Started from the bottom now we’re here!
The night that started it all.... This was two months ago on a work trip.
I have two online dating profiles and tinder. This was before I was hip to tinder. Anyway this chick, aged 27 sends me a flirt, so I gave her my typical response:
“Hey, thanks for the flirt. If you are interested in chatting, shoot me a text <number>”.
She coincidentally lived in the city I was visiting in the Midwest, so we exchanged a few messages and I told her I would actually be out her way in two weeks but we should meet for drinks. She agreed and we went no contact for about a week. About 5 days before my trip she texts me to see if I still planned on seeing her. I didn’t respond, but I called her a few hours later to confirm a time and place to meet when I’m there. We talked for about 8 minutes. She mentioned that it was her first online dating experience, so we exchanged pics that weren’t on the profile for “verification.”
We met at a bar / pub place at 8 pm. I ate dinner beforehand, so that we would only have drinks. She actually preferred that time, as she said she had something to take care of right after work. As expected with an online chick, she was a little chunkier than I expected… about 15-20 lbs, but she was 5’10 like her profile said. She also was wearing 3” wedges. I would have rated her a 7.5 online, turned out to be a 6. The height thing was kind of funny, but I have no shame when it comes to tall women.
We sat down at a booth across from each other and each had two drinks. She was showing high levels of interest the whole time. Looking back I know now there is no room for Kino in a booth. Luckily the alcohol was working quite well so she kept qualifying herself throughout the date. Somehow we got on the topic of Casinoes….
My hotel was located right next to a large Casino, about 8 minutes away from the bar I picked. I’ve never been to a casino, so I basically told her we should go. She made a comment about me getting my rest so I can be fresh for work, but it was only 9:30 at the time. I told her to follow my car and she did just that. While driving to the casino, I deliberately went to park into my parking lot and she followed and parked next to me. She gets out the car and makes the comment “oh, you stay here? Smooth, huh? You know I’m not coming up to your room right?” I gave her a smirk and said, “We’re going to the casino. I just parked here so I can drink more and just walk home.” I moved in closer as I said that, put my arms around her waist and kissed her. She made an “mmm” comment and I kissed her again, this time a little tongue while clenching her tighter. She took a deep breath and I could tell she was getting hot so I said “come, let’s go to the casino.”
We bantered on the walk over there. We went to the bar immediately and she bought me two rounds and only had one herself. The next 45 minutes or so where filled with her teaching me slot machines, bantering, me feeling on her leg, me kissing her on the neck randomly. By now it was about 10:30-10:45ish and I yawned, so I direct her that we are leaving.
While walking back she starts saying how she had a great time with me and that I should visit her again next time I’m in the city. I agree and as we get back to the hotel parking lot I tell her it’s time for me to go to bed. She kept hinting that she didn’t want to leave just yet so I invite her to come to the room. She responds “If I come we can’t have sex. I don’t know you that well and I might never see you again.” I said okay.. and motion for her to come. She complies.
We get to my room and I take off my shirt and she sits in the arm chair in the corner on the other side of the room. I go sit at the foot of the bed. She again tells me that she can’t have sex with me because she might never see me again. I start kissing on her and escalating. After about 5-10 minutes of her getting hot, her acting like she is trying to stop and failing miserable, saying she shouldn’t do it, she lays back and lets me go through with slowly taking off her clothes. Really not much else to say from there, as we ended up with me inside of her, then her turning a little crazy after the first round. She basically said she expects to be ****ed until the morning and that I better call her next time I’m there to finish ****ing her all morning. (Weird?)
She was my first out of town one night lay. I haven’t spoken to her since. After the conclusion, I don’t think I want to bother with her again. She did spend the following 3-4 days trying to keep a conversation going, knowing that I wasn’t there any more. That comes with the territory I guess.. lol.
