When a girl asks if she can bring her friend to the date

[SgtSplacker]

I'd play along just a bit because she might be testing to see if it's a date or not, I know these things can come up very casually sometimes. I'd just tell her I was kinda interested in getting to know her a bit better didn't really want to spend a night hanging out with the girls. See how she reacts, any complaint at all and drop her permanently she's just not that into you dude.

 

[Julian]

Dude her fkn jap friend wants to tag along...shes proly some horny slutty little schoolgirl..teh fuk are you thinking???


I would JUMP to take both of them out. id have them 69'ing on the bed in 2 hours


Alpha response would have been "International 3some? Im down...pick you up at 7"

 

[YawataNoKami]

Happen to me, sadly not so long time ago , and I am over 35. Women are crazy. She just show up with the friend .......wrong.Friend was hotter and I end up paying her more attention. 3-4 days later original date calls me:
Her:do you want to do something tonight?
Me:can't. have a date tonight with XXXXX.
Her: XXXXX?? my friend?
Me: yep. have to get ready. bye.......

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Happen to me, sadly not so long time ago , and I am over 35. Women are crazy. She just show up with the friend .......wrong.Friend was hotter and I end up paying her more attention. 3-4 days later original date calls me:
Her:do you want to do something tonight?
Me:can't. have a date tonight with XXXXX.
Her: XXXXX?? my friend?
Me: yep. have to get ready. bye.......

She shouldn't have tried to pull that mess in the first place. Good move.

 

[nismo-4]

Either go for the threesome or next her in lieu of low interest.

She can bring a friend along if you and her are already exclusive.

Case closed.

 

[stevo]

She's using you to learn English, which isnt terrible so use her for what you want too, pronto.

I'd really push for the lay quite early instead of trying to "date" her.

Have you included some sexual innuendo in your text messages? She has like 3 days (weeks) in your city, act fast and sexual.

Did you invite her to your house?

 

[SeymourCake]

The female she wants to bring along will not validate you for two reasons

1) Her friend is into you
2) She does not approve of you

Both reasons will the girl you're dating not to be with you due to jealously or disapproval. This is where c0ck blocking happens. A lot of females cannot think for themselves so they need another person's thoughts and opinion to lead them. The third wheel is only there to make the date awkward.

Go on a date with her without anyone else tagging along, or no date at all. Going out on dates should always be under your terms.

However, you can use this to your advantage. Being seen in public with two females will increase your social status to the eyes of other females in the field which makes them more attracted to you.

 

[Faddy]

I feel like a lot of the responses here seem a little bit butt hurt and people are cutting ties/nexting way too quick. They key is to be playful(aka not seem butt hurt) but also returning back the pressure at her.This has happened to me a few times before and personally this works best for me.

Example 1
HBDate: Hey is it ok if I bring along HBFriend tonight?
Me: Only if we're having a threesome

Example 2
HBDate : Hey is it ok if i bring along HBFriend tonight?
Me: Yeh I'm cool with that...
Me: As long as you're comfortable with third wheeling tonight

Example 3 : I've only tried this once but this approach surprisingly works for me
HBDate : Hey is it ok if i bring along HBFriend tonight?
Me: Yeh that sounds like fun, the more the merrier
Me: But I'd still like to see you one on one sometimes.

I know alot of you don't like using emoticons but personally I love using the winky face as it seems to gauge a lot of unexpected reactions.

 

[nismo-4]

I feel like a lot of the responses here seem a little bit butt hurt and people are cutting ties/nexting way too quick. They key is to be playful(aka not seem butt hurt) but also returning back the pressure at her.This has happened to me a few times before and personally this works best for me.

Example 1
HBDate: Hey is it ok if I bring along HBFriend tonight?
Me: Only if we're having a threesome

Example 2
HBDate : Hey is it ok if i bring along HBFriend tonight?
Me: Yeh I'm cool with that...
Me: As long as you're comfortable with third wheeling tonight

I know alot of you don't like using emoticons but personally I love using the winky face as it seems to gauge a lot of unexpected reactions.

Reactions are good, but what about results?

It only matters that you get to bed with her. Guys next quickly because when they see a girl playing games, it's often shown to be disinterest and in most men's experience, a waste of time. They tend to think she's not worth the trouble and move on to someone who is actually interested until proven otherwise.

 

[pyros]

bringing a friend to a date is ok ONLY AND ONLY IF she is under 14 and she barely knows you, OR if you meet late at night and the date includes drinks and clubs. In this case it could end up in a threesome, just in this case.

In any other cas is a clear sign of disinterest in you.

 

[Maximus Rex]

if you meet late at night and the date includes drinks and clubs. In this case it could end up in a threesome, just in this case.

Have you ever met two chicks at the club and parlayed that initial meeting into a menáge a trois?

 

[pyros]

yes, but I had had sex with one of them before.

In another occassion I made out with both, until one of them threw up and everything went to hell.

 

[Maximus Rex]

In another occassion I made out with both, until one of them threw up and everything went to hell.

ménage à trois an arrangement in which three people have sex with each other especially while living together. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ménage à trois.

Even if that sh*t did happen, making out with two chicks isn't quite the same thing as having sex with two women at the same time.

 

[dutchmaster]

And you figured that out how?

looking at the picture he posted

she sends him long messages and emojis and agrees to his frame after her sh1t test fails.. then agrees to bringing the friend another time.

so put one and one together.. she has 3 weeks left on vacation and wants to go out with this guy. Looks like she wants 2 fvck an American before her breaks over, maybe even something crazy like a 3some.. AFTER he already closes her. I'm not saying jump straight to it. That's retarded. But if he fvcks her first then has her bring her friend on a a later date, get these b1tches drunk and start ramping up the sexual tension. Judge the vibe, if they're fun and open minded start hooking up with her in front of her friend and try to get her to join in. Even if she says no you already banged the 1 so... Or suggest it to her before meeting up with the friend. Get her to put in the word. It's wishful thinking but 3somes happen..

or if u don't give a sh1t keep denying her requests to bring her friend and keep banging her.. That's my vote anyway. Maybe hook her friend up with one of your boys so she can go practice english or w.e bs excuse she fed you lol. She'll be happier with you that way.