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Easier to get laid while having gf

MightyMate

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The thing is i never had problems with woman. But the golden thing is if You already have gf, all others are mad interested in You and You dont have to chat much to get laid.
If You chat with new chick and say You are in LTR, its like You did a proper talk at star. You dont need to speak too much, everythng is already set. You will get laid easly.
All girl that You know, You chat with em about sex for fun, be little ****y, speak of Your woman, and simply say to come over. You are getting laid.
If You are with woman all other woman chase You. You dont have to do much.
Thats sad, but if You are already withsome one You are getting so high value that girls come to You to get laid [no for LTR, thats very important] very easly.
Thats how sluts and gold medal diggers come ou from them.
My advice for people is just to get in some LTR to get lots of girl to have sex with, or act like You are in one [not sue if You can act if You really aint there and girls cant see You].
I also know people who wear rings to show marriage, just to get laid by woman.
When woman see You are 'busy' they want to chck if they are stil lworrth somthing, and they know it cant be LTR, so they just want to have sex asap.
Try it. And enjoy.
 

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Small add to this post from my chat on private. I hope its gonna clear questions.
This stuff is way more complicated than it looks like.
If You are in LTR You are acting differently and You smell differently. Woman feel pheromons and other woman on You, and as they got *****y character.. They wantYou. If they hear You got girl then find You secure and tasted by other woman, so that they are sure if oths wanted You then they want to check You also.
****y and funny has ot be there always, but when You got girl, Your jokes are shirter, and ecah ****y funny thing for example about sex, sounds for those woman 100 time more attractive.
Little teasing also helps. Thing is, You have to do just 30% of what You usually did, because atm 70% is set up from start. Thats why its so easy.
Thing is, its harder to act like You got GF if You dont. O sometimes my advice would be to find GF even less sexy, just to be able to **** HB9s ;) Sounds crazy but who care if it does work?
 

Le Parisien

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Hey, good points MightyMate. I think you don't see many replies to your topic because this "phenomenon" you are describing is very well known, and ver well documented...:D

My take on the topic:
If You are in LTR You are acting differently and You smell differently. Woman feel pheromons and other woman on You, and as they got *****y character..
****y and funny has ot be there always, but when You got girl, Your jokes are shirter, and ecah ****y funny thing for example about sex, sounds for those woman 100 time more attractive.
All this is true, but it's NOT (in my sense) the most important part.

The most important factor is that all these women are suddenly "open" too you, since you are not a "threat" anymore: you are already with someone, their guards are down. So subconsciously they let your charm (assuming you are a genuinely a guy who has a lots of things to offer) get to them without any resistance.

Another aspect is that when you are with your girlfriend, you got to see all her girl friends on a pretty regular basis. In other words, you meet a lot of women without even working for it, and moreover without looking desperate or "threatening" or "sleazy" because you are not actively looking for it. That IS attractive.

Third point, if your girlfriend is someone hot, mots likely most of fer friends will not be like warpigs.

So, hot women that you meet on a regularly basis who naturally let you charm them and who think you are NOT sleazy and NOT desparate.
As long as you are a decent guy, I don't see what's so difficult compared to a more typical situation where a single guy has to approach without looking sleazy, demonstarte value, bring down the b1ich-shield and so on and so forth...
:)

That's also why most "intelligent" (selfish) guys also do monkey-branching, because they don't want to break the "virtuous cycle". When suddenly you officially become single, many things change.

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In a more general way, this thing is pretty common in our daily life.

Haven't wondered why those who already have a good job always keep getting great (better) job offers while those who are unemployed for sometime have a lots of trouble just to get a decent job?

By night, the more a restaurent seems to be packed, the more people want to come in. The more a restaurent looks empty, the more people are reluctant to eat there. "The place must be horrible since no one is here...". Samething goes for a nightclub/bar...

In my humble opinion, in this society, the more you have, the more you will have (money, women etc..). Sure there are exceptions, but as the French would put it: they are just the exceptions that confirm the rule... :D

Hope my input makes sense.:)
 

MightyMate

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Yeah good points.
I dont find many replies on posts here because seems that smart peopl oly read and sometimes add something and all other AFCs talk some bollox or just writte lame replies. I think stuff that You said is very usefull and kinda 'completes' my post.
Happy 2006!
 

Tear Gas

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Very good points but the grammar/syntax was hard to follow.

Anyways, its always good to be sorrounded by women (even if you don't like them sexually). Other women will see and think you are a safe person since girls already like you and like being around you. You only learn from experience.
 
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