Gonna go super deep psychology **** no one has ever heard about, who
hasn't studied it, so read carefully.
Ok we all know at some base level people are attracted to each other
based on their body, face, hair, build or their overall looks.
That's the simple first fact of it. Simple absolute truth.
In this game, in this community however, our goal is of course to use
that thing between her ears to get her attracted, regardless of having
ideal overall looks for her ideal.
What I will explain here is how to get her brain working in the proper
directions, so she will when be influenced in her choices about you.
When I studied everything from neurology to biological psychology to
physiological psychology, I always had an eye on that exact mechanism.
The "choice mechanism", what was it, how could I work in to it and
influence it?
I never imagined I would even have a debate with someone in my life who
did not work at it from this angle. Never imagined this because the use
of "changing someone's choices", for influence in any area, is of
course NEED ONE.
Any practitioner of influence who doesn't understand this and exactly
how it works has no hope of ever understanding their game fully.
So what is the first and foremost understanding one needs to have in
interpersonal influence?
Between a man and a woman?
Psychology 101 here so don't write it off, and if you are a woman,
unless you have attended a university and studied the **** don't tell
me I am wrong, out of ego:
Sex is an act of submission for a woman, to an overall dominance of her
being.
To be penetrated, to take in, to be filled up with someone else is an
act of submission. This is not to say women do not enjoy the act, they
in fact love it, but it is hard wired in the DNA of heterosexual women
that this submission is the ultimate in sexual pleasure.
If anyone knows their **** already and wants the "gattaca" dna
breakdown and consequence from the chemical reactions behind it on male
vs female neurons look it up yourself. Or if enough ask for it I will
draw it up and get it online.
Of course looks can come in to play and cause a biological attraction
to the guy which fosters this, but does not make it happen by itself.
We won't concern ourselves with that element of it however. Everyone
who knows anything knows to look their socially acceptable best for the
mating game already. Anyone who knows anything also knows good looking
guys **** up their attraction game just as bad if not worse than others
at times.
Without going in to all the exact science and filling up 30 pages, just
know that women take in, men put in. Not in some little kid fashion,
but hard wired in the resulting DNA from the x and y chromosones.
We cannot however just walk up and put our penis inside of her to
achieve this.
We need dominant behaviors to trigger this inside her mind that will
result in her feeling submissive.
First what is "dominant" to her "submissive" nature?
As you look at the below traits listed, think of how women possessing
them have a harder time with men in general, how they repulse us, or in
the guy with no game, even scare him away.
Quick list of traits:
Being masculine.
Being looked up to by others.
Being of more social intelligence than others.
Being able to let loose and not hold back/confidence in actions.
Having a stronger persona than her.
Having a more powerful positive state than her.
Lots more.
Now I don't want this to get TOO long so I will list some behavior and
situations you can get examples of that are these things:
Oldie but a goody, not supplicating. Instant ****ed up frame is
established when you kiss ass of course.
Having a conversation with her and she says she doesn't like something
you say you like, saying "well you don't know **** about it woman!"
tongue in cheek is dominant without being a ****. While on the other
hand saying "come to think of it yeah it is stupid" breaks frame.
Something I like to do at bars and clubs and parties is have a stronger
party vibe than everyone else. An "UP" state which inside of I will:
Walk up to a chick and put up my fists as if to fight and when she puts
hers up play fight super light with her until she turns her back to me
from me fake slapping at her.
I will literally walk up and pick up a chick. On my shoulder and carry
her away.
If a chick does the "ahhhh scream and run away" thing mid conversation
I will chase after her and grab her around the waist and pick her up.
If a chick busts my balls about something, maybe makes a joke at me, I
will put her in a light headlock.
If you are reading these saying "I ain't like that though that's what
other guys do with their girlfriends" you are dead on right. That's why
they are some other guys girlfriend, not yours.
Other things I will do is if in a deep conversation with a chick and
she is talking a lot and offering a lot more insight in to the topic, I
will change the subject to something *I* am more well versed in and not
act phased by her insights.
I frame women and other men as a student and me as the teacher in
conversations. I ain't a rude and interrupting guy, and I don't talk
down to people. But I also tell people how it is, I don't go "uhmmm
maybe you should think about getting rid of that car if you can". I say
"get rid a that car that sounds like a piece of ****"
Dedication to what you say. Not "approval hopefully for saying this" is
the key.
Old one here in this community but I don't look away first when eyes
lock with mine, chicks or guys. I make sure they look away first.
Another old one, I don't speak super fast, I come off like people
actually want to hear what I have to say and will wait. I naturally
talk fast so have to work at this one sometimes.
I see myself as masculine, a man, not a boy, and project that to
people.
I will tickle you, I will tickle her, someone tickles me I don't
giggle, they do.
I don't always feel the need to answer everything everyone says to me.
Someone says something trivial like "this is a cool song" that I just
put on the radio I don't go in to a novel about how I like it.
I pick up words. Phrases I like and words other people don't use, I use
em, and talk how I want to talk, I don't hold back for fear of "seeming
weird".
Lots of things like this, that you can easily realize by looking for
dominance(not MEAN but MORE based dominance).
Now these alone will not achieve attraction fully.
At this point she simply has submitted to your frame and is now
admiring you, attracted to you as a persona.
You will start to then notice her do opposite behaviors things like:
Never giving you eye contact for more than a few seconds with a certain
look in here eye you have to know to know.
Running off and looking back at you playfully.
Play fighting with you and losing rather easy.
Jumping on your back to get a piggy back ride.
Jumping on your front and wrapping her legs around you.
Trying to make you tickle her.
Asking your opinion on things in the conversation.
Things to suck you in to the mating ritual, naturally start to come out
of her.
At this point you simply need to go sexual state on her fully:
Project the sexuality through your tone of voice.
Touch her more sensually/slower and longer strokes.
Get closer and closer to her.
Give her deep sensual eye contact.
She will at this point:
1. At a neurological level she will see you as a lover, because you are
taking the actions of a lover. This works a lot like "anchors" of the
Pavolvian sense (CS), but more modern HUMAN biological psychology
instead. Different areas of the brain process this than sense (visual,
auditory, kinosethetic) based anchors, and she feels a sense of
similarity with you as a lover from her awareness of other people. This
also works in other terms like the (UCS)in that she feels she SHOULD
act on it because she HAS in the past.
2. She will follow your sexual state because of the dominance set in
before. She begins to herself slide in to the sexual state as part of
her overall attraction to you, and hence becomes biologically attracted
as well.
3. No science here, but I suspect from all I know it is, she once going
sexual also begins to wonder "why" she is attracted, and attributes
good qualities to you. Like "fractionating" theory. Basically she says
if she is in to looks and knows it: "oh it must be because he has
strong arms", if she is in to money and knows it: "this guy is so smart
he has a lot of potential" even though you may be fat and broke. As she
does not 100% KNOW you are attracted, as you have not told her you are,
yet SHE is becoming attracted she will come up with her own
reasons/excuses if you are not her "classic type".
Put all 3 together, or AT LEAST the first two from biological fact, you
have attraction achieved that you can easily close her based on, the
sooner the better.
hasn't studied it, so read carefully.
Ok we all know at some base level people are attracted to each other
based on their body, face, hair, build or their overall looks.
That's the simple first fact of it. Simple absolute truth.
In this game, in this community however, our goal is of course to use
that thing between her ears to get her attracted, regardless of having
ideal overall looks for her ideal.
What I will explain here is how to get her brain working in the proper
directions, so she will when be influenced in her choices about you.
When I studied everything from neurology to biological psychology to
physiological psychology, I always had an eye on that exact mechanism.
The "choice mechanism", what was it, how could I work in to it and
influence it?
I never imagined I would even have a debate with someone in my life who
did not work at it from this angle. Never imagined this because the use
of "changing someone's choices", for influence in any area, is of
course NEED ONE.
Any practitioner of influence who doesn't understand this and exactly
how it works has no hope of ever understanding their game fully.
So what is the first and foremost understanding one needs to have in
interpersonal influence?
Between a man and a woman?
Psychology 101 here so don't write it off, and if you are a woman,
unless you have attended a university and studied the **** don't tell
me I am wrong, out of ego:
Sex is an act of submission for a woman, to an overall dominance of her
being.
To be penetrated, to take in, to be filled up with someone else is an
act of submission. This is not to say women do not enjoy the act, they
in fact love it, but it is hard wired in the DNA of heterosexual women
that this submission is the ultimate in sexual pleasure.
If anyone knows their **** already and wants the "gattaca" dna
breakdown and consequence from the chemical reactions behind it on male
vs female neurons look it up yourself. Or if enough ask for it I will
draw it up and get it online.
Of course looks can come in to play and cause a biological attraction
to the guy which fosters this, but does not make it happen by itself.
We won't concern ourselves with that element of it however. Everyone
who knows anything knows to look their socially acceptable best for the
mating game already. Anyone who knows anything also knows good looking
guys **** up their attraction game just as bad if not worse than others
at times.
Without going in to all the exact science and filling up 30 pages, just
know that women take in, men put in. Not in some little kid fashion,
but hard wired in the resulting DNA from the x and y chromosones.
We cannot however just walk up and put our penis inside of her to
achieve this.
We need dominant behaviors to trigger this inside her mind that will
result in her feeling submissive.
First what is "dominant" to her "submissive" nature?
As you look at the below traits listed, think of how women possessing
them have a harder time with men in general, how they repulse us, or in
the guy with no game, even scare him away.
Quick list of traits:
Being masculine.
Being looked up to by others.
Being of more social intelligence than others.
Being able to let loose and not hold back/confidence in actions.
Having a stronger persona than her.
Having a more powerful positive state than her.
Lots more.
Now I don't want this to get TOO long so I will list some behavior and
situations you can get examples of that are these things:
Oldie but a goody, not supplicating. Instant ****ed up frame is
established when you kiss ass of course.
Having a conversation with her and she says she doesn't like something
you say you like, saying "well you don't know **** about it woman!"
tongue in cheek is dominant without being a ****. While on the other
hand saying "come to think of it yeah it is stupid" breaks frame.
Something I like to do at bars and clubs and parties is have a stronger
party vibe than everyone else. An "UP" state which inside of I will:
Walk up to a chick and put up my fists as if to fight and when she puts
hers up play fight super light with her until she turns her back to me
from me fake slapping at her.
I will literally walk up and pick up a chick. On my shoulder and carry
her away.
If a chick does the "ahhhh scream and run away" thing mid conversation
I will chase after her and grab her around the waist and pick her up.
If a chick busts my balls about something, maybe makes a joke at me, I
will put her in a light headlock.
If you are reading these saying "I ain't like that though that's what
other guys do with their girlfriends" you are dead on right. That's why
they are some other guys girlfriend, not yours.
Other things I will do is if in a deep conversation with a chick and
she is talking a lot and offering a lot more insight in to the topic, I
will change the subject to something *I* am more well versed in and not
act phased by her insights.
I frame women and other men as a student and me as the teacher in
conversations. I ain't a rude and interrupting guy, and I don't talk
down to people. But I also tell people how it is, I don't go "uhmmm
maybe you should think about getting rid of that car if you can". I say
"get rid a that car that sounds like a piece of ****"
Dedication to what you say. Not "approval hopefully for saying this" is
the key.
Old one here in this community but I don't look away first when eyes
lock with mine, chicks or guys. I make sure they look away first.
Another old one, I don't speak super fast, I come off like people
actually want to hear what I have to say and will wait. I naturally
talk fast so have to work at this one sometimes.
I see myself as masculine, a man, not a boy, and project that to
people.
I will tickle you, I will tickle her, someone tickles me I don't
giggle, they do.
I don't always feel the need to answer everything everyone says to me.
Someone says something trivial like "this is a cool song" that I just
put on the radio I don't go in to a novel about how I like it.
I pick up words. Phrases I like and words other people don't use, I use
em, and talk how I want to talk, I don't hold back for fear of "seeming
weird".
Lots of things like this, that you can easily realize by looking for
dominance(not MEAN but MORE based dominance).
Now these alone will not achieve attraction fully.
At this point she simply has submitted to your frame and is now
admiring you, attracted to you as a persona.
You will start to then notice her do opposite behaviors things like:
Never giving you eye contact for more than a few seconds with a certain
look in here eye you have to know to know.
Running off and looking back at you playfully.
Play fighting with you and losing rather easy.
Jumping on your back to get a piggy back ride.
Jumping on your front and wrapping her legs around you.
Trying to make you tickle her.
Asking your opinion on things in the conversation.
Things to suck you in to the mating ritual, naturally start to come out
of her.
At this point you simply need to go sexual state on her fully:
Project the sexuality through your tone of voice.
Touch her more sensually/slower and longer strokes.
Get closer and closer to her.
Give her deep sensual eye contact.
She will at this point:
1. At a neurological level she will see you as a lover, because you are
taking the actions of a lover. This works a lot like "anchors" of the
Pavolvian sense (CS), but more modern HUMAN biological psychology
instead. Different areas of the brain process this than sense (visual,
auditory, kinosethetic) based anchors, and she feels a sense of
similarity with you as a lover from her awareness of other people. This
also works in other terms like the (UCS)in that she feels she SHOULD
act on it because she HAS in the past.
2. She will follow your sexual state because of the dominance set in
before. She begins to herself slide in to the sexual state as part of
her overall attraction to you, and hence becomes biologically attracted
as well.
3. No science here, but I suspect from all I know it is, she once going
sexual also begins to wonder "why" she is attracted, and attributes
good qualities to you. Like "fractionating" theory. Basically she says
if she is in to looks and knows it: "oh it must be because he has
strong arms", if she is in to money and knows it: "this guy is so smart
he has a lot of potential" even though you may be fat and broke. As she
does not 100% KNOW you are attracted, as you have not told her you are,
yet SHE is becoming attracted she will come up with her own
reasons/excuses if you are not her "classic type".
Put all 3 together, or AT LEAST the first two from biological fact, you
have attraction achieved that you can easily close her based on, the
sooner the better.
... But thats just me
