Ban Me!!!

Ban me!!


The truth is, even tho I read the things on this forum from front to back, and back to front, im still stuck. I just don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. I understand the principles and all, and some of the articles from bible I have almost memorized. But I just lack the practice and experience. And I can’t stand it. For the last four years I had so much responsibility (taking care of my family, school, full time work…) that I forgot how to have a social life and how to relax and enjoye life. Don’t get me wrong, I am a man with my own carrier, house (at 22), car and ambitions (unfortionatly I can’t afford hobbies). I get lots of respect from people I meet, and I don’t get those “what a geek” looks from people I pass on the street. There was even 3-4 times where absolute hotties would come up to me to talk to me. Hasn’t happened lately, but it has happened 3 or four times in my life. But the thing is, I don’t know what is wrong with me; I JUST DON’T KNOW HOW TO GET, AND KEEP A SOCIAL LIFE. No metter haw much I try, I stil have no friends. I still see 2 people from highschool now and then, but they have their lives, and gurls and im not invited or involved in any of it.….. Social life is everything. Going to clubs alone is stupid. Not knowing where the parties are, not being introduced to their “female friends”……I’m missing it all. It’s like highschool all over again.

The only way I can get some female wormth is if I pay $100 to a street ***** for that 30 seconds of plessure. It’s destroying my life.

So I decided I’m selling my soul. I’m gona be another one of those grumpy old men who at 40 years old still live with their mother; men who spend their entire lives with “their nose to the grind stone”. It’s making me revenge-full. It’s like life isn’t real anymore, I’m walking like a zombie.

BAN ME FROM THIS SITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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get a grip man.

You're in the same boat as quite a few people on this forum. Myself included. This phase will pass and the only it will pass is by YOU doing something about it and not whining like a lost little sissy girl.

Pick yourself up soldier. You've got 8 years until you're 30.
Make the most of em.

Originally posted by MidnightResistance
You've got 8 years until you're 30.

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I already waisted the best once 15-20. I didn't mean to bring people down.

The truth is, no mether haw friendly I am with people and haw much I joke around with them I never end up being one of their friends. None of them remember me on a friday night. And there is notting I can do about it. If I was giving my self advice, I'd say; "oh well, move on, and do what you can in life, fvck the rest" And that's exacly what I plan on doing.

Originally posted by spider_007
The truth is, no mether haw friendly I am with people and haw much I joke around with them I never end up being one of their friends. None of them remember me on a friday night. And there is notting I can do about it.

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Man up and call them and invite them to the bar on friday night. Making friends takes time, lots of time, not everyone is going to like hanging out or remember to call you to join their social circle everyweek. You can call them and offer ideas or see whats going on and maybe get an invite. Its gonna take a little bit to become part of their circle. Be cool and never b.tch when you find out they did something cool without you, and dont rely on them to be your entire life at first, eventually youll get invited to more and more events. I just spent almost a year rebuilding my social life and I still have more work to do.

If I sit on my arse and wait for the phone to ring, it won't.

I have to call my friends up. I have to motivate them to go out and have a good time.

Welcome to the boat. The boat only moves if you pick up a paddle and row.

Originally posted by MidnightResistance
You've got 8 years until you're 30.
Make the most of em.

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Yeah...but man, 17-21 are supposed to be the "money years"

22-30 sucks...you're likely out of college, stuck working 5-6 days a week, and getting into the age range of women who want to settle down.

I'm with Spider...I wasted the best years of my life by being an idiot with no confidence and no game, and I think I'm honestly going to regret it for the rest of my life.

"making the best of things" pales in comparison to living the prime.

Saved this in my favourites as motivation why I need to go sargin' this weekend.

You sound depressed. Cheer up.

ive tried to get them to ban me....it wont work....if you really really want to get banned start insulting everyone kinda like PRL did.

Spider, dude! You're being a royal a-hole in this thread. You're whining like a fat girl who only gets love from her chocolate bars!! Lose the negative attitude, there's your first problem.

First of all you live in windsor, which is the home to some of the hottest chicks i've ever seen in a bar or club. And I've partied in a lot of different cities.

Second, people don't invite you places because your reputation has you as you describe yourself - busy, responsible, no money for hobbies. Nowhere do you say anything about having a good time. Be a fvcking leader man! Be the catalyst for having fun. Ever notice how each little social group always has one or a few people at it's core? People don't call you cause when they think "hey let's go do something fun" it doesn't even occur to them that you would like to be invited. It's not a snub or anything.

This thread got me fired up. Who cares if you didn't get women early on in life? Most of the people on this site didn't and that's why they're here. You'll be way better off having learned early on how to be responsible with your life, but guess what? If you want to not be the grumpy old fart who hates life and jerks off in front of the computer every night, it's now your new RESPONSIBILITY to change things around, one day at a time. Each day, eliminate as many barriers as you can to being where you want to be in life, whether they are physical, mental, or financial.

You're in control of what happens to you! Understand this and make the necessary changes. Man up. Take action. And most importantly please stop vaginating all over this board with threads like this! I guarantee there is not a single aspiring or master don on this board who found this post productive or enlightening.

we're a bunch of sad DJs

dont be a quiter. you will get your time to shine

spider whatsa madder?
you never sounded like this before...

you are 22!

Hey if you ask me, BUY THE FAWKIN HOOKER. If you have seriously read everything and even tried the boot camp, fukc yourself a real woman to get some confidence.

Get your lazy, whiney arse to the GYM, go to the tanning bed EVERY DAY, and for God sake don't sell your soul if that's what you think buying hookers is doing, start LOW with a fat chick or somethin and work your way up.

Life doesn't give in for slackers and quitters.

I'm a good catch but I'm far from a Brad Pitt or Ricky Martin, and I was with over 50 girls before I turned 19, all descently attractive (no beasts). "YOU CAN DO IT!" Btw, I look forward to being 22- that way I'll have easy game with 18-22 year old girls, cause right now at 19 it's hard as fawk to get older broads unless they're.... well OLD.

As for your friends, it's a fact of life that most friends are going to be fake because they like something you do to make their life better, whether have girls around you or know of parties- whatever.

Start becoming desirable and maybe you'll find true friends- I personally only have like one or maybe two.

Think about it! .... and go to college dag nabbit!

If you are unhappy, change.

it is pointless to worry about the past. if you are unhappy about what you did, act differently in the future. Learn from it and move on. We all make mistakes.

For sure dawgs. Just remember to keep it real in the hizzle.

Originally posted by Sexual
I'm a good catch but I'm far from a Brad Pitt or Ricky Martin

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Did you really just say Ricky Martin?

Whats up with you suckers saying youve lost the best times of your life. 20-30 ARE the best times of your life. I cant wait to get into the 20s and start getting all those older sluts.

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Did you really just say Ricky Martin?

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My buddy from Venezuela says he's their Brad Pitt. I don't know about you but if I have pu$$y crying because they wanna fawk me so bad, I'm a bit more pimp then some wise cracking website moderator.

Originally posted by Sexual
My buddy from Venezuela says he's their Brad Pitt. I don't know about you but if I have pu$$y crying because they wanna fawk me so bad, I'm a bit more pimp then some wise cracking website moderator.

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You're awful hostile for someone who wishes he could be more like Ricky Martin.