Tips to get laid fast: I Do this everyweek...

[aforabi]

I think in order to get really good at something, you need to do it over and over again ... and dating/ pick up is no different than anything else in the world ... you have to go out there and spend at least certain amount of time to see the kind of results you want in few months of time ...

Here's what i do ...

a) Set aside 2 hours a day (I use a timer) for pickup ...
b) I try to just enjoy the process and not give a damn if i get rejected...
c) Approach as many chicks i want during this time...
d) I do not go and use computer or spend this time eating. I just make sure i keep on approaching (Yes, i drink water/coke from my bag)!
e) Get their numbers and approach even more until the 2 hour time runs out...

Then, i do whatever else i wanted to do ... computer, youtube, go and buy something, etc ...

I have been doing this for the past 1 year and getting a lot of success with women - many one night stands, instant dates, and a LTR as well!

I think when it comes to dating, "habit" is all... you need to take an appointment with your love life if you're really serious about getting natural with women...

Tell me what you guys think about my strategy?

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[ubercat]

Cohones of steel - respect.

 

[aforabi]

Hi thanks "ubercat" for your support... much appreciated

 

[Dillsion1]

That's a fair way of looking at it.

Honestly, I approach, question, challenge, qualify, then split her off from her group. Get personal, then flirt until she gets dtf, then move it to my car for a good 2 hours..

Really; picking up women isn't hard if you're able to get them alone.

 

[aforabi]

I often approach a girl who is walking alone so i won't have to go through separating her out from her group ... i also check out other things - like if she is enjoying her walk (slow relaxed walk vs. fast hurried walk), her hair, her facial expression (does she seem smiley or just frowny) and whether she is with someone else, with a group, with parents, and if she is smoking or not (I do not prefer woman smoking) ....

 

[Groverz]

What do you say to them?

 

[parkthebus]

@aforabi where do you go during the 2 hours?

 

[aforabi]

What do you say to them?

Hi, sorry for late reply man, i was traveling (India) ... it was great!

I use one opener i learned from dating and seduction book - Bang written by Rooshv ... (Google it) - and that is, "Looks like you are enjoying your evening/afternoon walk!" and they usually smile and respond, "Yes, i am!" and then you can continue with getting-to-know questions such as - Where are you from, what you do, what are you up to, how long are you staying here (for foreigners to sort out logistic issues), and end up with, "Hey, i would like to know you more, what's your number?" and then wait for her response. If she is hesitant, I drop her (don't want to build interest using tactics because there are plenty interested just around the corner), and move on to the next!

You can say anything if you are just starting out... but do not expect anything BIG right now ... just enjoy the process of approaching them and be open of any kinds of reaction you might get from them and not take anything personally ... just pat yourself in the back mentally because you just did something a lot of men out there cannot do - approach cute chicks in the streets or any other place, which require 'balls'! ...

Good luck my friend ...

Sometime i experiment with different openers just to see what works and what does not ... Like, i would say, "Hi, i am in a rush right right now but i admire your style and would like to get to know you better, what your number?" ... which works because you immediately told her your intention and also gave her a quick compliment, and women like compliments ... make sure its genuine and relevant ... If not, just say, "Hi, how are you doing? Just wanted to talk to stranger today and looks like its your turn today..." ... something like that ...

 

[aforabi]

@aforabi where do you go during the 2 hours?

Good question

I hang around where there are tons of foreigners, in touristic spots, where they often come to discovery the city, and i get to show them around a little bit as well, and talk about places that are my favorites ...

other times, i hit them outside the streets, near bar, where they seem to be going ...

what about you? where do you approach them?

 

[parkthebus]

Good question

I hang around where there are tons of foreigners, in touristic spots, where they often come to discovery the city, and i get to show them around a little bit as well, and talk about places that are my favorites ...

other times, i hit them outside the streets, near bar, where they seem to be going ...

what about you? where do you approach them?

Well I've only learnt about game since being in a relationship which I recently got out of, but was still ****ing the bird so not desperate for sex. I haven't approached yet, reason being that I'm nervous to approach in public and whenever I've been in a confident frame of mind I haven't seen any women on there own. I know its not logical but its nerves. I did yesterday get into a conversation with a woman serving me and I proceeded to ask for her number which is a first for me. It was fake but still a win for my circumstances.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

So do you set up 2 hours everyday?

Also, is this day and night game or just day game?

I think this is a real great idea, I think I want to implement something like this as well. Spending 2 hours finding chicks to talk to is better then watching TV in my opinion.

 

[aforabi]

I haven't approached yet, reason being that I'm nervous to approach in public and whenever I've been in a confident frame of mind I haven't seen any women on there own.

You know that i was scared and nervous just like you are now? Yes, i was the most retarded person alive, i think (in my own mind) but i wanted to do something about it because it was not serving my purpose: to be a natural. So, what i did? I went outside the streets and started approaching whenever i saw a chance. Yes, i was scared, nervous, awkward, because it was something new i was doing. I though people would laugh at my efforts, but you know what? Nobody really cared ... Over just 1 year, i have approached like over 2,000 girls, and in that period, NO ONE has ever come and asked, "Bro, you should not approach chicks, man! Stop doing it.." or something like that, never!

Yes, you might be nervous at first, (i still do get if i have to approach chicks in a "new" place), but do it at places where you feel comfortable - inside the bars, etc...

2) Approach 1 girl everyday: Just say "Hi" and then make small talks if you can, ask numbers if you are comfortable. That's it. Do not care about the outcome now, and focus on improving your GAME. Remember, you are going to get all kinds of reactions, so be open about it. But they are not going to embarrass you in front of others. I never had that with someone. Once you get past "100 approaches" mark, you will become UNSTOPPABLE.

After a year, i still manage to approach at least 5 girls a day (only foreigners, not locals)? It's just happens simply i have that, "I want to approach 1 new girl today" mindset, and then i screw up with the first, then, feel good with the second approach, and then, perform really well with the 3rd, 4th, and the 5th. Sometimes, i end up approaching 10 girls a day within 2 hours and i cannot even remember!

3) Read books to help you: Read the "DJ Bible" that is available for FREE (or buy one if you can afford), and go and apply what you learn. You will speed up your learning curves as i did. Also, allow yourself to fail, make mistakes, experiment, do ****ty things to them just to see what happens. If this girl blows you off, you have options. Follow "Paul Janka", "Street Attraction", "Simple Pickup", "Johnny Berba" on YouTube to learn how they pickup chicks during the day. They call it "Day Game", where you hit girls during the day and meet them later in the eve for drinks and other stuffs.

That's how i learned man, and i am not even from a English speaking country, and i managed to pull hot and young foreigners within few hours, just because i learned some methods, tactics, and fun and confident mindset that these BIBLE tends to teach us.

I also want to tell you that, you must commit at least 1 hour socializing - going out in the bars and ... of course, approach 1 girl a day ... !

 

[aforabi]

So do you set up 2 hours everyday?

Also, is this day and night game or just day game?

I think this is a real great idea, I think I want to implement something like this as well. Spending 2 hours finding chicks to talk to is better then watching TV in my opinion.

Thanks for your response man.

Yes, at least 2 hours!

Timing does not matter!

Just ensure you put in 2 hours a day, at least 3 days a week, just like you set a routine for workouts. If you want to improve muscle, you set aside certain time and do it, every week, and overtime, lets say 6 months, you will start to see results!

I used to go out late night, but now, i pick up during the day, or in the evening (5-8pm). Why? Because i tend to find quality girls at these times. After 9pm, i found the quality goes down.

If you need help, search for Johnny Berba, Street Attraction, Paul Janka, Justin Wayne Dating on YouTube, etc to learn how the pros do it and keep things interesting.

I quit watching TV and soap-operas. I leave that for women.

Also, you must stop ejaculating ... watching PORN because it simply inhibits you from going out there and getting laid...

 

[parkthebus]

Thanks for the advice bud.

 

[aforabi]

Thanks for the advice bud.

You are welcome. I think, picking up women is the most FUN thing to do after going to the gym and reading good books. I think these 3 things work together to make you really laid-back, fun, and social person around chicks and they cannot help but notice you and stick around with you for longer

What about you? What do you say?

 

[Fatal Jay]

You said something, in letter b that stood out. The man with the most women is the man that has been rejected the most.