Ruined me

[xyz44]

Thanks to a combination of sites such as this one and women's sites I'll always be single and never get my first kiss. I'm already 44 and it's too late but I will let out my emotions. How can there be enough women when this site teachings men to spin plates, often 10 at a time? Then women sites repeatedly say to avoid inexperienced men.
Worst of all the few dates I've been on have been disasters. The women take their anger out on me because I'm a man and they are angry about being used by men who spin plates.
I don't even think if I paid an escort a thousand dollars that she'd have sex with me.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Calm down, I have been here for a while and I 've never seen anyone claiming to spin more than 4 plates.

Tell us about how you look, live and spend your time so you can be shown which direction you can find your success.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

So OP. What other sites have you been on. Excuse the suspicion, but you sound like a female who has just joined SS.

 

[parkthebus]

You have a **** attitude. Stop blaming others. I doubt you'll listen to this though. Victim mentality.

 

[Desdinova]

I'm already 44 and it's too late

Creating your own mental roadblocks will only prevent your ability to succeed. There's guys on here who are older than you and have become very good with women.

Do yourself a favour and go read the DJ Bible.

 

[NSX-R]

Read the dj bible and use what you have learned from it.
I lost my virginity soon after I found this place. But this is the only place I visit that has to do with dating and stuff and I think this plays a big role on my improvement. The reason is that each place tries to teach you something specific, here you are taught about how to become a better person . Other sites like the pua ones are teaching you how to pick up girls only. I don't think there is any other site out there with such solid information as ss.

Get rid of your restrictive philosophies and let your nature take control.

 

[Tictac]

I'll always be single and never get my first kiss. I'm already 44 and it's too late but I will let out my emotions. How can there be enough women when this site teachings men to spin plates, often 10 at a time? Then women sites repeatedly say to avoid inexperienced men.
Worst of all the few dates I've been on have been disasters. The women take their anger out on me because I'm a man and they are angry about being used by men who spin plates.
I don't even think if I paid an escort a thousand dollars that she'd have sex with me.

If that's your conclusion, it will be your reality. But that's in your head, not in reality.

 

[logicallefty]

So OP. What other sites have you been on. Excuse the suspicion, but you sound like a female who has just joined SS.

yep... tuna alert...

 

[dustmuffin]

Thanks to a combination of sites such as this one and women's sites I'll always be single and never get my first kiss. I'm already 44 and it's too late but I will let out my emotions. How can there be enough women when this site teachings men to spin plates, often 10 at a time? Then women sites repeatedly say to avoid inexperienced men.
Worst of all the few dates I've been on have been disasters. The women take their anger out on me because I'm a man and they are angry about being used by men who spin plates.
I don't even think if I paid an escort a thousand dollars that she'd have sex with me.

Does sound like a woman. Might be part of the problem. If the poster is a man he might want to try being more masculine. Women take their anger out on your? Two choices get up and leave or tease them. Don't supplicate. Read the Dj Bible. Try to improve. It's never to late. I am the prize....believe and you shall become.....

 

[Reykhel]

Creating your own mental roadblocks will only prevent your ability to succeed. There's guys on here who are older than you and have become very good with women.

Do yourself a favour and go read the DJ Bible.

Creating your own mental roadblocks will only prevent your ability to succeed. There's guys on here who are older than you and have become very good with women.

Do yourself a favour and go read the DJ Bible.

Spot on.

Spend time REFRAMING the fvck out of your negative beliefs until......until it's a habit.

Your thoughts can enhance you or....bring you crashing down...meanwhile....reality doesn't care, it just
continues....

You've got to keep on keeping on brother.

this is a battle, this is a war.....but battles make men. Men are not born, men are made.

You can reframe any situation and the internal energy you will get is hard to describe....embrace

what's ruined? search for the opportunity to galvanise yourself......are you capable?

 

[Tenacity]

Thanks to a combination of sites such as this one and women's sites I'll always be single and never get my first kiss. I'm already 44 and it's too late but I will let out my emotions. How can there be enough women when this site teachings men to spin plates, often 10 at a time? Then women sites repeatedly say to avoid inexperienced men.
Worst of all the few dates I've been on have been disasters. The women take their anger out on me because I'm a man and they are angry about being used by men who spin plates.
I don't even think if I paid an escort a thousand dollars that she'd have sex with me.

Here's a couple of pointers:

- How do you look? Make sure to fix your looks up to where you are at least a 6.5 out of 10

- How is your money situation? You are in your Mid-40's, so you better be solidly in a career and have a 6 figure net worth by this point in time.

- How is your personality? If it's totally screwed up to where you can't go to just a random stranger (dude or woman) and spark up a decent conversation, go read the DJ Bible in relation to conversation skills. Then learn how to just talk to a woman to get her turned out, have an intelligent convo, light convo, the whole nine yards.

- NEVER listen to what a woman says she wants in a guy, that's the first step to total confusion. Always watch her actions, if she's screwing the Player (the guy that spins plates) and the Thugs then what does that tell you?

Players and Thugs get consistent a.ss and the MOST a.ss, but I don't want you to become the Thug. The Thug is the feminist created version of the "new man" because women can control a Thug due to the fact that most of the time she makes more money than he does.

Become the Player, this is the guy that turns women on but is also a guy she can't control. He's also the guy that spins plates a lot, that women will BYTCH about but still FVCK him.

Whatever you do, do not be the Traditional Guy or the Average Joe. The Traditional Guy is the guy that's trying to treat women like we are in the middle of the 1940's and the Average Joe is just the guy lost in all of this and doesn't know wtf is going on, another word for Average Joe is the "Nice Guy" you often hear about.

 

[Reykhel]

Here's a couple of pointers:

- How do you look? Make sure to fix your looks up to where you are at least a 6.5 out of 10

- How is your money situation? You are in your Mid-40's, so you better be solidly in a career and have a 6 figure net worth by this point in time.

- How is your personality? If it's totally screwed up to where you can't go to just a random stranger (dude or woman) and spark up a decent conversation, go read the DJ Bible in relation to conversation skills. Then learn how to just talk to a woman to get her turned out, have an intelligent convo, light convo, the whole nine yards.

- NEVER listen to what a woman says she wants in a guy, that's the first step to total confusion. Always watch her actions, if she's screwing the Player (the guy that spins plates) and the Thugs then what does that tell you?

Players and Thugs get consistent a.ss and the MOST a.ss, but I don't want you to become the Thug. The Thug is the feminist created version of the "new man" because women can control a Thug due to the fact that most of the time she makes more money than he does.

Become the Player, this is the guy that turns women on but is also a guy she can't control. He's also the guy that spins plates a lot, that women will BYTCH about but still FVCK him.

Whatever you do, do not be the Traditional Guy or the Average Joe. The Traditional Guy is the guy that's trying to treat women like we are in the middle of the 1940's and the Average Joe is just the guy lost in all of this and doesn't know wtf is going on, another word for Average Joe is the "Nice Guy" you often hear about.

Tenacity is a fantastic poster and I'm going to take this opportunity to ask him a question:

What about fun brother? What do you do for fun?

You are very goal orientated (which I think is brilliant and I admire your drive)....what about fun? What about enjoying the moment? I mean just in one way forgettin SMV and getting so involved in your life that you become....
so involved in your life/ and super galvanised as a result.

(I'll tell you why I say this: I'm building for" the future". but a part of me is like...what if I have a million euros when I'm 60 but I don't have the physical energy to do what I want to do? should I live now in the present moment and fvck the future (in a way)

 

[Tenacity]

Tenacity is a fantastic poster and I'm going to take this opportunity to ask him a question:

What about fun brother? What do you do for fun?

You are very goal orientated (which I think is brilliant and I admire your drive)....what about fun? What about enjoying the moment? I mean just in one way forgettin SMV and getting so involved in your life that you become....
so involved in your life/ and super galvanised as a result.

(I'll tell you why I say this: I'm building for" the future". but a part of me is like...what if I have a million euros when I'm 60 but I don't have the physical energy to do what I want to do? should I live now in the present moment and fvck the future (in a way)

See here's the thing. Right now my definition of fun honestly, is continuing to work on my body and work on my business/investments lol. I know that seems odd, but it is. Now ten years ago when I was 22, my definition of fun was how drunk I could get, how many clubs I could hit up, how many strippers I could fvck, etc.

Ten years from now when I'm 42, I should be a lot more settled in financially and my definition of fun might be more related to traveling everywhere and making sure I see particular live sporting events. Before I die I do want to go see an NBA Finals Game, some live UFC PPV matches, and a WWE PPV or even a Wrestlemania maybe.

Last time I been to see sporting events live was when I was a kid/teen and my Mother would take us. I could go right now, just haven't gotten around to it.