So many of you guys are complaining that your social circle sucks. You don’t have many friends. I am not going to explain how to act in order to make new friends.
I’m going to tell you the things YOU NEED TO DO in order to give you the chance to meet new friends.
You have your same ol’ friends that are AFC’s and could give a crap less about meeting hot women.
* Maybe these guys have g/f’s or maybe they are chumps that aren’t
friends w/ very many hot women.
*Maybe these guys are social recluses and hate going to clubs, bars,
and meeting new people.
*Maybe you’ve hung around with these guys for so long that you’ve
exhausted all women in this social circle and everyone knows
everybody else.
Most people meet women through friends or friends of friends. Common knowledge. Few of you guys actually go to bars or clubs with your main goal of PU.
So how do you meet women then ? You don’t. And you know the reason ? Your social circle ! Building a network of friends does the following:
1) increases your chances of meeting hot women
2) Makes it easier to approach these women as friends know them
3) Gives you more of a social life therefore increasing social skills, social proof, etc
4) Makes you become a better person. The more diverse group of people you know, the more it builds character
5) Makes you happier !
So you all are scratching your heads on where you can meet friends, right ? Besides, your all victim to the same routine, day after day. Work / college (whatever you are doing ATM), go home, watch tv, jerk off. You all wonder how to meet new people Its not difficult ! You’re victims of routine. Here’s what you will do.
1) Join a gym. IF you plan on being a PUA, or DJ you must be in shape. Working out gives you confidence. Already joined a gym ? Quit that gym. Go to a new one. You want to start over. The previous guys know how much of a chump you are. You want to start fresh.
Join this gym. You are going 5 days a week, b/c you are basically training one muscle per day, sometimes 2 b/c that’s how u get big ! Hehe, I’m on tangent, sorry. But you are going 5 days a week. Go at the same time everyday. Goal ? Not to meet the same chumps like you who are just getting into it.
YOU WANT TO meet some meatheads, meet guys that have been working out for years. Ask them for tips, talk to them everyday. You WILL see the meatheads (note, by meatheads, I don’t necessarily mean they are dumb, I just use that term to describe guys that are jacked) there everyday b/c they are dedicated. You will develop a relationship with these guys. Compliment them on how great their body looks. This is not gay sh#t. It shows that you recognize the hard work they put in to training. Ask advice, shoot the sh#t. Go to the bars w/ them. Show them what a f#cking cool guy you are. You have now developed a social circle of jacked, gym goers. These guys are fun guys usually. They have friends, potentially lots of hot girl friends. These girls leech as friends b/c meatheads have good bodies. You have one up on these meatheads, you are a DJ. NOW MOVING ON…..
2) Join an interest group. Not a political interest group. Something
that’s a hobby to you.
For example: I joined a motorcycle club b/c I’ve got a Suzuki GSX-R. Point is, join some sort of a club where you will meet new people.
Like biking ? Join a bike club.
Like tennis ? Join a tennis club, indoor, outdoor, w/e. Tennis always
attracts hot women.
Ever have an interest in billiards ? Join a billiards league.
Join a paintball league.
Join a weekly home poker game (note you can find guys that needs
players and play home poker on the internet, just google search
it). Like gambling ? Go to the casino often (with a regulated
bankroll set aside for gambling, c’mon guys, responsible gambling, I
can do it, you can too). You’ll meet a diverse group of people
here.
Join a softball league. Every league has a free-agents sign up where u
can go for a random team.
Join an adult basketball league.
Those are all the suggestions I’m giving. As you can see, these groups allow you to participate in something you love, while allowing you to meet new people.
Whether you take these guys to be friends is a different story, but these are acquaintances you will use to find hot women. These people in these leagues are guys that like to have fun.
They’re not computer jockeys like you. They enjoy living life. These are the people you want to know.
With such a large social circle, imagine how many hot women you can meet. Imagine how large your network of friends will be.
3) Co-Workers. Particularly good if you just graduated college.
Get a full-time job, you’ll meet new co-workers that just graduated also. Hell, even if you have been there a few years, make friends with your co-workers. Don’t cross the line, as some companies have strict rules.
Point is, invite these people to the bar, or wherever u like going. They are bound to have post-college grad. Friends they are still in touch with. Meet these people w/ help of your co-workers. These people, along with your co-workers are now in your social circle.
Note: it is not difficult to make a broad social circle. Just do the things I’ve said and imagine how broad of a circle you will get. Once you get a big social circle, you’ll be surprised at how quickly you develop great social skills. You will develop confidence. GO to the bars and see how easy it is to meet new people.
GL and increase your circle !
I’m going to tell you the things YOU NEED TO DO in order to give you the chance to meet new friends.
You have your same ol’ friends that are AFC’s and could give a crap less about meeting hot women.
* Maybe these guys have g/f’s or maybe they are chumps that aren’t
friends w/ very many hot women.
*Maybe these guys are social recluses and hate going to clubs, bars,
and meeting new people.
*Maybe you’ve hung around with these guys for so long that you’ve
exhausted all women in this social circle and everyone knows
everybody else.
Most people meet women through friends or friends of friends. Common knowledge. Few of you guys actually go to bars or clubs with your main goal of PU.
So how do you meet women then ? You don’t. And you know the reason ? Your social circle ! Building a network of friends does the following:
1) increases your chances of meeting hot women
2) Makes it easier to approach these women as friends know them
3) Gives you more of a social life therefore increasing social skills, social proof, etc
4) Makes you become a better person. The more diverse group of people you know, the more it builds character
5) Makes you happier !
So you all are scratching your heads on where you can meet friends, right ? Besides, your all victim to the same routine, day after day. Work / college (whatever you are doing ATM), go home, watch tv, jerk off. You all wonder how to meet new people Its not difficult ! You’re victims of routine. Here’s what you will do.
1) Join a gym. IF you plan on being a PUA, or DJ you must be in shape. Working out gives you confidence. Already joined a gym ? Quit that gym. Go to a new one. You want to start over. The previous guys know how much of a chump you are. You want to start fresh.
Join this gym. You are going 5 days a week, b/c you are basically training one muscle per day, sometimes 2 b/c that’s how u get big ! Hehe, I’m on tangent, sorry. But you are going 5 days a week. Go at the same time everyday. Goal ? Not to meet the same chumps like you who are just getting into it.
YOU WANT TO meet some meatheads, meet guys that have been working out for years. Ask them for tips, talk to them everyday. You WILL see the meatheads (note, by meatheads, I don’t necessarily mean they are dumb, I just use that term to describe guys that are jacked) there everyday b/c they are dedicated. You will develop a relationship with these guys. Compliment them on how great their body looks. This is not gay sh#t. It shows that you recognize the hard work they put in to training. Ask advice, shoot the sh#t. Go to the bars w/ them. Show them what a f#cking cool guy you are. You have now developed a social circle of jacked, gym goers. These guys are fun guys usually. They have friends, potentially lots of hot girl friends. These girls leech as friends b/c meatheads have good bodies. You have one up on these meatheads, you are a DJ. NOW MOVING ON…..
2) Join an interest group. Not a political interest group. Something
that’s a hobby to you.
For example: I joined a motorcycle club b/c I’ve got a Suzuki GSX-R. Point is, join some sort of a club where you will meet new people.
Like biking ? Join a bike club.
Like tennis ? Join a tennis club, indoor, outdoor, w/e. Tennis always
attracts hot women.
Ever have an interest in billiards ? Join a billiards league.
Join a paintball league.
Join a weekly home poker game (note you can find guys that needs
players and play home poker on the internet, just google search
it). Like gambling ? Go to the casino often (with a regulated
bankroll set aside for gambling, c’mon guys, responsible gambling, I
can do it, you can too). You’ll meet a diverse group of people
here.
Join a softball league. Every league has a free-agents sign up where u
can go for a random team.
Join an adult basketball league.
Those are all the suggestions I’m giving. As you can see, these groups allow you to participate in something you love, while allowing you to meet new people.
Whether you take these guys to be friends is a different story, but these are acquaintances you will use to find hot women. These people in these leagues are guys that like to have fun.
They’re not computer jockeys like you. They enjoy living life. These are the people you want to know.
With such a large social circle, imagine how many hot women you can meet. Imagine how large your network of friends will be.
3) Co-Workers. Particularly good if you just graduated college.
Get a full-time job, you’ll meet new co-workers that just graduated also. Hell, even if you have been there a few years, make friends with your co-workers. Don’t cross the line, as some companies have strict rules.
Point is, invite these people to the bar, or wherever u like going. They are bound to have post-college grad. Friends they are still in touch with. Meet these people w/ help of your co-workers. These people, along with your co-workers are now in your social circle.
Note: it is not difficult to make a broad social circle. Just do the things I’ve said and imagine how broad of a circle you will get. Once you get a big social circle, you’ll be surprised at how quickly you develop great social skills. You will develop confidence. GO to the bars and see how easy it is to meet new people.
GL and increase your circle !
