Why Women Love Badboys

http://channels.netscape.com/ns/love/flashgames.jsp?game=goodgirls

Check it out. Found it on Netscape News Section. The points are as follows:

-They make us feel incredible when they do pay attention to us. The little things matter so much more.

-They love their lives and aren't bound by the rules of society. We want to let loose with them.

-They have a lot of energy. And we can't wait to see just how they plan to use it!

-They are always a challenge. Who can resist a challenge?

-They keep us on our toes and make us less selfish. They won't put up with it!

-They are our little "projects" to nurture and change, but if they do, we eventually dump them for another bad boy!

-They have devilishly playful personalities and a twinkle in their eyes. We never knwo what they're really thinking.

-They add spice to our good-girl lives. They make us feel wild and sexy!

-They excite us because they are so different from us. They're the guys our parents warned us about.

-They put passion into our sometimes boring, structured lifestyle. We can't resist their appeal.

-They are the object of our desires and fantasies.

-They aren't afraid to argue with us, and they usually win. We know they won't come crawling back.

-They represent rebellion, excitement and steamy sex all at once. We're under their spell.

-They are a predator on the prowl. Hungry, unpredictable and a little bit dangerous.

-They make us feel sexy merely by the fact they want us. You've got to be hot to catch a bad boy!

-They have mastered that sly come-hither stare. We're coming! We're coming!

-They can sweep us off our feet before we even knwo what hit us. We love that rush!

-They are irresistable because they know they're hot!

-They don't ever plan too far in the future. You take what you can get.

-They know what they want... and they usually get what they want.

-With them, there's no such thing as a dull moment! You never know what they'll do next.

-They don't feel tied down to any one women, and we love the challenge.

-They don't always have a plan like most good boys do.

-They're not afraid to break out the dating nroms. Actually, most dates are just hooking up.

-The word 'insecurity' is not in their vocabulary. They don't care what others think.

-They don't make a big deal out of small events (one-week anniversaries). You're thrilled when they remember even bug events.

-They are usually strong-willed and sexually aggressive. Need we say more?

-They make us feel safe because they're not intimidated by anyone else.

-They usually can't be negotiated with, but when you get your way, it's way exciting!

-Not often, but sometimes, they show their sensitive, needy side.

-They take charge in all the right ways whether we admit we like it or not!

-They live life on their own terms!

-They flirt with other women. It drives us crazy and makes us want them more.

-They can't be tested.

-They are the right mix of mysterious and elusive. We never feel smothered but sort of wish we could.

DAMNIT THERES A LOT OF THEM.... I give up. read the rest yourself haha.

Discussion....

people actually still use netscape?!

Originally posted by Baruch
people actually still use netscape?!

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Yea

All of these points are positive traits that a DJ should have.

These points are what women REALLY want. Women say they want the nice guy but they really want a badboy.

Most of these points put the guy in the seat of power in the relationship.

well...

since there are so many of these reasons why good girls attracted to bad boys, can anyone tell me why do their relationships don't last very long?

Yeah, alot of those traits that are mentioned are those that typical players have ..

I disagree with the article, I think it is also a good idea for even Good guys to adopt a similar mindset, but with everybodies interest in mind and not just their own selfish desires.

Re: well...

Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
since there are so many of these reasons why good girls attracted to bad boys, can anyone tell me why do their relationships don't last very long?

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Because you can't have a relationship with someone who is selfish like that.

Originally posted by 00Kevin
All of these points are positive traits that a DJ should have.

These points are what women REALLY want. Women say they want the nice guy but they really want a badboy.

Most of these points put the guy in the seat of power in the relationship.

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You are absolutly right, a DJ should have these traits, but in a good way and not a bad one.

What women really want are Good men with these traits ... Men who will stick up for those weaker than them and not take advantage of people just for the heck of it.

Well that long womanse list of suppose qualities of "bad boys" was about useless really. I simplify it all by saying girls like to screw the guy that is a challenge and has other girls on the hook. It's more about challenge and competition than all those qualities attributed to a "bad boy".

Originally posted by rgeere
No, what they want are Good men with these traits ... Men who will stick up for those weaker than them and not take advantage of people just for the heck of it.

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I agree with this. I just wasn't clear enough.

Originally posted by 00Kevin
I agree with this. I just wasn't clear enough.

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Yeah, I realized that later when I thought about it.

Thank god this is true.

Be careful young minds, lest you lead others astray - The title should read "Why 'HORS' love badboys!!!! Badboys are fun as long as there are no responsibilities involved - the "good" women are gone once accountability comes into play.

The "badboys" grow-up and become the drunkards, the drug addicts, the thieves, the murderers and all those who are disdainable in a normal functioning society - where is the love and want then??? GONE - like the buffalo - slaughtered and put to the wayside after the use of their outer flesh have been exhausted!!!

Actually, PL said something very constructive this time around, and I agree with the angle he is coming from.

You can still be a good man and have those traits ... it's hard, but worth it.

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Be careful young minds, lest you lead others astray - The title should read "Why 'HORS' love badboys!!!! Badboys are fun as long as there are no responsibilities involved - the "good" women are gone once accountability comes into play.

The "badboys" grow-up and become the drunkards, the drug addicts, the thieves, the murderers and all those who are disdainable in a normal functioning society - where is the love and want then??? GONE - like the buffalo - slaughtered and put to the wayside after the use of their outer flesh have been exhausted!!!

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I agree PRL; women who like guys like that are insecure hors. They say they like guys like that, then bytch about how they were so mistreated. Nice little con game the bytches got going.

the badboy list is simply describing a man who is strong, confident, in control, and powerfull in his own way.


That is what women admire about men and find attractive.

He is bad for her but what other choice does she have? the AFC nice guy? The Metrosexual who acts like one of her girl friends?

until she meets the DJ she has no other option but to accept all the bad things about the bad boy. She can't have that powerfull man untill she deals with all the bad boy crap too.

Styles!

Nice thread... I guess I'll be caling myself a Don Juan/Bad Boy from now on


Laterz...

I still think being a Man is better than being a "Bad Boy." Most boys are supposed to grow up to be men anyway.

Still, I can't say most of those lines are false.

some poeople are easily mislead. . i know some dumb ass guy might take that to heart and act tough like a criminal , then when they are faced with jail they regret.
in other words what it should say is traits of a realman a man with balls.

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Hi,

I figure this will kill the thread a little. A nice boy cant act like a bad boy but be good inside....wont work.

I know this will afront some of you again, but if you are a nice boy and trying to ACT like a bad boy, you are fukced. Seriously, I know the truth is painful, but Don Juan wasnt a nice guy who ACTED naughty. Also, Playas aren't criminals or junkies or whatever other cliche you want to dream up. My life is a little playa_esque at the moment hahaha, and I am a shirt and tie dude.

When a dude says that only Hoes like this behaviour, or when a dude says "you should ACT that way, without actually BEing that way" YOU SHOW YOUR HAND. Seriously, you show your hand.

BUT, people have different agendas, as was shown in that thread about "groups" so maybe a trick or two or an act or two may get the buck toothed chubby girl all hot and hornyy, but not the chick you are after. You will fall into an AFC hole within a minute.

This site is really good for supporting fallen dudes, but "luke warm" advice like this may be a little immature. NO WAY you could "put this on" in front of a true DJ, yu would look like a fool.

Now, this usually causes either the end of the thread, or a flaming from someone. TRUTH! PEOPLE HATE TRUTH! Now watch some nerd give me the English dictionary on the meaning of truth.

Edit note: This is benevolent advice by the way. I have many deamons of my own and do not consider myself above anyone. I am trying to be straight and real. I have admitted that I turn all AFC when I come accross a lame duck for example.

I like the guys who say "Improve yourself", I also like the guys who speak about "inner game". I am actually getting heavily into the meditative side currently. Metaphysics, meditation and mantra...I know it sounds airy but its actually simpy working on your inner mind set. I have come a long way thanks to this. Some here would say I have become a bit of a pig, but others may understand that once you make these changes, you WILL attract haters. Even close friends will deny you three times before the rooster crows.

Seriously, work on BEing, create a state of BEing. BE whatever you desire, dont ACT it, BE it. If an average dude like me can swing with chicks as easily as I can now, I know many of you guys can. I am not full of BS on this issue. I have had more success with women in the last 6 months than during my whole life, it is astounding, and it was all bought about when the penny dropped one day. I literally felt a blooody penny drop, light bulb switched on and I thought...WOW, it IS that easy.

So, I know I irritate a lot of you guys because I dont water stuff down, but I think I am genuine in saying I really want to help. I am a bit taller than average, a bit smarter than average, a bit better looking than average, jack of all trades, master of none. I AM NOT A STAND OUT. My success (if you call it success/some wouldn't) was due to having my face slapped right HERE in this site. I just want to hopefully return the favour to someone else.

Okay, I wont be able to visit for a little bit, so good luck to ALL OF YOU.