LJC
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You're sitting on your couch in your sweats watching TV, bored to tears and starting to doze off, when suddenly your door flings open and a thick, mysterious fog pours into the room. As the smoke begins to clear you see a silhouette of a sexy woman with all the right curves. Upon further observation you notice it's >Enter your Favorite Super Model Here< dressed in a tight, skimpy, leapord skin bikini with a machine gun in hand. She snarls at you and says, "Take Me Now! Make Me Yours! Be Rough!".
Of course, we all know this is just a dream. Or is it? A fantasy like this is a prime example of the primitive male attraction decision process. It's simple and straight cut. No BS. No games. You know within milliseconds if you want to bang her or not. Although the primitve female attraction process is slightly different, it is just as decisive as a man's, and it works just as equally and just as efficiently from first impressions. And no, you don't need a fog machine and a leapord skin speedo.
Right from the moment of eye contact a woman will begin to go through her primal checklist of attraction. But unlike men, women tend to grade on the package deal. They hone in on various things from a man's status in the pecking order of men to his natural scent, and it's all done within minutes or even seconds of that first encounter. Remember, we're talking about primitive attraction here. You may require more than good looks from a woman, but trust me, your limbido doesn't give a sh-t. Her inner-slut, on the other hand, certainly takes manliness and confidence in full consideration.
A great deal of the attraction process plays out physically like this, and in most cases sexual decisions are being made before the formal introduction ever comes about. You know this is true for yourself. It is true for her as well. The only difference is that she needs more time to know for sure. But this doesn't mean she wont act on her initial assessments of you. She most definately will. She just might change her mind a few dates down the road if you f-ck things up, that's all. But the point here is that if she is showing high interest and you walk away with a phone number, she is telling you one thing and one thing only: "I am willing to f-ck you". If that doesn't come to happen, you screwed up somewhere. You might have approaced her at the improper time despite being able to get her number anyway. Or maybe you didn't step up the game when she gave a few small signals. But whatever the reason, the very moment those digits are oozing from her, she is telling you she is most certainly open to hooking up. Of course, she is not likely to admit it, but that's the way it is regardless. End of story. You now know.
How do you get to this revealing moment? Although all of these qualities are something you should be at least remotely familiar with by now, it is important that you display a high status in all of these accessments and convey them as a package-deal right from the get go. All of these things are used in her primitive decision process within a very short span of time beginning with that initial eye contact and they can do it almost as fast as a man decides he likes those double-D melons and that tight little caboose.
1) How you react is immediately taken into the package consideration. Any hesitation in maintaining eye contact, any hesitation in approaching her and speaking first is a sign of lower male status and a lack of confidence. Acting indifferent to her presence is NOT confidence in a woman's eyes, even if you think it makes you super cool and in control. So if she catches you looking, go all in.
2) Yes, women count looks too, but not as much as men do. So dress well, stay clean, smell good, look healthy, ect. ect. You know the deal here.
3) Posture and movements. Men with confidence and strong persona move slower and more surely. They look ahead, not down. They stand taller and do not slump. This doesn't mean you should walk with your chest puffed out like Mighty Mouse, just show confidence in your body and not just in your personality.
4) Actual rapport. This is the hardest part for many men, but the reality is that she is already well underway to putting you into the sex or no sex catagory before you even utter that first word. If you have any physical competance to achieve the first 3 points, you're more than 80% of the way there already. You just have to use some words to close the deal. That's all you're really doing! Closing the deal!
Rapport is not what makes a woman want to rip your clothes off. It is simply a tool that she uses to confirm or dispell all of her initial physical assessments of you. If your words are as confident as your approach, sound as good as you look and feel as cool as you move, then you have achieved the goal of reaffirming her beliefs and off to the races you go! So before you start to stress over what to say, realize there are three major points you must convey regardless. You must sound confident, your tone of voice is important and the style of your delivery will matter. If you can nail these, almost anything you say within reason will fly. Just like a confident personality can make up for average looks, great delivery in rapport can make up for average content. These are the exact qualities that make certain movie lines memorable while others are easily forgotten, regardless of how intelligent they may or may not be. Eveyone knows who said, "I'll be back", and yet it's the most simplistic and least intelligent line in the whole movie.
Of course, we all know this is just a dream. Or is it? A fantasy like this is a prime example of the primitive male attraction decision process. It's simple and straight cut. No BS. No games. You know within milliseconds if you want to bang her or not. Although the primitve female attraction process is slightly different, it is just as decisive as a man's, and it works just as equally and just as efficiently from first impressions. And no, you don't need a fog machine and a leapord skin speedo.
Right from the moment of eye contact a woman will begin to go through her primal checklist of attraction. But unlike men, women tend to grade on the package deal. They hone in on various things from a man's status in the pecking order of men to his natural scent, and it's all done within minutes or even seconds of that first encounter. Remember, we're talking about primitive attraction here. You may require more than good looks from a woman, but trust me, your limbido doesn't give a sh-t. Her inner-slut, on the other hand, certainly takes manliness and confidence in full consideration.
A great deal of the attraction process plays out physically like this, and in most cases sexual decisions are being made before the formal introduction ever comes about. You know this is true for yourself. It is true for her as well. The only difference is that she needs more time to know for sure. But this doesn't mean she wont act on her initial assessments of you. She most definately will. She just might change her mind a few dates down the road if you f-ck things up, that's all. But the point here is that if she is showing high interest and you walk away with a phone number, she is telling you one thing and one thing only: "I am willing to f-ck you". If that doesn't come to happen, you screwed up somewhere. You might have approaced her at the improper time despite being able to get her number anyway. Or maybe you didn't step up the game when she gave a few small signals. But whatever the reason, the very moment those digits are oozing from her, she is telling you she is most certainly open to hooking up. Of course, she is not likely to admit it, but that's the way it is regardless. End of story. You now know.
How do you get to this revealing moment? Although all of these qualities are something you should be at least remotely familiar with by now, it is important that you display a high status in all of these accessments and convey them as a package-deal right from the get go. All of these things are used in her primitive decision process within a very short span of time beginning with that initial eye contact and they can do it almost as fast as a man decides he likes those double-D melons and that tight little caboose.
1) How you react is immediately taken into the package consideration. Any hesitation in maintaining eye contact, any hesitation in approaching her and speaking first is a sign of lower male status and a lack of confidence. Acting indifferent to her presence is NOT confidence in a woman's eyes, even if you think it makes you super cool and in control. So if she catches you looking, go all in.
2) Yes, women count looks too, but not as much as men do. So dress well, stay clean, smell good, look healthy, ect. ect. You know the deal here.
3) Posture and movements. Men with confidence and strong persona move slower and more surely. They look ahead, not down. They stand taller and do not slump. This doesn't mean you should walk with your chest puffed out like Mighty Mouse, just show confidence in your body and not just in your personality.
4) Actual rapport. This is the hardest part for many men, but the reality is that she is already well underway to putting you into the sex or no sex catagory before you even utter that first word. If you have any physical competance to achieve the first 3 points, you're more than 80% of the way there already. You just have to use some words to close the deal. That's all you're really doing! Closing the deal!
Rapport is not what makes a woman want to rip your clothes off. It is simply a tool that she uses to confirm or dispell all of her initial physical assessments of you. If your words are as confident as your approach, sound as good as you look and feel as cool as you move, then you have achieved the goal of reaffirming her beliefs and off to the races you go! So before you start to stress over what to say, realize there are three major points you must convey regardless. You must sound confident, your tone of voice is important and the style of your delivery will matter. If you can nail these, almost anything you say within reason will fly. Just like a confident personality can make up for average looks, great delivery in rapport can make up for average content. These are the exact qualities that make certain movie lines memorable while others are easily forgotten, regardless of how intelligent they may or may not be. Eveyone knows who said, "I'll be back", and yet it's the most simplistic and least intelligent line in the whole movie.
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