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Don Juan
Hi Fellow Don Juans,
The female species never stop testing our limits and one of the way is to test our jealousy and possessiveness. There are three scenarios to be considered.
1) You have an eye on her--
You have started talking to this girl and flirting with her (be in class, work or any other place you visit often). You notice her talking, laughing or flirting with other guys. There can be several things. Worst she is not interested in you, just leading you on
for attention etc. Bad she is interested in you and other guy as well, good she is interested in you and trying to make you jealous.
Here is the game plan. Being the ultimate challange, ignore her about her flirting with other guys, dont get angry. Now, if you get a chance to control yourself talk to someone in the surrounding and if possible talk to another girl. Women are very competitive.
If your target girl is not interested in you,
she wont react your talking with other girl in a positive way, may be she will get catty as you are giving attention to other girl but
she will still lead you on or get angry. If she doesnt stop flirting with other guys after seeing you flirting with other girl, you should drop the case as she has low interest in you.
If she is interested in other guy and you too, your flirting with another girl will raise her interest in you and you will find out that she will come more toward you, dont give in yet, keep talking to other girl until she stops flirting with other guys in front of you. When she stops that you can bet she has got a really high interest in you.
If she is interested in you and just trying to make you jealous, your ignorance and counter-flirting will make her jealous and she will come more towards you.
2) You are dating her --
This is the test of your manhood. If you are on a date with a girl and she starts flirting with other guy, first let her explain you the guy is. If they are just friends from long time, ignore it, dont get angry, say something like when I am with you, I deserved to be respected for my time. She should get the message. But if she does it second time, drop her case right then. Show her you are the man and wont take any kind of disrespect.
3) She is your girlfriend---
If you have weed out the bad seeds in the beginning, this should not bother you. There might be two problems. Either you have dropped her interest fairly low, she now thinks that you are not the man she fell for and she is testing your limits by flirting with other man or she is jealous of your flirting with other girls and is counter-fliriting.
Well, if her interest level is low, you have to become a challenge. Dont get upset, try to
figure out what is the nature of flirting. If her flirting is outrageous of the type that you cant do anything to me, her interest in low. Talk to other girls and back off from your girl friend for a while. If she still has a positive interest in you she will eventually come back to you. If she doesnt then its a lost cause. Dump her before she dumps you, you will be much more happy if you end it first.
If she is flirting because she is jealous of your flirting, she is right, you have disrespected her, so dont get angry, relax and ignore her at that time. You will figure out that although she is flirting with other guy but this is half-hearted flirting just to draw your attention. Dont give her attention right there, ignore and talk to someone else there. Stop flirting in front of her and give her the respect she deserves, she will come right back to you.
Enough said.
Any comments???
IQ.
The female species never stop testing our limits and one of the way is to test our jealousy and possessiveness. There are three scenarios to be considered.
1) You have an eye on her--
You have started talking to this girl and flirting with her (be in class, work or any other place you visit often). You notice her talking, laughing or flirting with other guys. There can be several things. Worst she is not interested in you, just leading you on
for attention etc. Bad she is interested in you and other guy as well, good she is interested in you and trying to make you jealous.
Here is the game plan. Being the ultimate challange, ignore her about her flirting with other guys, dont get angry. Now, if you get a chance to control yourself talk to someone in the surrounding and if possible talk to another girl. Women are very competitive.
If your target girl is not interested in you,
she wont react your talking with other girl in a positive way, may be she will get catty as you are giving attention to other girl but
she will still lead you on or get angry. If she doesnt stop flirting with other guys after seeing you flirting with other girl, you should drop the case as she has low interest in you.
If she is interested in other guy and you too, your flirting with another girl will raise her interest in you and you will find out that she will come more toward you, dont give in yet, keep talking to other girl until she stops flirting with other guys in front of you. When she stops that you can bet she has got a really high interest in you.
If she is interested in you and just trying to make you jealous, your ignorance and counter-flirting will make her jealous and she will come more towards you.
2) You are dating her --
This is the test of your manhood. If you are on a date with a girl and she starts flirting with other guy, first let her explain you the guy is. If they are just friends from long time, ignore it, dont get angry, say something like when I am with you, I deserved to be respected for my time. She should get the message. But if she does it second time, drop her case right then. Show her you are the man and wont take any kind of disrespect.
3) She is your girlfriend---
If you have weed out the bad seeds in the beginning, this should not bother you. There might be two problems. Either you have dropped her interest fairly low, she now thinks that you are not the man she fell for and she is testing your limits by flirting with other man or she is jealous of your flirting with other girls and is counter-fliriting.
Well, if her interest level is low, you have to become a challenge. Dont get upset, try to
figure out what is the nature of flirting. If her flirting is outrageous of the type that you cant do anything to me, her interest in low. Talk to other girls and back off from your girl friend for a while. If she still has a positive interest in you she will eventually come back to you. If she doesnt then its a lost cause. Dump her before she dumps you, you will be much more happy if you end it first.
If she is flirting because she is jealous of your flirting, she is right, you have disrespected her, so dont get angry, relax and ignore her at that time. You will figure out that although she is flirting with other guy but this is half-hearted flirting just to draw your attention. Dont give her attention right there, ignore and talk to someone else there. Stop flirting in front of her and give her the respect she deserves, she will come right back to you.
Enough said.
Any comments???
IQ.
