This is a list of Red Flags I've created by category. Of course, some of these Red Flags will not apply to you depending on what you want (ie if you're just looking to get laid, the Red Flags for a wh0re would then be green lights).
She's a Phony
- There's just
that something about her that your family and friends don't like.
- She likes something just because you like it.
- She's a different person depending on who she's with or where she is.
- She starts becoming a different person, ie your similarities have suddenly disappeared.
Inconsiderate / Selfish
- She always blames someone else for her screwups.
- She brings up your past fvckups in an arguement long after you've apologized for them.
- She bytches and whines when you ask her to go (insert place here). She may eventually agree to go, but she's miserable during the whole thing.
- You answer NO to some request, and she flips out saying "you're selfish", "you're an *******", or she counteracts with something like "Fine. Next time you want to (insert action here), then you can just forget it".
- She does something to piss you off on purpose when she knows damn well you hate it.
- She talks about herself and her life nonstop. If you try to say something, and you get cut off, or what you said is ignored and she keeps talking about herself.
Wh0re
- She fvcks off when you bring her with you to a party, bar, etc.
- She's a single mother with more than one child from different fathers.
- Her number of sex partners is greater than 1/3 her age.
- She immediately becomes buddies with your friends, rather than slowly warming up to them. She'll try sleeping with them in the future.
Emotionally Unstable
- She has a history of addictions (ie drugs, alcohol, gambling)
- She doesn't clean up after herself.
- She complains about her physical appearance
- She has been sexually, physically, or emotionally abused.
- After she gets involved with you, she no longer makes contact with her friends. She spends her time with only you.
- You have to constantly reassure her that you care for her.
- She has no friends except for her close relatives.
- She's in a hurry to get involved in a relationship.
- She tells you her deepest secrets early in the relationship.
- She sleeps / eats too much or too little.
- She's a single mother.
- She has long stretches of being unemployed.
- She's between the ages of 14 and 26, and has been divorced at least once.
- She says "I can't live without you".
- Her friends/ex-bfs are total fvckos. They have drug problems, are suicidal, wh0res, depressed. People attract their same kind.
- She warns you about one of her problems (ie temper), and when this problem comes out, she says "I warned you I was like this!".
- She dumps you so you'll be better off. She uses reasons like "You're too good for me", "A much better woman deserves you", "You're not happy with me", etc.
- She begs for you to get back together with her after she dumped you.
User
- She uses sex as a bribe to get you to do anything.
- She has nice posessions, but has no job.
- She flirts to get attention or free stuff (ie booze, money, cigarettes)
- She gives hints that you should buy her something (ie "I wish someone would buy a (insert object here) for meeeee"
Incompatible With You
- She doesn't speak the same language you do.
- The both of you have completely different childhoods; ie she grew up in the country while you grew up in the city, her family was rich while yours was poor, etc etc. This will most likely lead to different views of your
futures.
Bitter
- She asks your family & friends to help her get revenge on you after an arguement / breakup.
- She requests your assistance for getting revenge on her ex.
- She brags about how badly she fvcked up her ex.
- She blames all her failed relationships on the guy. Don't be surprised if she ends up going back to them.
- She's on the rebound - in other words, she recently broke off from a LTR.
Controlling / Posessive
- She gets pissed off if you want a night to hang out with your buddy(s).
- She talks about marriage or kids within the first few dates.
- Becomes posessive after a few dates, ie constantly calling, giving gifts or cards, gives you 5hit for not calling her everyday / being home to recieve her calls, comes to your workplace, phones your family, friends, regular hangouts to find out where you are.
- She's been divorced more than twice
- She tries to convince you not to wear a condom by saying "I'm on the pill".
Source:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=30558
Sidenote: Read the DJ Bible
