Penis Problems

[PyThOnXxXx]

yo i got a serious question..

when things get hot and heavy with a girl i get nervous and my **** doesnt get big. im not gay, i like girls and i wanna do stuff with them but sometimes i just cant.

for example, i was gonna get a bj from a girl but i couldnt get it up so i didnt wanna take it out... i dont know maybe it was from drinking a lot of alcohol.

i get nervous cuz i never whipped it out before and im afraid what shes gonna think of it. it sucks to have your best friend let you down.

does anybody else have this problem

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Well, first change your name from python to worm, you ain't foolin' nobody

I'm just kiddin...just give it a shot, if you cant get hard then I guess its not a huge deal

 

[undesputable]

alcohol takes your testosterone levels down and thats a problem....if you cant get it up when youre specifically drunk, then dont be surprised..... if the problem persists even when youre not drunk then, fallow a good diet, take supplements, and dont watch too much porn, and if you must get drunk dont get drunk more than 1 time per week

 

[TheWanderer]

wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf
get some viagra

 

[Extra]

I don't know if anyone here is familiar with the Radio show Loveline, on 106.7 fm (L.A. and Orange County areas), on weeknights 10pm-12am, but the two hosts, Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew get questions like this almost every night. Dr. Drew usually explains how it's a result of the body's immaturity and often inexperience to the situation. It could be due to the alcohol or even just nervousness. There are alot of reasons for it, but it is pretty common among teenager's to have something like this happen on the first couple times. If I were you I would stay sober for something like that, you would at least be guaranteed to remember it if you hadn't had any to drink .

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

Slows the way to go!

Dont rush it. Whats the big hurry?

You want to take your time, you want to enjoy touching her, kissing her, rubbing her, her rubbing you and touching and kissing you. You want to hear her heavy breathing, you want to feel your heartrate increase.

As you notice the bloodflow into your penis, youll become a lot more aware of it, and start to pick up the pace.

Maybe youll start kissing and rubbing and nibbling on her faster, maybe she'll start sighing and moaning a bit. Maybe you will find all of the things she does EXTREMELY arousing.

FOREPLAY!

You are there to enjoy EVERY part of the experience, not just cumming, why skip over some of the fun stuff just so you can get to the end?

 

[Evil-Rom]

Re: Slows the way to go!

Originally posted by Raptured Phoenix
Dont rush it. Whats the big hurry?

You want to take your time, you want to enjoy touching her, kissing her, rubbing her, her rubbing you and touching and kissing you. You want to hear her heavy breathing, you want to feel your heartrate increase.

As you notice the bloodflow into your penis, youll become a lot more aware of it, and start to pick up the pace.

Maybe youll start kissing and rubbing and nibbling on her faster, maybe she'll start sighing and moaning a bit. Maybe you will find all of the things she does EXTREMELY arousing.

FOREPLAY!

You are there to enjoy EVERY part of the experience, not just cumming, why skip over some of the fun stuff just so you can get to the end?

I came.

 

[bubbles]

worst nightmare

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by TheWanderer
wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf
get some viagra

yea at $10 a pop, forget that.....

 

[SomethingCreative]

Don't expect it to just get big without taking it out. I could be misunderstanding but it sounds more like you are self consious about your size and are afraid to take it out while its flaccid, howerver if you do and you let her help you get it up you should have much less of a problem.

 

[undesputable]

unless youre a shower, meaning that you are at least 5 1/2 inches flaccid, it would be better not to do that.... especially with a girl that youve never had sex with before

 

[jiza101]

lol and ure name is python

 

[Plane]

Originally posted by undesputable
unless youre a shower, meaning that you are at least 5 1/2 inches flaccid, it would be better not to do that....

Haha yeah




But back to the original post
I had this almost happen too me once, I had been hanging out with these three girls all night(It was at a summer camp) and it was one of the first times I thought I was going to get some, but anyway. So one of the girls decided she had too go do something, so I am left with the other two girls, who had been flirting with me a lot during the camp, so I was trying too keep my mind off ******* then for fear I'd get an erection too soon. So then after a while one of the girls leads me off into a laundry room(we were in a dorm, it was 3rd floor guys only, 2nd floor girls only, but bottom floor, guys and girls could hangout on) and we were in the bottom floor laundry room, of the floor that no one was staying on(bottom floor, and in the wing no one was staying in)) and there were two chairs, so we pulled them up close too each other and we started doing some Kino, as well as making out and stuff, but although I was sure I was going to get head or something, I still wasn't hard, so I was getting worried, so I just kept thinking about it, so finally at the last second I rescued myself and kicked it in!

Well anyway, I guess I'm just trying too say, sometimes you may be around girls so much that you have too keep it turned off, and it may take a while to let the motor warm up before you can start driving.


Or, maybe you just have a bad diet, and smoke too much (golly gee wilikers, this is the HS forum, no smoking here) but oh well.

 

[Luscious]

Originally posted by PyThOnXxXx
yo i got a serious question..

when things get hot and heavy with a girl i get nervous and my **** doesnt get big. im not gay, i like girls and i wanna do stuff with them but sometimes i just cant.

for example, i was gonna get a bj from a girl but i couldnt get it up so i didnt wanna take it out... i dont know maybe it was from drinking a lot of alcohol.

i get nervous cuz i never whipped it out before and im afraid what shes gonna think of it. it sucks to have your best friend let you down.

does anybody else have this problem

Drinking will prevent you from getting it up.
It sounds like a catch-22, but the only way to keep it up is from NOT thinking about keeping it up.
Just run your eyes over her body, think about how damn hot that body is and how bad you wanna hit it, and then give 'er.

 

[Superman X]

Well anyway, I guess I'm just trying too say, sometimes you may be around girls so much that you have too keep it turned off, and it may take a while to let the motor warm up before you can start driving.

I've had problems getting it up before, and I think this is what is really at the root of it. As men, especially as men who have had "Kill that Desperation" and "Be Desireless" hammered into our skulls, we're so used to repressing our sexual state that we find it hard to turn it back on.

Why do we repress it? It gives the woman power if we want her sexually, and makes us vulnerable. But I guess, sometimes you have to make yourself vulnerable and take a risk to experience some pleasures.

-Dan