Asked a girl to become exclusive and she said i will say a yes but right now im confused

[sunnykhatri736]

I have been seeing a girl recently.
Went on date with her . I hugged and kissed her the moment i met her and she was with me for the next 6 hours. She was holding hands while walking and she didnt stopped me whenever i was touching her and she was also touching me. I was with her for the 6 hours and she did whatever i asked her to do . She was really submissive. She was keeping her head on my shoulders and holding my hand while sitting. I went for lip kiss but she gave me her cheek but then i went for the kiss again at the end of the date and she gave me the kiss.
When i was on the date with her she did even gave me her phone and i checked all her phone . There were lot of clingy guys and she hasnt answered a single message or call except me .
Then next day she said that i dont meet guys and i cant beleive that i went out with u . U are the first guy with whom i have went out in the last 6 months and thats because u are so amazing and i couldnt say a no to u and i wanted to meet u in real and get to know your real side and she said i never allow anyone to touch or kiss me but how come i allowed u to do that. When u hugged and kiss me it felt so different. I felt protected and felt someone cares for me. Then she said " sunny i like u but im confused about u that i dont know anything about u , i know stuff about u but not that much . ( when i was talking to her i followed 70-30 ratio of listening and speaking. Then i went on second date with her
She showed me her place and we kissed in the kitchen but she didnt allowed me to have sex with her as she felt that the things are going really fast as it was our 2nd date within just 10 days .
Then after 2nd date i realised that i have started getting feelings and emotions for this girl as she is texting nd calling me whole day and is really submissive. So i asked her to be exclusive and she said im confused about us and i need some.more time to take a decision.

 

[sunnykhatri736]

Then next day she texted me this " sunny U make me smile every morning... And that's the best thing I like in you.. I like to think about u.. And infact I was waiting for ur morning msg since yesterday night..
And I haven't even imagine someone in my life.. Like so different.. So romantic..and so loving...
Haven't even thought of some guy who can be like that.. You are really different from others.. I really found u an amazing person from the core of your heart..
I know I am not giving you any answer to your question.. Whereas i like you and like the way you behave.. But I really don't know..
You can be the perfect loving partner for any girl.. Even girls really dream of someone like you in their life and same is the case with me..
But I don't know when I am gonna answer you for your question...
Really don't know..
Blank
Just tried to follow u on your footsteps..
I hope you like it.. A little mini effort from my side for a cute baby guy "
the thing is i did a mistake and asked a girl to go exclusive with me within 2 weeks of meeting her. But i started getting emotions for her and i proposed her .
I have been going out with other girls as well. I have got 3 dates with other girls this week.out of which 2 girls asked me out for a date without me even asking them.
But the thing is i have got some attachment with this girl and she also kinda likes me but she says i want to spend more time with u and meet u few more time before taking any decision. Idk what to do next. Guys can u tell me what should i do with this girl now ? I mean how should i treat in future and i shouldnt ask her again for being exclusive again in future ?

 

[Tictac]

Stop asking women to 'be exclusive' after two dates.

Any confusion you have right now comes directly from your own thoughts and behavior. Look at your own second post - it's all over the place.

 

[sunnykhatri736]

Yeah i have learnt a lesson from this now. Never ever ask a girl to be exclusive to you. The moment u say "iloveyou" your game is over at that time. Her interest level from 100% falls to 40% and she starts becoming cold at you. And then things become awkward. . . And then she doesnt meets u or talk to because she thinks she has got you.

 

[sunnykhatri736]

Yeah espi ... when i asked her then she said i will decide it after some time and then tell u and then today she said that i want to enjoy my life being alone and i dont want to be in relationship with anyone. She said this thing but still she is behaving the same around me just the way she used to behave before. Im just wondering now if she will allow me to kiss her on next date or not. Because on first two dates she was really submissive and she has agreed to meet me on this friday again. Lets see whether she lets me kiss her or not after whatever happened as i asked her to be exclusive

 

[marmel75]

It's not your role to push for exclusivity. It's HER role. That's part of her having to "chase". If you don't let her chase she thinks you are unworthy of her because no guy is going to willingly stop banging other women in her mind.

To her it shows you have no other options. The one thing a woman NEVER wants is a guy to be with her because he has no other options. She wants a guy to choose her OVER his other options.

In short, when you try to play the woman's role in a relationship you will always lose. Nothing dries up their pvssy quicker than a guy who acts like a woman.

 

[Julian]

I disagree. I have pressured chicks into exclusivity out of my own needs at the time. I say look here, I like you youlike me, drop the BS lets fuk and make this happen we are adults here. If shes not with it I dip on her ass. Oh well. The reason being is it comes from a seduction perspective, I WANT her to be MINE and I WANT HER NOW!!! Is what im screaming to her through my thoughts and actions...however subconsiously she knows I could be this way with any other beautiful female.

When you are a prize and are always ready to walk away for any reason you hold ultimate power.

 

[marmel75]

I disagree. I have pressured chicks into exclusivity out of my own needs at the time. I say look here, I like you youlike me, drop the BS lets fuk and make this happen we are adults here. If shes not with it I dip on her ass. Oh well. The reason being is it comes from a seduction perspective, I WANT her to be MINE and I WANT HER NOW!!! Is what im screaming to her through my thoughts and actions...however subconsiously she knows I could be this way with any other beautiful female.

When you are a prize and are always ready to walk away for any reason you hold ultimate power.

You just said it..."pressured" and "out of my own needs".

Can it work? Yeah it can, but most times it won't. It still looks desperate regardless of how you want to spin it, and you basically admit it by your own words.

 

[marmel75]

Yeah espi ... when i asked her then she said i will decide it after some time and then tell u and then today she said that i want to enjoy my life being alone and i dont want to be in relationship with anyone. She said this thing but still she is behaving the same around me just the way she used to behave before. Im just wondering now if she will allow me to kiss her on next date or not. Because on first two dates she was really submissive and she has agreed to meet me on this friday again. Lets see whether she lets me kiss her or not after whatever happened as i asked her to be exclusive

Why do you continue to act desperate? This is the ultimate turn off for a woman. You pushing for a relationship=you have no options. Friend zone here you come.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

So you just approached 500+ girls and got several numbers and now you want to get in an exclusive relationship. That's bs man. Calm those emotions down. You don't even know this chick. If she is so submissive to you then she will be "exclusive" to you.

 

[Julian]

You just said it..."pressured" and "out of my own needs".

Can it work? Yeah it can, but most times it won't. It still looks desperate regardless of how you want to spin it, and you basically admit it by your own words.

Your not picking up what Im laying down.

I come from the mindset of a genghis khan. women/people need to be told/coerced sometimes on how to proceed and what to do. thats why they want the man to take charge, take the lead and show her what to do and how to be properly.

We all have our own needs boy, the difference is in how yours are fulfilled. I am a take charge attitude kind of guy. So when a girl shows me interest/spends timewith me whatever and if I want more then I will create the situation and dictate the outcome to the best of my ability.

Dont try to sit there and say im spinning ****, the only thing I spin is chicks on my d1ck. There's nothing wrong with pressuring a female or anyone. Its not like your threatening them, its more along the lines of get on board my ship or take a dive IDGAF but dont waste our time.

 

[Yewki]

Went on date with her... and she was with me for the next 6 hours.

Don't do that

When i was on the date with her she did even gave me her phone and i checked all her phone .

Don't do that

Then after 2nd date... i asked her to be exclusive and she said im confused about us and i need some.more time to take a decision.

Definitely don't do that