How to deal with her ex-boyfriends and guy friends

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Hi,

We all admit it, we dont want other guys near our women. So, what to do with it. Its a free country and she is a free woman. You can't force her to quit meeting them but you can definitely try to make her agree to do it.

So, first of all never involve any of her guy friends in any of your date. If you're in a her party where you meet them just be friendly, but never invite them in your party or any of your dates even if she asks you for this. Just tell her when you are with her you want her undivided attention and she should respect your time.
Any way if they are her friends you dont have to be worry about them, cause they are already in friends zone.
I already covered in other post how to deal with other guy she is seeing.
If you dont get jealous, and respect your time and she suspects that there are other women in your life, you will be a challenge and you will definitely ahead of other guys she is being with.

Now, the case of ex-boyfriend. There can be two things. First she dumped him, second he dumped her. Most of the time she dumps the guy, so the exes are not a threat to you. Simply, dont get jealous. He cant do anything if he tries.

In few cases, guy dumped the girl when he found something wrong about her, if though she loved him. In this case, she still has feelings for him, and if he comes around he will get her again. If you are just flirting with her or started dating her, you cant do nothing about it. But if she is now your girlfriend she should stay with you if she has high integrity. So, during dating period test her for her integrity, if she is loyal and honest person. If she has low integrity, she may break up with you and go to her ex, if she still has high interest in him. In this case, if you are not jealous and are greater challenge then her ex, she may chose you over her ex. But, test her before you commit if she has high integrity, so that you are not left with a broken heart.

Its better to make mistakes quickly and remove the bad seeds than getting sudden dump.

Like people say action counts, see if her actions say it all.

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So many people write here what to do if she already has a bf, the answer is next.

She already has a LTR, she is not available, even if she breaks up you will be used as a booster for her self-esteem and then she will jump to the next guy.

So, if the woman has just come out of an LTR, even if she has done the break up, dont ask her out for sometime, until she is fully ready for another LTR, when ?
nobody knows but dont be the rebound guy.

IQ.
 
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