Here is what I have used to kiss every girl I have taken on a date recently.
You gotta do the obvious stuff, lots of kino, eye contact, smiling, really listening to her, connecting with her. Once you have done the above, you change phase and go for the kill.
This is what I do and it hasnt failed me yet:
me: hey! what perfume are you wearing? oh actually dont tell me let me guess...
Then lean in, move her hair aside with a gently brush of your hand against her neck. move your hand to the back of her neck, and as your nose gets within half an inch of her neck, grab her hair from behind. Almost like you are massaging the back of her neck. This will REALLY get her heart rate going.
Then lean back as if you are not at all affected by what just happened and the only reason you did that was to smell her.
me: mmmm not sure. is it x? y? z?
I've done this so many times that I pretty much always guess right now! they love this!
me: smell me! lets see if you can guess mine.
she leans in, smells you. this will turn her on even more.
me: hey, you know, your prefume actually tastes amazing too, have you ever tasted it?
her: ha ha ha ha ha
so i lean over again, and this time i dont even bother to wait for her to give me concent. by this time, she wants more!
this time i do exactly the same thing as before, but instead of just smelling her, i give her a very soft and gentle kiss on her neck with just the right amount of toungue.
95% of the time, you just work your way up to her lips.
The best part is when you feel them get goos-bumps as you kiss their neck!
This is my ultimate kiss close routine. It hasnt failed me yet!