15th, she'll go back to work and hear what her co-workers' significant others did for them on Valentine's day. Your main plate will get asked if you did anything for her. How do you think she'll answer? Will she still have the pleasant adoration for you, or will she be full of bitterness?

Valentine's day is a necessary evil because it ranks high in the mind of a woman. You don't have to buy her chocolates and flowers, but you need to take her somewhere or do something with her. Cook a meal with her, light some candles, then go down on her for an hour. The candles will make it "special" for her.

That's very good advice Desdinova.. Thank you. Me and HER boss have been talking and agree she has the hots for me. We made mutiple eye locking contacts through out this week despite us no communicating. She already broke up with her boyfriend prior to new year. Between you and I. I think 90% of poster here are beta keyboard jockeys. That's why they have no good advice to give. They don't know how to attract or keep women. Let alone the really hot ones...I've seen guy who regularly give out advice then post dumb thread who should have known better

 

[Tictac]

That's very good advice Desdinova.. Thank you. Me and HER boss have been talking and agree she has the hots for me. We made mutiple eye contacts through out this week. She already broke ul with her boyfriend prior to new year. Between you and I. I think 90% of poster here are beta keyboard jockeys. That's why they have no good advice to give. They don't know how to attract or keep women. Let alone the really hot ones...

Hilarious! You can't even get a date with this chick that 'has the hots for you'.

Multiple eye contacts! Holy sh*t! It's a wonder she hasn't fu*cked you on your desk already.

What a loser.

 

[Speculator E]

Hilarious! You can't even get a date with this chick that 'has the hots for you'.

Multiple eye contacts! Holy sh*t! It's a wonder she hasn't fu*cked you on your desk already.

What a loser.

Lol. Really? You're 55 and trying to act like a gamer.