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Worst cities in the US for men.

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After doing a thread about the best cities in the US for men here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/best-cities-in-the-us-for-men.246297/

I have decided to do one on the worst cities in the USA for men. Now granted these are all big or big enough cities I am listing.

What makes a city bad for men:

1. Tight knit social cliques which are hard to break into but create an atmosphere to where certain guys, regardless of looks and game, get the hottest girls.

2. Lack of enough hot girls.

3. A guy has to really expand his options to experience dating success (go for girls who are not his type and lower his standards).

These are the cities where being a good looking guy with game is not enough to get hot girls and a guy has to go above and beyond, like hoping certain social circles accept him, in order to get hot girls.

We will start out with...

5. Toronto

I would have put Toronto near the top about a few years ago but in some ways, the city has improved. I would have never thought about sleeping with an Indian girl until I went to Toronto, then I changed my mind. The city probably has the hottest brown girls I have ever seen in North America, no joke!

Unfortunately, white women in the city have massive egos and so do Asian women, moreso than elsewhere. Social circle game is a must in order to have success in the city and there is very much a try hard to be cool culture.

4. Los Angeles

The issue with LA is that it has a lot more single dudes than single women but on the flip side, the girls are really hot. Running game in LA is tough if you do not have a social circle to be a part of and people are pretty cliquish too, you have to find your crew the hard way. Without a social circle, it is tough in the city because it is not as walkable as NYC and everything is so spread out.

I love that LA has variety, white girls are pretty hot in the city but so are the ethnic and black women. If you open up your tastes enough, it is pretty easy to have some sort of success in the city itself but again, it is one tough shell to crack.

3. Vancouver

Stuck up Asian girls and white girls who think their sh-t doesn't stink. I had the misfortune of growing up here and it is arguably the snobbish city I have ever lived in. The one saving grace for this city is the fact that it is beautiful, probably one of the most beautiful cities in North America, but other than that it largely sucks living there. A lot of try hards and the "cool factor" matters a great deal in the city itself. Very tight knit social groups as well and women are quite guarded.

I think that while Vancouver does suck for game, it isn't as bad as some of the other cities on this list that I will be getting to. Definitely avoid this city if you are an Asian or Indian guy though, very low status here.

2. Atlanta

If you are not open to getting with trashy ghetto black women, dating in this city is worthless.

White women who look good are taken up before 30 and a lot of them date bubbas with old frat boy status.

Asian, Indian and ethnic women are as stuckup as you will encounter anywhere else in the US.

Probably the most cliquish city in all of the US that I have ever been to. Tons of frustrated west coast and east coast transplants that strip away the southern hospitality. Lots of "urbanized" folks that get hostile quick and a "tough guy" attitude is needed for the city.

I did meet some decent people in the city, they were all southerners though, but so much of the city is social circle game. Hard to get any girl above a 7 without social status but hard to get social status if you were not a former frat bro at an SEC school.

The city also lacks the southern charm a lot of southern cities do have and the quality of white women either ranges from the occasional 9 or 10 to a 4 or 5, not much middle ground to be found. The 9s and 10s are usually taken and married as well, likely to their college sweetheart.

1. San Francisco

Was there ever really a debate as to which city is the worst for men?

San Francisco takes the cake by far.

Quality of women is garbage.

Tranny and gay capital of the world.

Do not come here if you are not into Asian women but even then, you better be a white guy.

Elitist, snotty, stuckup and self-righteous hypocrites describes the women of San Francisco. Without question, everything you can imagine to be wrong in the city is wrong in San Francisco regards to dating.

Wall Street Playboys hit it out of the park with this article:

http://wallstreetplayboys.com/new-york-vs-san-francisco-landslide-for-new-york-city/
 

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And any Eastern European city beats the h3ll out of any North American city.
 

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I can say the worst cities in Europe are london and all the southern europan capitals, I met a american guy that looked like an improved version of will smith and he told me that he wasnt able to get girls in london and rome.

Keep in mind this guy gets plenty in the us so you can imagine how it gets there, I can confirm it, I got an average of a girl per week in most eastern european countries which looked better than the average girl in those countries we cant get any.

I dont wanna sound boring but its just a matter of demographics, no matter how cool you are or how tight your game is, if its 10 guys and a girl, you will hardly get it....funny thing is that crappy countries also have crappier girls in terms of look.

Sometime I think god is trolling, he puts the hot ones all togheter and make them nice and feminine while he throws the shortest fattest ones as a minority somewhere else.

Ugliest girls I see were in cyprus, looking like middle easterns and playind divas like italians.
 

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I can say the worst cities in Europe are london and all the southern europan capitals, I met a american guy that looked like an improved version of will smith and he told me that he wasnt able to get girls in london and rome.

Keep in mind this guy gets plenty in the us so you can imagine how it gets there, I can confirm it, I got an average of a girl per week in most eastern european countries which looked better than the average girl in those countries we cant get any.

I dont wanna sound boring but its just a matter of demographics, no matter how cool you are or how tight your game is, if its 10 guys and a girl, you will hardly get it....funny thing is that crappy countries also have crappier girls in terms of look.

Sometime I think god is trolling, he puts the hot ones all togheter and make them nice and feminine while he throws the shortest fattest ones as a minority somewhere else.

Ugliest girls I see were in cyprus, looking like middle easterns and playind divas like italians.
Dude, white women with darker features are the absolute worst of them all. I think that majority of white women who are "darker" tend to have mental issues due to an insecurity that comes from not being fully white. That is why I notice I rarely see or meet that many crazy blondes and redheads yet most of the crazy insecure white women I have known have been brunettes and usually of a darker variety (Italian and med)
 

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Dude, white women with darker features are the absolute worst of them all. I think that majority of white women who are "darker" tend to have mental issues due to an insecurity that comes from not being fully white. That is why I notice I rarely see or meet that many crazy blondes and redheads yet most of the crazy insecure white women I have known have been brunettes and usually of a darker variety (Italian and med)
I have noticed this in mid western USA where I am about 2-2.5 hrs SW of Chicago.The blondes are by far the nicest women around as far as personality goes. Then reds. Then brunettes/darker hair.
 

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The Job market correlates with the Dating market.
There has to be enough to go around for everyone, even for individuals relocating from other states.
If the job market in that city is bad, chances are the female prospects in that area will also be bad.

Places like Richmond, VA and Orlando, FL should be on your list.
 

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Guys, there is a game plan for every situation. You just gotta adjust.

If I'm in a city full of bitchy entitled women, I just make my game more evil and abusive. Its what they deserve. Its fun too.

Men are too quick to treat women with respect they haven't yet earned. That's the problem. In places like this, you gotta treat them like crap. Then you'll up your lay count.
 

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I can say the worst cities in Europe are london and all the southern europan capitals, I met a american guy that looked like an improved version of will smith and he told me that he wasnt able to get girls in london and rome.

Keep in mind this guy gets plenty in the us so you can imagine how it gets there, I can confirm it, I got an average of a girl per week in most eastern european countries which looked better than the average girl in those countries we cant get any.

I dont wanna sound boring but its just a matter of demographics, no matter how cool you are or how tight your game is, if its 10 guys and a girl, you will hardly get it....funny thing is that crappy countries also have crappier girls in terms of look.
Maybe you and your friend have sh1t game. London is huge with a diverse mix of people, if you can't get girls here as an American you are either ugly or weak game. Everyone loves american accents here it should be shooting fish in a barrel.
 

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Maybe you and your friend have sh1t game. London is huge with a diverse mix of people, if you can't get girls here as an American you are either ugly or weak game. Everyone loves american accents here it should be shooting fish in a barrel.
I'm not american, the other guy is.
 

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I can say the worst cities in Europe are london and all the southern europan capitals, I met a american guy that looked like an improved version of will smith and he told me that he wasnt able to get girls in london and rome.

Keep in mind this guy gets plenty in the us so you can imagine how it gets there, I can confirm it, I got an average of a girl per week in most eastern european countries which looked better than the average girl in those countries we cant get any.

I dont wanna sound boring but its just a matter of demographics, no matter how cool you are or how tight your game is, if its 10 guys and a girl, you will hardly get it....funny thing is that crappy countries also have crappier girls in terms of look.

Sometime I think god is trolling, he puts the hot ones all togheter and make them nice and feminine while he throws the shortest fattest ones as a minority somewhere else.

Ugliest girls I see were in cyprus, looking like middle easterns and playind divas like italians.
Italian women and swarthy white women are the absolute worst. The only decent ones I have known were from Eastern Europe but Southern Europe is by and large a sh*thole. Women from Italy are psychopaths by birth and tend to be full of abnormal amounts of self-hate. I almost feel sorry for Mediterranean men in general, knowing that their women would give an arm and leg to have blonde hair and blue eyes.

I cannot think of any country that has more mentally sick women than Italy or any region of the world more mentally sick than Southern Europe. Women there are the worst of all the worlds.
 

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The Job market correlates with the Dating market.
There has to be enough to go around for everyone, even for individuals relocating from other states.
If the job market in that city is bad, chances are the female prospects in that area will also be bad.

Places like Richmond, VA and Orlando, FL should be on your list.
Not really.

I loved Orlando and found women there to be quite approachable.

If anything I think a healthy job market means tons of competition since a lot of guys there have their lives together.
 

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I have noticed this in mid western USA where I am about 2-2.5 hrs SW of Chicago.The blondes are by far the nicest women around as far as personality goes. Then reds. Then brunettes/darker hair.
I have noticed that brunettes are the absolute worst of all the worlds, I mean worse than Asian, Latin, black and even brown women.

Most white brunettes I've known are naturally b1tchy, confrontational and usually the kind to go around starting the fight. I will never approach a brunette if I can help it.
 
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