advice needed on WHEN to kiss the girl on date

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ok so say its the first date..... everything is going well, she is attracted to you, yall are bowling or whatever,,,... i just read that its the surprise kisses that make the butterflies go in teh girls stomache,,,, however, does that just mean yall are chillin at the arcade and you start kissin her, i mean i know you also dont want to surprise her too much- and then the drive home is awkward and too predictable- what do you guys think
 

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Set up a cozy environment. Kissing entails cuddling. Just get comfortable, get close, and go for it. If you really are that desperate, try searching up some posts on transitioning into a kiss-close. In any case, kissing should only be a matter of a few inches. Don't believe that surprise kisses bull. Just do it when it feels right.

Cliche moments are the ones you should use to your advantage! In the car, at the door, etc.

-Damian
 

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Here is what I have used to kiss every girl I have taken on a date recently.

You gotta do the obvious stuff, lots of kino, eye contact, smiling, really listening to her, connecting with her. Once you have done the above, you change phase and go for the kill.

This is what I do and it hasnt failed me yet:

me: hey! what perfume are you wearing? oh actually dont tell me let me guess...

Then lean in, move her hair aside with a gently brush of your hand against her neck. move your hand to the back of her neck, and as your nose gets within half an inch of her neck, grab her hair from behind. Almost like you are massaging the back of her neck. This will REALLY get her heart rate going.

Then lean back as if you are not at all affected by what just happened and the only reason you did that was to smell her.

me: mmmm not sure. is it x? y? z?

I've done this so many times that I pretty much always guess right now! they love this!

me: smell me! lets see if you can guess mine.

she leans in, smells you. this will turn her on even more.

me: hey, you know, your prefume actually tastes amazing too, have you ever tasted it?

her: ha ha ha ha ha

so i lean over again, and this time i dont even bother to wait for her to give me concent. by this time, she wants more!

this time i do exactly the same thing as before, but instead of just smelling her, i give her a very soft and gentle kiss on her neck with just the right amount of toungue.

95% of the time, you just work your way up to her lips.

The best part is when you feel them get goos-bumps as you kiss their neck!

This is my ultimate kiss close routine. It hasnt failed me yet!
 

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Fash I will defianetely give that one a shot as I like to collect cologne and kino. I will let you know how it turns out when I do,do it.
 

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Kiss the girl when you start getting a hard-on.

If that doesn't work. Kiss the girl when you think your boner should be coming out. :)
 

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wheelin&dealin said:
kino throughout the date, then kiss at the end. It works everytime.
Tried and tested here too.

Leaving it till the end of the date is good in my experience, because it means you can relax and enjoy the date without stressing about the right time to make a move. You can also decide whether to kiss her based on how well the date went and how she responded to you. If she responds well to you touching her, she's probably going to respond well to you kissing her.

Just remember, girls who want to be kissed will make it easy for you. If she rushes to say goodbye at the end of the date and keeps her distance, forget it. If she lingers around, looks at you and stands her ground when you go near her, then go for it!
 

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good advice fellas, thanks, i like the cologne one- i just gotta work on this stuff cause sometimes i make this sh@t awkward
 
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