40 years old Virgin & Bald. Is it over for me?

[ImprovingJuan]

Women treat me like **** all the time, even in professional terms, i have been wondering why, and i think i now know. They hate me and they objectively and consciously see me as unnatractive and treat me like that, and believe me they do.

Its almost as if a large portion of men are nowadays completely disposable to society and the rest of society would prefer if we all just disappeared leaving just women and the men they actually want.

On reddit i see women telling me this:

from Fey_fox via /r/dating sent 6 hours ago

Just go do stuff and work on self growth and see what happens. You aren't TOO old and you aren't TOO ugly.

from marzipandancer via /r/dating sent 8 hours ago

It's not over! I You are ugly but Its whats inside that counts really.

from Emeraldiamonds via /r/amiugly sent 2 hours ago

Sorry for this but some women don't like guys who are bald/balding, it's kind of how they view how good your genes are, if you are to have kids, we can't really do anything about that.

Also they see me as creepy looking (i dont know how i give that image)

No offense but I can easily see why chicks can get put off by like a creepy vibe from you. I think the best part is that you can improve a lot and you're not ****ed.Imo your worst feature is the baldness but if you pull everything else off right you have a good chance just try to stray away from any pedophile looks.

What pedophile looks? i dont understand

My T-levels were low, i've been depressed and still am a lot, but iam taking some suplements (Tribulus and Aspartic Acid) to see if they increase.

Im prepared to move on from the dating scene and find other stuff to do. Sucks to be called creepy and pedophile just by the way you look.

Having confidence isnt helping me here.

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[marmel75]

You could be a dead ringer for Joe Pesci's sidekick in Home Alone.

Uhhh, I think it's in your head. You look fine with a shaved head, lots of women like that look.

You have a horrible self image and mental state. I would work on that but likely it is tied into low T levels.

Those supplements aren't going to do crap for your T levels. Look into TRT...

 

[ImprovingJuan]

what about the creepy / pedophile look?

 

[CuddleJunkie]

You look normal mate, for real. So I agree with the other posters, it-s probably all in your head. Also, stop being a robot wtf, thats the worst board on existence, its depressing as **** and it will only make your mental state worse. Seriously, **** eggman and all those losers, stop visiting that board and spend more time in positive ones that will give you energy instead of draining you of it.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

eggman got laid and has a gf so that only means i'm even worse than the guy.

yeah i'll be sticking around.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

We were talking about /r9k/ a 4chan subboard that is literally the inversion of SS. They spend their lives b¡tching about b¡tches being b¡tches, and how unfair the world is because they only want a cute traditional gf. It's the home of guys like Eliott Rodger and another guy who shoot and school 2 months ago or so.

 

[dustmuffin]

eggman got laid and has a gf so that only means i'm even worse than the guy.

yeah i'll be sticking around.

You can get a girl. Lose the loser mindset. You look normal. If my crazy ass depressed/manic can get women so can you. We all have our battles mostly in our minds. You can conquore it. I'm still working on mine.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

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thats eggman he used to post on reddit and sluthate

 

[ImprovingJuan]

By the way I'm 44 and have very little hair left on top. I shave my head 1-2x's a week. Works well for me.

women see bald guys as not having good genes, i've been told that online and face to face. its like they see it as a disease or something

 

[ImprovingJuan]

In my opinion the most non-attractive trait is a bad attitude.

Obsessive need for approval is a close 2nd.

You don't need anyone's approval. Everyone has opinions but it's up to you to decide if they matter or not.

What you don't have...get.

What you won't/can't get...accept.

What you do have...make the most of.

i dont need validation, i just want to know if/what i can change about the way i look, because that is holding me back. look at the op and check where a guy
says i look creepy.

 

[christoff522]

Women treat me like **** all the time, even in professional terms, i have been wondering why, and i think i now know. They hate me and they objectively and consciously see me as unnatractive and treat me like that, and believe me they do.

Its almost as if a large portion of men are nowadays completely disposable to society and the rest of society would prefer if we all just disappeared leaving just women and the men they actually want.

All men are disposable, the whole point of attractiveness is to get you women. When you lose attractiveness women don't want you - hence disposability.

On reddit i see women telling me this:

from Fey_fox via /r/dating sent 6 hours ago

Just go do stuff and work on self growth and see what happens. You aren't TOO old and you aren't TOO ugly.

from marzipandancer via /r/dating sent 8 hours ago

It's not over! I You are ugly but Its whats inside that counts really.

from Emeraldiamonds via /r/amiugly sent 2 hours ago

Sorry for this but some women don't like guys who are bald/balding, it's kind of how they view how good your genes are, if you are to have kids, we can't really do anything about that.

Nonsense, lots of bald men are married with kids, film stars, businessmen - and they all get laid. It's like saying "women don't like men with birth marks" everyone goes bald, even women get bald as they age. Don't worry about stuff like this - delete your reddit account if this is what you are getting. You don't need negativity.

Also they see me as creepy looking (i dont know how i give that image)

No offense but I can easily see why chicks can get put off by like a creepy vibe from you. I think the best part is that you can improve a lot and you're not ****ed.Imo your worst feature is the baldness but if you pull everything else off right you have a good chance just try to stray away from any pedophile looks.

What pedophile looks? i dont understand

Unless you have put up photographs of yourself, then forget this. Neediness can lead to creepiness, but the issue is that because you are 40 you see yourself as desperately in need of a woman. You are not, men can breed at 80. Spend your time in a positive atmosphere, get some audio books, lie down, put on your headphones and listen. Focus yourself on something other than needing a mate. I recommend some Joel Osteen, and Jon Kabat-Zinn

My T-levels were low, i've been depressed and still am a lot, but iam taking some suplements (Tribulus and Aspartic Acid) to see if they increase.

This is due to depression, meditation, and dealing with your anxieties will raise this. I also recommend Choline as it will increase neurotransmitters.

Im prepared to move on from the dating scene and find other stuff to do. Sucks to be called creepy and pedophile just by the way you look.

So they have seen your appearance. Funnily enough appearance is the easiest thing to change, new outfit, asking the barber to give you an appropriate hairstyle. If you wear glasses going to specsavers and getting a decent pair of glasses.

Having confidence isnt helping me here.

Seems to me like you have none sir.

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You are not even ugly. Its confidence that you need. Work on getting a business going or something. Something to call yours. Go on holiday, theres so much you can do bro. I haven't had a gf in years, I'm just working on myself. Avoid negativity like the plague.

You can also try subliminals - which do work. look for a guy named shannon online, I won't post links. But theres subs like absolute self confidence, and positive thinking. You just play them as you sleep. Good luck man, don't take stupid idiotic feminists saying sh*t like that to you. Who gives a f*** what they think?

 

[ImprovingJuan]

true example of how women treat guys they dont find attractive. the guy only told her she was beautiful

 

[FCB]

Honestly man stop looking for pity that **** isn't going to help you. You look fine, if you believe you are unattractive and creepy you will come off as such and that will kill any chance you have with women. Stop focusing on **** you can't change and focus on what you can, lots of bald guys get girls, but not bald guys who are super insecure about it. Focus on what you can control, so that means work out, find ways to improve your self confidence and detach from the need for validation. If its such a massive issue you can't get over then go get a hair transplant, but if you can't improve your internal image and get over the issues you are creating in your head no amount of hair on top of your head will change your self defeating attitude. I have lots of flaws, stop focusing on the physical issues you can't control and focus on what you can (attitude, physique, goals, hobbies, conversation skills)

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Lots of women like bald guys and if you give off a good vibe and confidence and not some creepy loser mindset you can even turn some women out who supposedly don't like bald men. I know this chick from my social circle. Always looking for a man, and she always stated no bald guys. Guess what? I am bald and she starting taking a liking to me? What did I do? Act and really didn't care. She wasn't my type

Just because you have hair doesn't mean you are attractive. A few of my boys are bald and they are bagging women left and right and they are not well off either

 

[NSX-R]

As you think you shall become.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

Espi would you mind if i send you a question via pm, about weight lifting? i know you are into it .

 

[marmel75]

true example of how women treat guys they dont find attractive. the guy only told her she was beautiful

What kind of b!tch ass dude allows another person, let alone a woman talk to them like that? The women knew they could do that because they knew he was a b!tch ass beta who would run away with his tail between his legs.

Women only will try what they believe they can get away with.

At least his friend showed some balls

 

[ImprovingJuan]

What kind of b!tch ass dude allows another person, let alone a woman talk to them like that? The women knew they could do that because they knew he was a b!tch ass beta who would run away with his tail between his legs.

Women only will try what they believe they can get away with.

At least his friend showed some balls

how was he a beta? what could he do? hit her? women use the excuse of the fragile / the weaker sex to get away with everything they want.

never heard the saying: Don't hit a woman, not even with a flower? He is considered a beta for not reacting and being ugly, and if he reacted he would be considered a coward for treating bad a woman.

 

[ImprovingJuan]

she even slaps the guy, its ****in disgusting.

 

[thatfeel]

dude op you look totally decent, lol. what does the rest of you look like?