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It is good to see that your tone has changed since you first wrote your post. Your thinking has matured as has your manner of communication. It is also good that you are finding/expecting/manifesting success. Many do not understand that success begins within. If you understand that now as a young man you are well ahead of the curve although many will still misunderstand you. So what. Being supremely confident is a great place to be. It gives one the freedom to speak directly without concern over the consequences. It also can cause a blindness to some things in life. Some gain wisdom faster than others - gaining wisdom is important. I agree that being person of charm and strategy is advantageous in life. Seek quality always in all things and concern yourself with quality pursuits and quality people. I am well versed in both 'The Prince' and 'The Art of War'. Strategy fascinates me. Ever the lawyer's daughter. As a beautiful woman I am often underestimated in business and occasionally in life which typically works to my great advantage - and frankly it is great fun.

There is an old maxim that surely you know. Cliché but true: To whom much is given, much is expected.

Continue to grow as a man and develop. Over time you may find a few souls who are loyal to you for the long term. Value these people for they are treasure. Time is far more precious than money for one can always create more money but one can never create more time once it is gone. Financial wealth is obtainable to be sure. Power is obtainable to be sure. You already understand that the more money and power one has the more careful one must be about people close in your inner circle. It has been that way throughout history. So seek wisdom, choose people close to you wisely and may your life have happiness and abundance. Cheers!
 

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From what I've read on this thread for a couple pages; based on your responses, (from 2013) it seems like you had NPD.

Now, it's 2016. Nearly 3 years later. I don't know if you still have this narcissictic attitude still (for your own good, I hope you don't), but judging from your recent responses it seems you've made progress.

Nobody on this planet is inferior or superior. The TRUTH is that we are all humans and definitely not perfect. We all come out are momma's pvssy/stomach. We all return to bones, dusts and ash after we die. What makes anyone on this Earth so special? In the beginning through out the end, we're all coming in the same and we all end the same. All these feelings of "superiority" or whatever really means nothing when you've come to die. Because the same people that you deem inferior to you, you are going to end up in the same position as them in the end. Dead and reduced to bones and ashes. You can feel that you are superior in your mind... but EVERYONE on this planet has a different PERCEPTION. Perspective is everything. So, you cannot try to force your perspective on someone else and convince them that you are superior. That is just impossible because everyone else has their own perspective. You can think you're a god, and someone can think you are the lowliest of scum. The power that you think you have has no relevance to someone who has a completely different perspective of you, regardless of whether or not their viewpoint of you is of importance or not. Perspective is everything.

You may not care about the perspective of others, but nobody is (whether they feel you are superior or not) going to honestly LIKE or want to be around a person that is always trying to define them as inferior and that the other is superior. There's nothing wrong with being confident in one's self. Arrogance is the problem when you think you are above other people and you are really not. I don't think that people are intimidated by you or feel inferior. They are probably just disgusted in your attitude. Nobody wants to hang around somebody who only thinks highly of themself, and has no regard for the next person; and on top of that someone who verbalizes such behavior. It wouldn't be a problem if you thought highly of yourself, BUT accepted the differences of another person and still showed regard for other people instead of constantly having an aura everywhere you go that is trying to prove you are superior (when not everyone will share the same mindset that they wanna be you.. or that you are superior. again, that is just YOUR reality. everyone has a different perspective. perspective is everything).

One thing I will not deny is that we are all different people. Everyone is unique and different; everyone has their own value because they are their own person. We all have are different experiences and journeys in life. I don't know how you live your life as of this moment, but I don't think as people on this planet going through everyday struggles, we should judge people on whether they are inferior/superior or whatever just to feel secure about ourselves. I think we should all realize (not the inferiority or superiority) but the DIFFERENCE in one another, and we should accept those differences and UPLIFT one another instead of fvcking judging, because that gets nobody nowhere. Uplift instead of putting down. But this is just MY perspective.


I don't come to this thread with words of hate or negativity upon you my friend; I wish no malice upon anyone on this Earth. I come with advice upon this NPD behavior that you had shown. I wish nothing but peace upon your life and that you are not blinded by your ego, but that you continue to seek wisdom and the truth and peace for your soul.

Peace be upon you, sir.
 
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It is good to see that your tone has changed since you first wrote your post. Your thinking has matured as has your manner of communication. It is also good that you are finding/expecting/manifesting success. Many do not understand that success begins within. If you understand that now as a young man you are well ahead of the curve although many will still misunderstand you. So what. Being supremely confident is a great place to be. It gives one the freedom to speak directly without concern over the consequences. It also can cause a blindness to some things in life. Some gain wisdom faster than others - gaining wisdom is important. I agree that being person of charm and strategy is advantageous in life. Seek quality always in all things and concern yourself with quality pursuits and quality people. I am well versed in both 'The Prince' and 'The Art of War'. Strategy fascinates me. Ever the lawyer's daughter. As a beautiful woman I am often underestimated in business and occasionally in life which typically works to my great advantage - and frankly it is great fun.

I've never felt understood by anyone. My mother is the closest thing to the one entity i could point to, who valiantly tries to understand some aspects of my structure.

However, i have never let this become a hindrance. On the contrary, i think of myself as a higher individual. I do think i have a purpose to fulfill with the world, where not everyone is as well enlightened as i am. I do not reject altruism, but i only help in my way. I think the world is full of ordinance, full of trivialities and submerged under a pile of detritus.

Think of it this way. I feel i have too much advantage and the game becomes too easy and boring for me. The challenge is gone, at least for now. Once i climb into the higher spheres of the society of knowledge, perhaps, i may become enthused with playing again. I only have one vice in this world. Reading has become my hypnotizing drug. I feel like i am in my own version of Inception, while slowly watching how i foreshadow everything to come.

The Prince & The Art of War are enthralling concepts which conform to my train of thought. I hope my recent immersion in Russian literature might provide me with a different scope to understand the world. How could Tolstoy come from the highest spheres of Russian nobility and want to live like a peasant? Gogol's perspective of the reality and the world around it?

Perhaps my nihilistic view of the world stems from everything i was given. Sometimes i wish women would reject me so i could have a reason to ground myself, to question myself and to rethink. Even when it happens, it's a lot like throwing rocks to the sky. They never reach it and ultimately fall back down. Sometimes i wish i wasn't so smart, but can't back away from the temptation of absorbing more knowledge.


There is an old maxim that surely you know. Cliché but true: To whom much is given, much is expected.

My existential delirium. Even when i give my best, i still think it wasn't enough. My own expectations are only surmounted by my god-given talents.

Continue to grow as a man and develop. Over time you may find a few souls who are loyal to you for the long term. Value these people for they are treasure. Time is far more precious than money for one can always create more money but one can never create more time once it is gone. Financial wealth is obtainable to be sure. Power is obtainable to be sure. You already understand that the more money and power one has the more careful one must be about people close in your inner circle. It has been that way throughout history. So seek wisdom, choose people close to you wisely and may your life have happiness and abundance. Cheers!
In today's world, loyalty is as rare as painite. Trust only yourself.
 
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