Opening Young Girls on MySpace.....

Hey guys,

I'm looking for a few good openers for 18-22 y/o girls on myspace.com.

I have one that's working pretty consistently (I'll post it soon once it stops working for me) but it's not the best for every situation.

Also, a lot of the girls I do open will chat for a while (probably bored) but then they drop off. C&F seems to work on the 22+ girlies, but 18+ doesn't always respond to it as strongly. Any help here would be great.

For some background, I'm 33. My main pic is me on my Suzuki GSX-R in a motorcycle jacket. The pic got me 9.4 on hotornot so I'm at least a HOT creepy old guy LOL

gixx

I dont really think that you can have generic openers with online dating

sure you can have you standard lines that you use but as openers ?

always go with what they have in their profile and work with that

they get perhaps 100+ mails with pretty much the same lame openers / pick up lines

/ scordate

I actually find that picking someting in their profile is too generic. Plus, on myspace it's more of a casual feel rather than a dating feel so a guy my age has to really snag them on the first email and make them think I'm pretty cool and just playing around or being generally ****y.

If you roll up on the 18-22s like you want a date you get blown out. I find I need to make them think I'm a cool guy that's just playing with them so THEY start to want the date or a ride on my bike. And that's the whole frame for the older guy anyway - she's supposed to really want him and he's kind of laid back and not sure he should "waste" time on a girl with so little experience.....

What I've been using - after a lot of experimenting - is this:

Drop me an email - I have a question for ya....

That gets a reply back about 80% of the time or more. Then I scan through their profile and come up with a ****y and funny question.

gixx

GIXX: I have to shamefully admit a fascination with the MySpace.com thing. I think it was ERICLIVE or A-UNIT that turned me on to it. I don't have a profile on MySpace, but I find its an interesting experiment in self-representation and interactions in relative annonymity.

Question though, do you actually advetise your true age in your profile? And do the pictures you post of yourself accurately represent you in real life? Also, what's your success rate with the girls you do meet on MySpace?

Hey Rollo,

I have a shameful facination with MySpace.com and an even more shameful facination with very young girls LOL ERICLIVE got me started on there from his thread and I've been rolling on there ever since.

I've talked to probably 20-25 girls on there between the ages of 18 and 22 in just the past few days. A few were 15 and 16 but had their display age as 18. BE CAREFUL!

Yes, I put up my true age. Probably hurt myself a bit, but I just have an issue with lying about age. I've debated putting 28 just to get myself under 30, but I think the communication matters more than the numerical age if you can get the girl lit up in the first email.

Pics are all very accurate of me in real life but chosen to appeal to the "intended audience" ie the young hotties that I like. 2 of me on my bike (motorcycle - crotch rocket) 1 of just the bike, 1 of me with no shirt (I'm in really good shape) a few with my dog and a few of my truck and the stereo system. Tried to make it very true and non-dating. Just me being me.

On that note I'm starting to see that the really cool girls on there just have a page up and mess around with it and communicate with friends through it. I think the frame needs to be really fun and "hanging out" with friends rather than "dating" I try to open girls really casually or ****y funny not as a guy looking for a date.

Last, I don't have a success rate yet. I've only been on there about a week and haven't pulled anyone from there yet. I've gotten a lot of mail so far though, so it's just a matter of time before I start pulling girls from there.

gixx

I've hooked up (banged) 3 different girls since I started myspace a year ago.

1 - 18yo - banged 1st nite and that turned into 3month relationship
2 - 22yo - banged 1st nite
3 - 18yo - current f-buddy

I've posted how I did it for each one. I think that if a younger girl likes your pic, she'll bang ya. I asked the younger (18-22yos) girls to meet me out at a mall, movie theater, whereever they usually hang out. I don't call it a date.. just say meet me.

One thing: Don't talk about the good-old days or when you were in high school, or anything past related. Stay in present day and be friendly to the younger ones. Most younger girls not down with an older guy pulling the whole ****y-funny thing. Just make em smile and be friendly. It works well for me.

Once, you've met them and things are jivin' - Get em back to your place as quickly as you can( :woo: ) and close that deal! :cheer:

Otherwise, she'll prolly be like, "" - Why doesn't this guy bang me tonight!

Just don't be all, ":flowers:" - be friendly with no expectations but advance forward during the meeting like you're gonna be gettin some. Assume that deal, biotch!

Coolio?
:rockon:

Eric,

How fast do you try to get them out? Like how many emails do you trade back and fourth before you say meet me?

Do you go phone first or just get them out?

Thanks,

gixx

I email them when they are online. I don't like to email them when they're not on.

I shoot her an email, she replies, if she's asking questions it's good, if she's responding with one word replies, then I bail.

I send about 4-5 back and fourth. If I can tell that she's really digging me, then I email her my number. Sometimes she'll call immediately, sometimes she'll send me her phone number and I'll call her right then.

If she doesn't reply immediately after she reads the email, I move on to the next girl. (you can tell if she's read the email)

Getting her on the phone is key. Once I talk with them on the phone, I'll see how we click. I'll determine the best time to meet them - every girl is different. If some girls starts talking bout movies, I'll have her see a movie with me at my house or at a theater. If she's talking about partying, I'll get her partying somewhere and take her back to my place. etc

That helps a lot, man. Thanks

I think the most interesting aspect of MySpace is seeing what it is that each sex reacts to. One constant is guys with washboard abs have a much higher response rate and the girls look to be much more attractive in their bios for those that do respond. Image is key, that's why I wondered about the real world accuracy of your personal photos. Also, ERIC, have the 3 girls you hooked up with been what you expected from their photos/conversations when you met up? It's hard to imagine a lot of the model quality women on MySpace as actually being so or even meeting up with an annonymous guy out of convenience.

I have a pic of my chest/abs on my myspace page.


The girls faces were all pretty much what they had on their myspace. The two variants are hairstyle and the booty. The first one was a cute lil Latina who had a thicker booty than I'm used to, but it was nice.

The second girl was a natural blonde with 34d chest. Her boobs were not noticable in her profile, so that was a nice surprise.

Third girl was an exact match with her pic. Good stuff.

However, I have been unpleasantly surprised after meeting some girls from a Yahoo! chat room. This is EVEN after seeing the girls on their webcam!

Keep in mind I bang anything female

dude post some pictures of these broads, and if you want to, post a link to your myspace profile.

I'd like to check it out?

Quick tip. I like to keep my "friends" list trimmed down to only broads that I have talked with and gotten positive vibes about.

The ones that don't respond, or the ones with 500 friends aren't going to be interested in you.

I delete about 4-5 people per day from my friends, and I keep it at around 70.

Its funny because I've probably met 20 of my 70 girls in my friends, and i've banged two super cute ones, and one average looking one.

Here's another tip, the ones that add YOU to their friends list, or the ones that contact YOU first, are super easy to get in bed. Its the others that you have to convice that you aren't an idiot.

Check out this email I got just last night, just out of the blue, from this 8.5 redhead.

hey (my name) you seem like a sweet guy. id like to get to know you if its ok with you. my sn is (her sn)

I took one look at this girls pictures, she is smoking hot, probably the hottest girl I have talked to positively with on there.

They key is to get them on the phone and do something right away. Otherwise you become their internet boyfriend which is super lame, and you don't get laid being an internet boyfriend.

I love these myspace threads, i'm addicted to this.

Originally posted by JH6
dude post some pictures of these broads, and if you want to, Quick tip. I like to keep my "friends" list trimmed down to only broads that I have talked with and gotten positive vibes about.

The ones that don't respond, or the ones with 500 friends aren't going to be interested in you.

Here's another tip, the ones that add YOU to their friends list, or the ones that contact YOU first, are super easy to get in bed.

They key is to get them on the phone and do something right away.

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True :cheer:

As far as posting my profile - I got burned the first time by some hater who emailed a few girls on my friends list about me and sosuave.com, so I don't give it out. :nono:

Originally posted by JH6
Here's another tip, the ones that add YOU to their friends list, or the ones that contact YOU first, are super easy to get in bed. Its the others that you have to convice that you aren't an idiot.

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This was going to be my next question - how many women hit you up on average? I would think that networking like this would get your abs shot to a braod range of women in a short time once a few started glossing you on their pages. What's the unsolicited response rate like? The stupid question would of course be whether or not the girl is interested, but have you hooked up with a woman who's hit you up yet?

I only had one girl email me first who was really interested - she was easy. I took her to the movie, 'Saw' and then right back to my house.

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
True :cheer:

As far as posting my profile - I got burned the first time by some hater who emailed a few girls on my friends list about me and sosuave.com, so I don't give it out. :nono:

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That sucks bud, sorry to hear that.

Keep up the good posts, i enjoy reading them.

I think whoever emailed your girls broke the code of men.

I will definitely have to get involved in this as one of my many strategies.

Right now I'm using one free online dating service and talking to one girl.

Good advice guys...I just started myspace it's fun.

What are your experiences with the girls who say they want something serious or say they don't want a quick lay?

And, what about the chicks with 300+ friends?

don't waste my time on those?? that's what i was assuming.

Well I just tried your opener gixxer and got this as my first reply:

"um.......well okay what is your question?"

not too promising....and the next reply:

" what would that question be??? "

That's good, bro! You're getting replies. Those girls you wrote to probably respond to about 1 in 100 emails from guys they don't know.

Now look at their profile and ask them a ****y funny question. Look at there picks and bust on them about something. This one girl had a goofy hat on in one of her pics and was obviously drunk off her a$$ when it was taken. So my question was: "what was up with that druken dumb hat pic."

You can quickly go through their blog too. Some have some funny a$$ $hit in there that you can ask them about.

I got blown out on my first few tries but I'm rolling pretty good now......

Keep going and pull a question from something in their profile to get them talking then go into something else once they get rolling....

gixx