Regarding coworkers, the wisest thing is to avoid them because they only spell trouble. This statement is best illustrated by the quote: "Don't Dip Your Pen Into The Company's Ink". Is it something taken for granted by an esoteric few or everyone knows better not to get oneself into these kinds of relationships. Contemplating about the possibility of dating a coworker I would find it horrendous: Imagine her presence taking a considerable fraction of your time and the ugly situations that will result when things go sour. Worst of all, it has a negative impact on your productivity and might lead you to get booted out of the business. Where I work, the hotties range from HB6s to HB8s and not beyond. Nevertheless, I would consider the cream of the crop worth shagging out. Now mind out after stating all the above I have no intention of making any move. Strangely enough, I would be satisfied to know that I am able to pick up these chicks. I would like to frame myself to be the guy they find too hot to be true while I reject them at the same time because I hold on to the wisdom of not mingling with coworkers. A lot of you might think I am talkin bullsh!t and that I would be easily lured into a relationship if she gave me any IOI. Honestly, I don't know what I would do if I became this person that I wish I was. How come it matter so much for me is beyond my senses. Anyways, are there any others out there that feel just like me; that they just want to be assured that they can pull any chick they work with and intentionally don't do anything about it.
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cave dweller
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meat........
Hey,
Two things:
1..'Don't put your meat where you get your bread.'
2...The way to play it is:....You become friends with a couple of them and they will introduce you to some of their hot single girlfriends.
cave dweller
Hey,
Two things:
1..'Don't put your meat where you get your bread.'
2...The way to play it is:....You become friends with a couple of them and they will introduce you to some of their hot single girlfriends.
cave dweller
DJHoolahoop
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well i think it could work if you're working for a big company. like what's a few girls out of 4-500 that work there.. not much especially if it's a bigger place.. but if it's in a place like where i work, where it's like 5-10 regular people, well then yeah it's harder.
problem, is that i see lots of girls at my work i wanna get to hang out with and possibly bang, but i always stay away cuz i don't want shyt happening while i'm there.
problem, is that i see lots of girls at my work i wanna get to hang out with and possibly bang, but i always stay away cuz i don't want shyt happening while i'm there.
Office dating
You have to realize that your important relationship is with your steady paycheck.
Your steady paycheck relationship keeps food in your tummy, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and your Porsche in the garage. If you get involved with a coworker it's a big risk and if it doesn't work out, things may not go back to where they were before you dated. One or both of the two involved could to be disgruntled which can lead to an office environment of unrest and you very likely
breaking that relationship with your steady paycheck. Although you may be able to find other employment, its still a major hassle or worse that never had to be. Expectations grow when you're with someone you now know sexually weather you work with them or not. Since this is natural, you want to strive to keep mystery and wanting in the relationship. Giving space between one another feeds this fire because working for other companies at other locations makes you wonder what the other is up to and paints a mental picture of looking forward to seeing on another. How can you create this tension when you see each other all the time (home and work) and have the power to always keep tabs on what the other is doing. One could see the other doing something and get jealous over nothing or all your personal buiseness could leak out all over the office. So find a good hobby, get involved in your community and you'll definatly end up meeting someone while "not sh*tting where you eat.
You have to realize that your important relationship is with your steady paycheck.
Your steady paycheck relationship keeps food in your tummy, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and your Porsche in the garage. If you get involved with a coworker it's a big risk and if it doesn't work out, things may not go back to where they were before you dated. One or both of the two involved could to be disgruntled which can lead to an office environment of unrest and you very likely
breaking that relationship with your steady paycheck. Although you may be able to find other employment, its still a major hassle or worse that never had to be. Expectations grow when you're with someone you now know sexually weather you work with them or not. Since this is natural, you want to strive to keep mystery and wanting in the relationship. Giving space between one another feeds this fire because working for other companies at other locations makes you wonder what the other is up to and paints a mental picture of looking forward to seeing on another. How can you create this tension when you see each other all the time (home and work) and have the power to always keep tabs on what the other is doing. One could see the other doing something and get jealous over nothing or all your personal buiseness could leak out all over the office. So find a good hobby, get involved in your community and you'll definatly end up meeting someone while "not sh*tting where you eat.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Re: meat........
I agree. Its cool to be friends with them and hangout.
