Reverse Stalker situation as of today...

[Poonani Maker]

Fat Chick (big and tall), about my age, with pen and paper, corners me today in front of her co-workers, and asks me to write down my phone number. She asks me to come over tonight and watch a movie (scary). I say that I don't like being scared. She says, "I'll hold your hand..." I give in and write down my phone number because her co-workers are a mere 10 feet away and can/are probably listening to us. I did not want to reject her in front of her co-workers. I've rejected girls in the past in front of their co-workers and it just Devastates them and they end up not lasting in the job more than 3 months later.

I'm just not interested in fat girls, especially Fat girls MY AGE, but this one is/has been soooo desperate for me over the past 4-5 months, always making sexual allusions in our convos. She's kinda into Wicca I think, Satanic I think. She has nice eyes and decent face, but her body is just plain Unacceptable to me no matter how much I like large breasts.

She still hasn't called me tonight, thank god, and I'm not gonna answer if she does. I tried to give her hints that I am Not coming over tonight. She has absolutely NO SHAME. Her co-workers (ALL women) could hear everything I'd imagine. Could you imagine if the shoe was on the other foot?? and I was cold-asking out a customer/client business liason ON THE JOB? What would happen to ME? a dude?? Nothing will happen to her for this unprofessional behavior from her, because she is a her. That's a fact. It put me in a Very awkward position, trying to make me Validate her in front of her employees.

Why can't I be outright hit up by an early 20s Thin hot chick??? at work? I mean I Did have this happen by a young hottie 5 years ago, but it never happens anymore, except by fat old chicks who are clearly mismatched with ME, a successful FIT as fvck good-looking male.

 

[Poonani Maker]

ok she just called, I didn't answer because, I don't know that number lol

 

[El Payaso]

Just tell her "I don't like fat girls".

 

[Bible_Belt]

You just described my Plenty of Fish experience.

 

[Desdinova]

I hear ya. It's just tough to let some chicks down especially if they're really persistent and aggressive with their intentions.

Tell her you have a jealous gf who's enjoying her taekwondo lessons.

 

[RangerMIke]

Just tell her you are not interested. Why are you doing this to yourself? I'll tell you why you care about her feelings. That's nice.... but remember this women can always read you... Trust me she knows that you are not into her but she chases you anyway... she obviously doesn't care how you feel... so return the favor.

 

[Groverz]

She good with her mouth?

 

[Bible_Belt]

She good with her mouth?

Is there such a thing as a fat chick who isn't?

 

[Poonani Maker]

The problem is that I see her 4 outta the 5 days a week at work. Like within the first few weeks since I met her, she pulled me aside outta earshot of her co-workers and proceeds to tell me that "I'm not like most other girls...I may seem 'nice' and good and professional, but I am really can be BAD.." Then she tells me her favorite bands, specifically 80s hard rock stuff and I think that she associates the singer Glen Danzig (who she's always had a major crush on) to me for some reason (I don't have black hair or a pale face, but I'm big, but not THAT big). But she sees me as some kinna Rocker or something, and I am to an extent and would to have loved to have been a lead guitarist for Iron Maiden or something back then and know almost all their songs, as well as Megadeth etc., but I haven't picked up a guitar in over a decade. I've replaced my guitars (which were actually stolen) with guns nowadays.

But these chicks who jump to conclusions (that I'm all that) and start Running with their ideas that I'm something I'm not and just won't STOP unless I guess I call the cops. But more and more today that I've experienced being stalked...it makes me want to go back in time to the girl(s) I used to 'stalk,' but at the time didn't think I was stalking until she told me (or others) that I was stalking her. Now I know how past oneitis' felt where you get called and texted after you've Cancelled a date or confronted them saying "I'm sorry, but...I can't go out with you.." I realize now how I would NEVER turn a former object of my obsession back to me, because of my now being obsessed over and the feeling it creates in me that I'd NEVER turn/change towards one that is desperately chasing me so.

I don't want to Feel like a woman in order to understand a woman's 'feelings' because that's kinda Gay, but I have experienced such feelings nonetheless, because I have acted like previous oneitises (or taken on their traits of attraction or BECOME them so-to-speak...what makes them so desirable (even though they're women) which is their unicorn-like, jewel-in-the-ruff-like radiance which puts a spell on, not just me, but every other guy she comes into contact with...when she has NO t!ts and not much of an as5, but makes the most of her Eyes and face, skin, hair, smooth arms/legs, tone of voice (chirpy and spontaneous), to reel in almost EVERY guy.

One particular oneitis from 2005 who wrecked my emotions and Brain totally changed me into her or rose me from the dead which made me Uniquely attractive to not just girls in the future, but all people in general when I am in their presence. It's a strength, and a youthfulness that attracts these moths to the flames. People wanta TOUCH me it seems quite a lot, old or young, but many still are blind and going about their daily lives not noticing too much wrapped up in their own heads, twisted and tied in their own thoughts as they are walking out and about. I'm dumber than I've ever been though (because I am very physical and not white collar and it takes its toll mentally). Physical fitness does not correlate to intelligence (they used to think that before the 60s). But the women do not care, nor notice, how dumb you are for as long as you are FREE and not caring what anyone thinks. In fact, I think that they, for the most part, prefer Dumb fvcks like me, I mean, they laugh at my just being a guy. They want to laugh either at you or with you doesn't matter, they just wanna laugh. Then they fvck, because they are comfortable, no matter how stupid you really are, they are blinded by laughter, not all of em but most. They think "Oh, I can have him..." and when they don't or can't, something that is perceived to be 'easy' then it frustrates them further, and then the chase becomes stronger for you, something they can't have (but appears so Easy because you are so dumb).

 

[IASGame]

It seems like you can easily turn her down by saying you don't want to get involved with someone from work. Also, in case there is an HR dept. you may want to talk to them prior to this (and mention the "witnesses" that saw her get your number). Just in case she decides later on to file false claims on you.

 

[Poonani Maker]

ok, we are alone today, and she goes, "did you get my text?" (from last week). I said no, and that I get a lot of texts, one from my bank a few moments ago on fraud (on a purchased I'd made) but that it was 'ok' and I ok'd the purchase via text. I told her that I don't even answer my mom calling. Her text got lost in the mix. She goes, "I'll send it again" (right after I leave), I said that there's no need to do that or I'll look for it (I really can't remember what I said today to her cause I'm just not interested). Anyway she sent it, about 7 hours later, I let someone I know read it to me (I tell him I'm being stalked...just like women have in the past painted it as if I was stalking THEM, now that I'm older and more attractive with resources and they are losing their main resource, their looks, the tables have turned). Anyway, I text back in about 20 minutes later, with that Now I see the old text from last week. She "lol" then I text nothing, then about an hour or so later she texts (I really forget the wording) "I glad that you found it" or something as if she really doesn't want to say the wrong thing. I can TELL that she is now like walking on eggshells trying to make sure she doesn't say something stupid that would turn me off (she doesn't realize, or doesn't want to see/believe, that I am already turned off). She's kinda Mopey atm, and just timid, and it makes me feel sorry for her, but fvck I'm strictly a how-does-your-as5-t!ts-etc-etc-look? kinda guy, though she has a decent face and nice eyes and personality (professional in a respected career). I just know what I KNOW, and have Known many women intimately and just Know EXACTLY what, Physically, I Want in a woman and she's not it, but I mean I'd fvck her but she's thinking long-term I can tell, she's trying to sink her hooks.

She can't stand that I am soooooo always distancing myself from her. I don't want anyone or woman to Feel like she mustn't slipup whilst in my presence or timid as a mouse, but this woman, I mean, she is soooooo desperate, and she's right around MY age. You'd think she would have learned by now, or have been around the block by now. I have a friend who knew her before me over a decade ago, and he doesn't want to tell me anything about her, like what's up with this girl? Did you and her, you know, 'in and out' way back then? Am I just, I forget the term (from Terrence Popp's vids) about banging a girl who's already banged your friend. I can't remember the term.

This one is really obsessing. I recognize in her how I was about a oneitis back in 2005, I mean, Serious, like, breaking a table in 2 with my hand kinda obsessive/possessive intensity. I see Why she wants me so bad, but I'm just being Me and I'd have to go FULL AFC to get her off of me I guess, but I don't wanna start obsessing over HER, but I may have to and, you know, worry about if I text the right thing or say the right thing, be timid, just I don't know if I can fake it like it used to become natural to me when I was the one desperate. It must suck being a woman (still single) in her 40s, or mid-to-late 30s.

 

[NSX-R]

ok, we are alone today, and she goes, "did you get my text?" (from last week). I said no, and that I get a lot of texts, one from my bank a few moments ago on fraud (on a purchased I'd made) but that it was 'ok' and I ok'd the purchase via text. I told her that I don't even answer my mom calling. Her text got lost in the mix. She goes, "I'll send it again" (right after I leave), I said that there's no need to do that or I'll look for it (I really can't remember what I said today to her cause I'm just not interested). Anyway she sent it, about 7 hours later, I let someone I know read it to me (I tell him I'm being stalked...just like women have in the past painted it as if I was stalking THEM, now that I'm older and more attractive with resources and they are losing their main resource, their looks, the tables have turned). Anyway, I text back in about 20 minutes later, with that Now I see the old text from last week. She "lol" then I text nothing, then about an hour or so later she texts (I really forget the wording) "I glad that you found it" or something as if she really doesn't want to say the wrong thing. I can TELL that she is now like walking on eggshells trying to make sure she doesn't say something stupid that would turn me off (she doesn't realize, or doesn't want to see/believe, that I am already turned off). She's kinda Mopey atm, and just timid, and it makes me feel sorry for her, but fvck I'm strictly a how-does-your-as5-t!ts-etc-etc-look? kinda guy, though she has a decent face and nice eyes and personality (professional in a respected career). I just know what I KNOW, and have Known many women intimately and just Know EXACTLY what, Physically, I Want in a woman and she's not it, but I mean I'd fvck her but she's thinking long-term I can tell, she's trying to sink her hooks.

She can't stand that I am soooooo always distancing myself from her. I don't want anyone or woman to Feel like she mustn't slipup whilst in my presence or timid as a mouse, but this woman, I mean, she is soooooo desperate, and she's right around MY age. You'd think she would have learned by now, or have been around the block by now. I have a friend who knew her before me over a decade ago, and he doesn't want to tell me anything about her, like what's up with this girl? Did you and her, you know, 'in and out' way back then? Am I just, I forget the term (from Terrence Popp's vids) about banging a girl who's already banged your friend. I can't remember the term.

This one is really obsessing. I recognize in her how I was about a oneitis back in 2005, I mean, Serious, like, breaking a table in 2 with my hand kinda obsessive/possessive intensity. I see Why she wants me so bad, but I'm just being Me and I'd have to go FULL AFC to get her off of me I guess, but I don't wanna start obsessing over HER, but I may have to and, you know, worry about if I text the right thing or say the right thing, be timid, just I don't know if I can fake it like it used to become natural to me when I was the one desperate. It must suck being a woman (still single) in her 40s, or mid-to-late 30s.

Going afc to this kind of women might make them more interested in you because of their desperate nature. In your place I would had cleared things as fast as possible that you are not interested in her . It's for her own good after all to stop this pointless chasing .

 

[Yewki]

This one is really obsessing.

True, but I think you're obsessed with the concept that she is chasing you also. You're writing essays about her here.

You should have immediatley rejected her (in a nice way) when she asked for your number. Next time say this in a friendly manner but with no hesitation, "That's nice of you but I'd rather not". If she pauses, talk past her and change the subject literally as though nothing at all happened. If she tries to ask why say, "You're not really my type". Short, polite, indifferent answers. Done. Move on.

And if she's going to ask you in earshot distance of coworkers, she should be ready for rejection. Stop bending over backwards for other people.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Human Resources... be careful and protect yourself.By rejecting her you are one step away of being accused of something.

 

[Poonani Maker]

^^ Yesterday, I kinda ignored her (didn't even look her way) and her co-worker (friend?) was EXTRA warm and flirty/banter with me like "top of the mornin' to ya" (mate) and I'm like "eeyo" "oyi." Her co-worker tells me a couple of weeks ago while we are alone that she didn't do much Halloween or that she was bored (she has kids, so I can imagine that snatch is all cut up). She has less weight than her fat co-worker who is in the warpath for me, but she is still lumpy and not my type EITHER. I entertain her thoughts of possibly being with me as well, but I would probably Never unless it was a quick fvck or almost if, either one of them PAID me, I would fvck them. This co-worker Also has one of those, you know, D!ck sucker's mouths, you know, her mouth how it just molds to a cone at her front teeth. I'm sure she could suck it well, she's fat. Both of them, and they wear black a lot. I believe both of them may be into that wicca stuff.

They can't really do anything to me in my career. I've seen other guys in my company PURSUE and comment on how hot a client/customer is and they get sat down and asked about the incident and simply get removed from ever seeing that girl (customer) again, and you wouldn't believe (maybe you would), the ridiculous accusations these women out there accuse my co-worker (males) of, and I KNOW these dudes (completely harmless and solid full-of-character dudes many of them married just making flippant innocent comments to them like "do you have big plans for the weekend?" as IF this dude (who's married with children) is asking her out ---- wtf? absolutely not! he's just being social and is EXTREMELY social and well-liked to Everybody and has grown up from grade school until today with many of the people around here and is totally loved, but women, no matter how rich or high class probably more apt if rich or high class, will make a complaint over complete and utter bullsh!t and our management knows that and takes that into consideration how crazy people can be, especially when you've gone years even decades with absolutely no incidents).

 

[Tictac]

You have the easiest 'out' from these chicks there is - "I don't date women where I work".

Done.

 

[Poonani Maker]

You have the easiest 'out' from these chicks there is - "I don't date women where I work".

Done.

Thanks, and I should have used that. My problem is that I always try to leave things "open" with women. I Always leave a door to my d!ck open for almost ALL women, of course, "healthy" as can be women, even if she's Fat, I know. ALL woman are Very comfortable with me as a result of my putting them all at ease. This makes Me "easy." I am an easy "lay." They feel that they can get in my pants, anywhere, anytime. I play the male slvt, and it gets sex, cause women are slvts.

So Yesterday, she corners me again, Goes Way outta her way (walks about 100 meters between buildings) to interrupt me while busy with work to ask me over to her place this Saturday to watch a movie. I tell her that I can't and what I am doing Saturday (not all day, but tomorrow afternoon or around noon, I guess she meant late at her house but she didn't say specifically so I said I's doing this blah blah blah and I AM doing that tomorrow no bullsh!t, I did it last week as well and am not going to change plans to go watch a stupid fvckin movie with a fat older girl (desperate as fvck)).

I told her that Sunday, I am shooting my guns, and she says, "guys always tell me they will take me shooting but they never do..." "I'd love to burn up some money" (or something like that I can't remember exact words, I think she specifically said "Eight guys..."). So I finally said (because her house is On the Way to the range), that I would pick her up one Sunday if she wanted to go, but I am NOT going to text/call her This Sunday to tell her I am going and will swing by and pick her up. If she decides to text Me this Sunday or tomorrow to ask if she can come along, then I WILL. I have no problems being seen with her at the range, because I've seen some very 2s, 3s, 4s, chicks (old too) at the range, just trailor moms (which she is neither, she has "class," but is just Big n' tall). She wants to rape me. I need to sight in some guns and she can help with a couple while I do the others, even though she will not know what the heck she's doing, I'll supervise her.

She works for a doctor, and for some reason girls in her profession have seemed to ALWAYS fall for me, I don't really get it, but over the years, these types of women in this profession Fall for me. Maybe because they Have to be people persons, and are hands-on with their customers, total customer service idk.

 

[JohnChops]

This thread went from you trying to avoid this girl to you going on a pseudo date with her. I'm confused man.

 

[Poonani Maker]

"fat older girl"

Is she a Rosie Odonald or Carnie Phillips size?

Carnie Phillips is about right, except taller

 

[Poonani Maker]

This thread went from you trying to avoid this girl to you going on a pseudo date with her. I'm confused man.

She's Very persistent, man, maybe I can get her to Pay for my ammo, and gas to go shoot. Btw, I'm going out with another thin and younger one late this afternoon after going over to the shop (my gunsmith) to discuss how I want my rifles (I know it's gonna cost me, they gonna bend me over for the work being done, oh well, pay once, cry once).