Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
I've had this a couple of times from girls.
I get their number, give them a call, chat for a bit and try to set up a date.
They then come out with something like 'I don't have my diary on me' or 'I have to check with xyz, can I get back to you'.
Then a day or so later I get a voicemail, email or text message saying 'sorry, can't make it'.
I know the bible says if she doesn't suggest an alternative, she is not interested.
But is this a viable assumption? Shouldn't we 'make the hoe say no'?
I am confused between whether this is a sh1t test or a brush off. Because I don't want to appear too eager or desperate, I've said 'fine, ok, get back to me or I'll give you a call tomorrow to check'.
What I want to know is, IF I went all hard on her and said something like 'my time is valuable, I have other committments so I'd appreciate you making a decision right now' what would happen?
a) would this pass the sh1t test and impress them, making them want to go out with me.
b) would they just want to avoid confrontation and agree to a date, giving me a chance to impress them and increase IL, or
c) make them angry or flake out in some other way like agreeing to a date but standing me up?
I would assume it would be C or possibly B. Just wondered if anyone has experience of this before I try it for real.
I get their number, give them a call, chat for a bit and try to set up a date.
They then come out with something like 'I don't have my diary on me' or 'I have to check with xyz, can I get back to you'.
Then a day or so later I get a voicemail, email or text message saying 'sorry, can't make it'.
I know the bible says if she doesn't suggest an alternative, she is not interested.
But is this a viable assumption? Shouldn't we 'make the hoe say no'?
I am confused between whether this is a sh1t test or a brush off. Because I don't want to appear too eager or desperate, I've said 'fine, ok, get back to me or I'll give you a call tomorrow to check'.
What I want to know is, IF I went all hard on her and said something like 'my time is valuable, I have other committments so I'd appreciate you making a decision right now' what would happen?
a) would this pass the sh1t test and impress them, making them want to go out with me.
b) would they just want to avoid confrontation and agree to a date, giving me a chance to impress them and increase IL, or
c) make them angry or flake out in some other way like agreeing to a date but standing me up?
I would assume it would be C or possibly B. Just wondered if anyone has experience of this before I try it for real.