DoofusDonutDude
Don Juan
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- Jun 22, 2023
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I've been observing - there are plenty of dudes in relationship with a solid hot women for LTR who are confident but don't have game - because they exhibit value in some or other aspect- either they're good looking , have a great personality, are rich ..or just a solid good sorted person who is doing decent in life.
I've seen guys with total **** can lives banging the hottest women because they have extremely solid game but they are unable to make them stick around. It's like a hit it and quit it thing for the women- they use the dude for fun but leave them once its time to get serious .
One female friend described such guys are "They're like junk food. Good in the moment but bad for you long term. A momentary indulgence. Long term you need something that is nourishing but hopefully somewhat fun as well"
A friend put it this way , if you want sex - "It's 60% game, 40% value" - if you want successful LTR - "It's 60% value, 40% game" .
The question is then, is game on its own enough if you seek more than just sex ?
It seems if you do not have game but have value you can have decent relationships with hot women but if you have game but not value you cannot have relationships with attractive women.
Of course, the ideal Don Juan has both value and game but that's the ideal scenario right..?
I've seen guys with total **** can lives banging the hottest women because they have extremely solid game but they are unable to make them stick around. It's like a hit it and quit it thing for the women- they use the dude for fun but leave them once its time to get serious .
One female friend described such guys are "They're like junk food. Good in the moment but bad for you long term. A momentary indulgence. Long term you need something that is nourishing but hopefully somewhat fun as well"
A friend put it this way , if you want sex - "It's 60% game, 40% value" - if you want successful LTR - "It's 60% value, 40% game" .
The question is then, is game on its own enough if you seek more than just sex ?
It seems if you do not have game but have value you can have decent relationships with hot women but if you have game but not value you cannot have relationships with attractive women.
Of course, the ideal Don Juan has both value and game but that's the ideal scenario right..?