I've become a Misogynist

[AAAgent]

I've come to realize that over the course of recent years I have become a Misogynist. Since my last severely emotional and crazy relationship I have not had a nother girlfriend by choice. in the last year, women have come to piss me off and repulse me. Sure they are attractive but i don't want to hang out with them or talk to them.

I've seen women cheat and even try to cheat with their boyfriends with me. They're not trustworthy, can never make a decision, never really do what they say, and CAN'T be reasoned with.

I only want to hang out with guys (not in a gay way). My boys don't cause me stupid drama, they got my back, and are a overall breeze to chill with. I actually prefer hanging out with guys only and not having any girls around.

I used to enjoy talking to women, now when i talk to women i start commenting on their every sentence mentally with phrases like....cheater, liar, like you'll actually do that, etc. Sometimes i'm just a major **** to women and make them cry but am also super sweet to them.

I literally have no desire of female companionship anymore and probably would prefer to be alone.

I find myself generally pretty attractive. I get hit on occasionally by women, have a decent body and its only getting better, and ontop of that i sometimes am pretty ****y/confident though not always depending on my moodiness. I get dates, numbers, and lays here and there so its not like i hate them because i'm not succeeding in that respect. To me, women are just not something that is beneficial to my life besides being there when i need a good release.

Any Misogynist on here in SS and have you guys tried to overcome this?

 

[backbreaker]

you're 25. i had something happen to me form a girl that i was spinning that really changed my mindset around that age as well.

25 year old is about the time that is for the perfect storm.. you are really now out on your own yet you havne't had enough real experience with grown women to see all of the **** tests and usually a girl comes along with huge red flags that you just aren't mature enough to realize yet and she burns the **** out of you. the 25 year old burn is the hardest one because ou are dealing with grown women who have game who have be
en around the block

when i was in AA one of my sponsee's was living in a chem free house with other recovering addicts, and the girl he was dating who lived there, not only broke up with him, she did so on his birthday, and not onlythat, she started ****ing his room mate lol. i really felt bad for the dude but he held it together and pulled threw

i told him man you don't need to be mesisng with girls up there, they have baggage but you can't talk to the **** when it wants what it wants and she was pretty cute lol. and to make matters worse dude use to come back to the room and used to basically brag about how he was ****ing her and **** ireally wanted to punch dude in the face

both of them relapsed not a month alter though and my guy is 3 years clean. **** has a way of working out. in the long term that was the best thing that could hav eever happened to him. i told him if you can make it threw that entire ordeal and not pick back up, you have no excuse to ever use drugs again. ever.

just hang in there bro. they aren't all that bad.

 

[foreverAFC]

im the same way, and coming to this site has really kicked it into high gear. im absolutely disgusted by the dating game and most women. id rather just be alone and continue to work on myself. absolutely disgusted. im jut gonna let my inner joe davola manifest and completely take over.

 

[st_99]

I dont really look at women and dating as a love/hate thing much anymore. I just see it as a pretty wild interesting game. It is what it is, Welcome to the jungle!

 

[AAAgent]

had my crazy ex who i broke up with literally atleast 20 times, final break-up i initiated and she didn't come back. next week she's fvcking some other guy. She breaks up with him to come back to me apparently that same week after i go no contact. She told me she went to break-up with him and never came back. I called her that night while driving to her place and the guy answers the phone at 2am. He's obviously in bed next to her and she tries to play it off. She then proceeds over the next 2 years to write me letters, call me and text me occasionally and even leave secret notes on my car in the city.

Nah i'm fine outside of women. I went from 2.2gpa, bottom of my class no options to getting a job in NYC, being homeless and having all my friends abandon me to making decent money. I almost got charged with Aggravated assault which i won the case, paid off the lawyer, paid off all my credit card debt, etc. Got a promotion and won 3 sales competitions, traveled the world. **** is good and i had the best year of my life 2 years ago.

I just don't feel right hating on women. Although im happy alone now, i probably would like to have a family etc in 5 years or so. I've literally dissed girls to their face when they try and talk to me and will turn my back to them if i'm annoyed. It's not normal and i'm just trying to make myself a well balanced man, which is hard when you hate women.

 

[Who Dares Win]

It's not your problem, if most women in your place and culture are rotten fruit no wonder you cant stand the smell.

Its the same to me more or the less, I dont appreciate the company of any girl which I dont find attractive and doesnt find me attractive back.

Going out with mixed groups is even worse, going out with few guys is fine but just drop a couple of girls in the middle and it become a pain in the ass.

They constantly try to reframe, get attention and play with the guys no different than when you move a red dot to your grandma's cat.
Its ok only when the guys are all red pilled so its the girls who get told to dont overdo and keep their place.

It's not that I hate them or dislike, I just dont enjoy the time, its more like when you were at high school just attending a boring lesson.

 

[AAAgent]

Yeah, i don't really HATE them.

It's more like get the fvck away from me your a waste of my time. Girls that find me attractive and i find attractive i still treat the same. Say one thing to annoy me or piss me off and i'll be a major d1ck.

It's not that these girls are doing anything wrong to me, i think i'm just bitter and protective so my automatic defense mechanism triggers telling my brain that they annoy me resulting in me tell them to fvck off or ignoring them. I also don't think all women are rotten fruit. Women are just women, they are emotional, will gossip and i understand that but I just can't accept that ATM.

I used to look for the perfect woman, now i just want a woman that doesn't annoy the sh1t out of me but that isn't possible because almost all of them annoy me now. Even the ones that didn't annoy me a few years ago i can't stand.

I don't treat women equally anymore either as I feel that they all deserve to be treated like trash because subconsciously, i've already classified women as scum. If the right guy comes along and says the right words to you will you cheat on me? Yes.

So not only are women easily capable of being cheaters, now they're liars, have weak power of will, and are untrustworthy.

A woman i would accept is one that will tell me straight out that they are emotional, untrustworthy, etc.

That way atleast your honest about this sh1t and if you pull a cheating stunt or make stupid decisions I don't need to waste hours trying to talk sense into you hoping you'll heed the advice when all you'll do is make the wrong decision anyway.

Guys on the other hand I still mostly trust and give the benefit of the doubt.



The more and more i write, the more i sound like i hate women which i find pretty hilarious

 

[floydb25]

You sound just like me. Talking to nice women, and avoiding the bad ones helps to ease the hate. I couldnt find **** for nice people (not just women) up north, so I moved to NC. Quite a change in culture. Still, takes a while to relieve the bitterness. Avoiding bad people is a must, or you just keep going around in circles.

 

[spang]

oh no how dare you!!! women are strong, they deserve respect. women bare children, women blah blah blah blah blah....there something wrong with you! its your fault! blah blah blah....

lolololol

It's not your problem, if most women in your place and culture are rotten fruit no wonder you cant stand the smell.
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that reminds me of something sean connery said in the Untouchables..."If you're afraid of getting a rotten apple, don't go to the barrel. Get it off the tree." its sad that we have to turn to other cultures for decent women. i may end up doing that one day. unless i stumble upon gold.

 

[The Gambler]

The age of 25 can potentially be a huge turning point in your life... hopefully for the better. Though college has many mature, stable young women in its ranks, they're not necessarily the type that guys here are looking for (looks, style, personality). With that being said, AFTER college women - and guys - get their first introduction to the real world.

Most need to find a full-time job, a stable place to live, and devise a living budget shortly after graduation. The women who try to extend their school lifestyles (drinking, nightly parties and clubs, a minimum of responsibility) either need support from their well-off families or to hook up with some guy who is a meal-ticket. Learn the obvious signs and STAY AWAY from this type of woman.

On the other hand, there are plenty of women out there who are ready to begin their adult lives in their mid to late 20s. They've finally figured out that a stable relationship, a legit double-income, a good home life and starting their own family is what they really want. Many of these women are the type you may have not looked twice at in high school, but now have bodies that are... ummmm.... NICE! Once again though, you need a few filters in place to find her. They're out there, but they may not necessarily be the type who sleeps with you on the second date or turns the head of every guy in the cafe.

We're all guilty of being bitten because we were playing with the snakes. And until your mid 20s, snakes are easy to find. Thankfully, after the college age it is easier to find a better partner in the real world - but plenty of snakes are still there for those who know no better.

The Gambler

 

[Fatal Jay]

I'm with the op, we are the seed givers of this world, the woman is only the bearer of life, we plant the seed, without the seed you just got dirt that has no life in it.

As men why do we have to put up with bull**** on the constant, I'm sick of these stupid worthless broads

If you don't have nothing to bring to the table, if all you can bring to the table is bull****,then your getting deleted and I'm going on another campaign untill I strike gold.

Like the famous words of niño brown from new jack city

"cancel that biatch, I will buy me another one"

 

[Jitterbug]

Don't worry young fella, in a couple of years, you'll learn how to enjoy women's company with zero emotional investment, so you don't get pissed off at them.

 

[switch]

QUOTE:I've become a Misogynist

LOOOLZZ im sorry but im just gonaa lollll
oh god im going to hell for this loooooooolz

 

[JohnChops]

You sound just like me. Talking to nice women, and avoiding the bad ones helps to ease the hate. I couldnt find **** for nice people (not just women) up north, so I moved to NC. Quite a change in culture. Still, takes a while to relieve the bitterness. Avoiding bad people is a must, or you just keep going around in circles.

The people up north are seriously the most unfriendly people ever . They're just rude and conceded. I went down to FL for vacation and found nice conversation with just about everyone i met, from young women, old women, and anymore really. I hate living up here

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

No such thing as a "misogynist" these days. Wipe that term out of your head.

Getting fed up with bullsh1t and lies doesn't make you a "misogynist". It makes you human.

You're just venting. You will get over it.

 

[nismo-4]

Ever since I stopped believing in love and all this fairytale sh*t, my life has changed for the better. I have no problem kicking a woman to the curb.

Women claim to believe in all this happily ever after sh*t. Men should always remember their happily ever before.

 

[floydb25]

The people up north are seriously the most unfriendly people ever . They're just rude and conceded. I went down to FL for vacation and found nice conversation with just about everyone i met, from young women, old women, and anymore really. I hate living up here

A friend of mine from up north said the EXACT same thing. Once I found out how nice and friendly people were down here - it was all over. Decided right then and there that I'm never going back. I just came here on vacation initially, as well.

The people up north are too selfish, fake, shallow, competitive, and obsessed with status. They also dont hold back on anything, and are only interested in themselves - as it compares to other people. It's just one big superiority contest of being better than the next person. And theyre very rude and disrespectful. No manners or class towards anyone. No compliments, or trying to bring each other up. They attack and degrade and hate those who are successful. Literally, hate. Insults, hateful tone, etc. They'll say you're ugly, an idiot, a loser - all because you have, and attract what they cant. Most of the girls were just straight up *****es. Not nice at all. No one cares about anything. Its dog-eat-dog.

Its a lot different here. No one cares about who's hot, or leagues, or bad boys, or drama, or *****ing. Real, decent, friendly, nice, normal people. But there's not much action or excitement. Which a lot of younger people find boring. I find it peaceful, and stress-free. Cant deal with stupid / mean people anymore. A lot of girls are also very nice. And act very kind and friendly if they like you. Not, trying to tear you down, wanting to suck your **** (in those words), calling you gay if you refuse, seeing if youre on their "level", playing stupid ass games,... I hate those *****es. No class whatsoever.

I'm down with the whole slow-paced, conservative, religious, family thing they have going on here. Definitely works. They dont act like stupid animals, and actually care about each other.

 

[Burroughs]

The people up north are too selfish, fake, shallow, competitive, and obsessed with status. They also dont hold back on anything, and are only interested in themselves - as it compares to other people. It's just one big superiority contest of being better than the next person. And theyre very rude and disrespectful. No manners or class towards anyone. No compliments, or trying to bring each other up. They attack and degrade and hate those who are successful. Literally, hate. Insults, hateful tone, etc. They'll say you're ugly, an idiot, a loser - all because you have, and attract what they cant. Most of the girls were just straight up *****es. Not nice at all. No one cares about anything. Its dog-eat-dog.

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Yup this is the east coast 100%....new york city, upstate...boston....fake azz status obsessed people on a oneway trip to nowhere...and the women are so unladylike its hilarious....just gutter mouth biyaches...and these are college educated girls even ivy league girls are like this...insanely status obsessed hypnotized biyaches.

the south is more relaxed....people are more human.

I've been thinking about moving...maybe even further down to the caribbean...

how do you like NC?

 

[floydb25]

Forgot to add... The people up north, in my area, also think they know everything, speak for everyone, and that their opinion is always right. If a guy sees you get rejected ONCE, he'll come to the conclusion that you're ugly, and cant attract anyone in the history of the world. Ever. Or even through HIS view of what he THINKS women find attractive. On the same token, he'll brag about himself - even though he cant attract ****. You could have all these girls around you, and this jackass will talk **** non-stop. Always reminding you of how ugly you are, because he said so. And its always from his own worthless opinion. But he's so sexy - even though he looks like a retarded ogre with the voice of a deranged girly man.

Theyre just very aggressive, and always on the offensive, to bring others down - while simultaneously bringing themselves up in comparison. They see only what they want to see, focus on everyone else to avoid their own flaws, have excuses for everything they cant achieve (but youre just ugly and stupid), always competing with you in their "opinions"... And its all black and white..."Never, impossible, no, cant be"... I hate those ****ing people.

But even as they were talking all this **** - I had more success than they ever will. Goes to show what they know, or how much their opinion matters.

 

[Stagger Lee]

Forgot to add... The people up north, in my area, also think they know everything, speak for everyone, and that their opinion is always right. If a guy sees you get rejected ONCE, he'll come to the conclusion that you're ugly, and cant attract anyone in the history of the world. Ever. Or even through HIS view of what he THINKS women find attractive. On the same token, he'll brag about himself - even though he cant attract ****. You could have all these girls around you, and this jackass will talk **** non-stop. Always reminding you of how ugly you are, because he said so. And its always from his own worthless opinion. But he's so sexy - even though he looks like a retarded ogre with the voice of a deranged girly man.

Theyre just very aggressive, and always on the offensive, to bring others down - while simultaneously bringing themselves up in comparison. They see only what they want to see, focus on everyone else to avoid their own flaws, have excuses for everything they cant achieve (but youre just ugly and stupid), always competing with you in their "opinions"... And its all black and white..."Never, impossible, no, cant be"... I hate those ****ing people.

But even as they were talking all this **** - I had more success than they ever will. Goes to show what they know, or how much their opinion matters.

That sounds just like Ohio which is basically a northern state. But in Ohio they are the grandmasters of talking about you behind your back and backstacking. That's their main m.o. to c0ckblock. Almost a majority of their efforts and conversation is about tearing someone else down and c0ckblocking. Even someone who is suppose to be your friend will do it constantly.

Also most of the guys here try to act like they're manly or masculine but the women here control the men like puppeters. Just about all the girls here are on a high pedastle. Guys here will surround girls they don't know and aren't even talking to just to give the impression they are with the girls and discourage anyone else form approaching.