We all know female behaviors we hate ...

[icantgetlaid]

lies, deception, sh1t tests, shallow as all hell etc...

but what are the behaviors that make it all worth it? (besides the obvious like sex) ..

 

[dustmuffin]

lies, deception, sh1t tests, shallow as all hell etc...

but what are the behaviors that make it all worth it? (besides the obvious like sex) ..

I can't think of any besides sex.

 

[El Payaso]

Nothing is worth being disrespected.

 

[Genos]

I like topics like this. Too often on this forum we highlight the negative aspects of managing and dealing with women, and in the process fail to appreciate some of the things that really make women shine. It's important for men (especially the people on this forum, having taken the red pill) to remember these things so as not to become too jaded. Certainly be mindful of the ways in which women can behave poorly, but also be mindful and appreciative of the positive aspects of their femininity.

The one that most readily comes to my mind is when a woman cooks for you. A girl who would voluntarily cook a meal for you (and you alone) probably truly likes you, if not loves you. Preparing and eating food has been a part of human culture since basically forever, and if you've ever cooked a meal, you know that there's a great deal of satisfaction in sharing it with others - it's very fulfilling. A woman who would, without your request, spend her time preparing a meal for you almost certainly takes a great deal of satisfaction in your enjoyment of it. As a man, it's very validating when this happens as well - it's an indirect way of showing her affection for you.

There are many others behaviors as well. Take some time to sit down and think about what you really admire/respect/appreciate about the women you know and have known, as well as with regards to femininity in general. Just my own theory, but balancing your (certainly justified) skepticism and caution with admiration and care (just a LITTLE bit from your beta days) will help you create fulfilling relationships in the long term.

 

[El Payaso]

I like topics like this. Too often on this forum we highlight the negative aspects of managing and dealing with women, and in the process fail to appreciate some of the things that really make women shine. It's important for men (especially the people on this forum, having taken the red pill) to remember these things so as not to become too jaded. Certainly be mindful of the ways in which women can behave poorly, but also be mindful and appreciative of the positive aspects of their femininity.

The one that most readily comes to my mind is when a woman cooks for you. A girl who would voluntarily cook a meal for you (and you alone) probably truly likes you, if not loves you. Preparing and eating food has been a part of human culture since basically forever, and if you've ever cooked a meal, you know that there's a great deal of satisfaction in sharing it with others - it's very fulfilling. A woman who would, without your request, spend her time preparing a meal for you almost certainly takes a great deal of satisfaction in your enjoyment of it. As a man, it's very validating when this happens as well - it's an indirect way of showing her affection for you.

There are many others behaviors as well. Take some time to sit down and think about what you really admire/respect/appreciate about the women you know and have known, as well as with regards to femininity in general. Just my own theory, but balancing your (certainly justified) skepticism and caution with admiration and care (just a LITTLE bit from your beta days) will help you create fulfilling relationships in the long term.

I agree about the cooking. I like a girl that knows how to cook.

 

[ubercat]

Unexpected physical affection. When you're sitting not interacting and she comes and puts her head on your shoulder or whatever.

Anytime this stops in an LTR I know its time to go.

 

[JohnChops]

What make it worth it? Nothing. (Just kidding).

As gay as it sounds I do really enjoy a genuine smile with a great personality.

As for the whole cooking part, no thanks. I like cooking all my meals just the way I like it.

 

[Huffman]

Cooking is great. It's like this bit of extra effort that makes me feel warm and fuzzy. It kinda feels.... right. It's the same feeling as getting a bl*wjob - a beautiful thing that she does purely to please you, and she's so happy if you praise her afterwards.

Have to second the unexpected touch. Haven't had LTR in a long time, but even with random girls it's great.

 

[Poon King]

If you are searching for a situation where it is "ok" to place a woman on a pedestal.. you won't get one from me.

A woman who doesn't behave properly should be eradicated from your life. No exceptions.

 

[NSX-R]

Image.
When you have a beautiful woman by your side, it makes people around you behave with respect and you will make a big impression.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Unexpected physical affection. When you're sitting not interacting and she comes and puts her head on your shoulder or whatever.

Anytime this stops in an LTR I know its time to go.

I was beta-orbiting a chick long ago that used to do this every time I saw her. Never could understand it. Physical IOIs out the wazoo, cold as **** otherwise.

 

[WanderingMan]

I was beta-orbiting a chick long ago that used to do this every time I saw her. Never could understand it. Physical IOIs out the wazoo, cold as **** otherwise.

Control. Like crack, she gives you a taste then watches you run through fire to get more.

 

[parkthebus]

If you are searching for a situation where it is "ok" to place a woman on a pedestal.. you won't get one from me.

A woman who doesn't behave properly should be eradicated from your life. No exceptions.

Why are you mentioning poor behaviour? The OP made it clear this thread is not about the bad ones; it's about the good ones. If you can't appreciate personality traits that are typical found in women, which aren't directly linked to sex, you're likely sociopathic.

 

[exhausted]

I agree about the cooking. I like a girl that knows how to cook.

Hell I like a girl who just tries to cook. It is all about effort.
I asked a girl to cook for me for 8 months she declined or found reasons not to. The last four times she had planned to she cancelled on me.
However, she wanted me to treat her daughter like she was my own, treat her herself like a wife letting her live in my home for free half the week but she did not do ****. She is out.

It is very selfish and abnormal for a girl not being fulfilled for being a productive and caring partner. Gross

 

[exhausted]

Cooking and cleaning. This is not slave labor these are mandatory tasks that have to be done to live a healthy life.

If a woman cooks or helps to clean then she is a keeper.

 

[SamTheHobit]

I have an appreciation for womens bodies as well as companionship and intimacy. Being neglected as a child, I think being wanted and cared for by a woman is a pretty good feeling.